So many marriages will/has failed due to so many
reasons. Some of the cogent reasons are as follows:
1. Not knowing the partner properly: Knowing one's
partner is the purpose of courtship, but to some certain
religion there is limit to courtship which doesn't give
those that wish to be together for the rest of their life
the room to know each other properly. Within there so
called "censored courtship" so many things could be
hidden by any of the two parties just to make sure the
other doesn't go away,and it will definitely come to play
after they are married which might not be bearable for
the other party. For example, the chances of a woman
whom due to the "censored courtship" couldn't establish
her kitchen abilities in the man's house for him to
examine and be satisfied with the ability of his wife-to-
be is shaky because she might not be able to prepare
good meals for the man not forgetting that stomach is
the way to a man's heart, if a woman cannot cook such
marriage is determined.
2. Poverty : This is a very important issue when it comes
to marriage, no matter the level of love, money is
essential for its maintenance. There must be money for
food, to give the children quality education and to take
care of other essential needs in the family.
3. Lack of Wife's financial support : many women are the
cause of their own family failure when the only thing
they do is to sit down, sleep, wake, cook and not
engage in fetching income for the family. It is a most for
the wife to financially engage herself in the running of
the family. Full house wife is a big home breaker, not
even in this century should a woman sit at home without
doing something to fetch the family more income. A
family that the wife waits for the husband to give money
for matches, maggi or salt will break at any moment. A
man will always be happy when he is assured that his
back is covered.
4. Lack of proper communication : Communication is
essential in marriage. Proper communication makes the
two parties to know what they lack at the appropriate
time. Proper communication makes differences to be
very easy to resolve.
5. Not doing what you used to do when courting: This is
common among men, they tend to change immediately
after marriage forgetting that most of the things they
did while courting(plays, assistance, was responsible for
the lady to have said "yes" to their proposal. Ladies too
are guilty of this offence. They tend to endure during
the period of courting but immediately after marriage
they bring out the beast in them, this attitude will never
develop any marriage but destroy it.
6. Sex: This is one of the major reasons of marriage
failures. In some cases the husband might be very
active sexually while the opposite is the case for the
wife or vice versa. One might look for other means If
that person is not properly satisfied sexually not
considering the other person. This is very dangerous to
do since sexual Intercourse brings about intimacy
between the couple, sharing this intimacy with another
person is deadly especially when the true partner get to
know.
7. Time : Most men/women are so particular about the
financial status of the home forgetting that their wife/
husband is another currency that needs time to be
explored. No matter how much the money is been sort
after there must be enough and reasonable time to be
spared to spend with the wife/husband or perhaps with
the kids. Leaving the woman/man for a long period of
time may bring other destroying thought into her/his
mind which will be detrimental to the home.
8. Not contented: Any marriage will break if one of the
couple isn't contented with whatever he/she derives
from the house. For example, the man must be
contented with the meals even when something is
wrong with it not forgetting that the wife is a human
who is bound to be imperfect. Sorting for a better meal
due to the error committed by the wife might lead the
husband to eat from the pot of the enemy which the
result will definitely be against the marriage. And the
couple must be contented with the sexual desire of the
other or else such marriage is bound to break.

http://bamisepeters..in/2015/01/8-causes-of-marriage-failure.html?m=1

On point!

OP are you married ??

iphanyiuma:
OP are you married ??

Good Q

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