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Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by lalasticlala(m): 10:48am On Apr 26, 2015 |
I got this mail from a Nairaland visitor who seriously needs advice. Please help her by offering her good and useful pieces of advice that would help raise her spirits high.. My lover of 4 and half years just broke up with me and I feel like my life is over...Females in d house, how do I get on with my life..? UPDATE 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Nobody: 10:49am On Apr 26, 2015 |
lalasticlala: Morning lala 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Twaci(f): 10:49am On Apr 26, 2015 |
Its sad, really. Well I won't start that all guys are wicked and the same rubbish....Rather lemme say this, girl, he aint worth you. Everything happens for a reason, even breakups. Let him go, don't cling (that's stupid), don't even bother wondering if he misses you (yeah, I can read minds and I know that's what you are thinking)....just stand up, dust the memories off your shoulders (won't be easy, I know), and smile. Smile because a better man is coming for you. Oh yeah, in the meantime, work on yourself....we don't really know why he left, so, just learn and move on. #my2cents 78 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by 20bc(m): 10:50am On Apr 26, 2015 |
she should smoke some weed first... Then she should confront her ex and ask "waiting day sup". before going her own way....life is too short to start living it with one person or killing yourself over past event.... 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by KingTom(m): 10:50am On Apr 26, 2015 |
lalasticlala:Get yourself together! |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Nobody: 10:51am On Apr 26, 2015 |
Bro did u collect her phone number? 8 Likes |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Elslim: 10:51am On Apr 26, 2015 |
Shit happens... learn to move On |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by lalasticlala(m): 10:52am On Apr 26, 2015 |
Lala247: Ya. Pls the lady in question needs advice, so u can help her 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Doortun(m): 10:52am On Apr 26, 2015 |
Life goes on... She prolly saw it from the start. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Nobody: 10:53am On Apr 26, 2015 |
Ok .. I think you should give it a few days let it settle Sometimes people say and do things they dont mean.. This is because uve been together for 4years ( no be joke) You can still get back together depending in circumstance of breakup . Dont worry it hurts at first .. It will get easier . ( ur not alone - chics suffer this everyday) Trust me his feeling exactly the same no matter how much he tries to hide it.. Take a break , go on holiday, put ur energy i to work or studies he will come bk Hope u didnt cheat sha.. 7 Likes |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by jnrbayano(m): 10:53am On Apr 26, 2015 |
Replace him! Before that you need to evaluate yourself to finding out the things which you may not have done right.. |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by agarawu23(m): 10:54am On Apr 26, 2015 |
yes! it will be hard to move on but you have no other choice. if you know buy fake you will never know the value of Original 4years + relationship, chai ! the guy Bleep up BTW hope na marriage after sex relationship? |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by RoyalBlak007: 10:54am On Apr 26, 2015 |
Simple..........MOVE ON therz no fuzz about breakups! |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Nobody: 10:55am On Apr 26, 2015 |
jnrbayano: Haba just like that have u been in a four year relationship .. Its not that easy |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by agarawu23(m): 10:56am On Apr 26, 2015 |
Lala247:dis ur gum body with lala.stic don dey too much he is married with two kids OK? 6 Likes |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Cholls(m): 10:57am On Apr 26, 2015 |
KingTom:my brother you mean he should get himself a life. |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Nobody: 10:58am On Apr 26, 2015 |
Sigh |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Nobody: 10:58am On Apr 26, 2015 |
agarawu23: So saying morning to someone shows wt Next time dont assume things .. Mind ur biz . When i chat to anyonelse u dont cht cuz its lala . Uve grown wings .. Mind ur biz Nigerian ppl n tbeir sick mentality just cuz ur nice to someone doesnt mean anything .. Swerve abeg 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Nobody: 10:59am On Apr 26, 2015 |
Acting like his not educated so morning gum body n i thought u get sense self kmt Sorry @ Op Just sick ok kids on this site |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by jnrbayano(m): 11:01am On Apr 26, 2015 |
Lala247: For someone to dump her after four years of dating suggests she isn't a fixture in the guys future. BTW why would they date for that long and still not consolidate the relationship in something more serious (marriage)? 3 Likes |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by agarawu23(m): 11:02am On Apr 26, 2015 |
Lala247:Its too early to give u harsh reply cool down and av a wonderful sunday 5 Likes |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Nobody: 11:02am On Apr 26, 2015 |
Agarawu23 u self notice abi? Little wonder why her signature change to what's it atm Sigh agarawu23: Broz advice her ooooo! Maybe she like be 2nd wife sha who knows! |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Nobody: 11:04am On Apr 26, 2015 |
jnrbayano: wait n see they might still get bk together. But some people stay together longer than that and eventually get married . it depends sha I think she should have given the reason y he dumped her so we can understand better . 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by MrCork: 11:04am On Apr 26, 2015 |
lalasticlala: ...is she light skin? 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Nobody: 11:05am On Apr 26, 2015 |
olaxco2f: Yh but im in uk n his whereever he is pls use ur brain once in a while Displaying stupidity aint cute .. Lol my sig cn mean anything .. So if i say im getting married una go swallow chop lol |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Beamborla(f): 11:09am On Apr 26, 2015 |
At least, he's not dying. Kpele. Tomorrow is another day. Take it one day at a time and you would be fine. Allow yourself to grief; cry if you feel the urge. It's good to let out and it enhances healing.(just don't do it too much) Pick yourself together. Work on yourself and don't settle for less. You still deserve the best. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Nobody: 11:09am On Apr 26, 2015 |
agarawu23: Wtever .. Why would u need to When i was giving u kiss d other day u didnt tlk .. Hypocrite Abeg gerra out men ..n to think i put among the gents .. Lol wrong .. Nah wetin lala dey b ur problem |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Nobody: 11:10am On Apr 26, 2015 |
Beamborla: Lol uve been there too abi Morning |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Nobody: 11:13am On Apr 26, 2015 |
MrCork:I doubt No sane man would dump a light skin woman 3 Likes |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by Nobody: 11:14am On Apr 26, 2015 |
20bc How body , morning didnt see u again last night Wt should the girl do |
Re: Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her by ayusco85(m): 11:14am On Apr 26, 2015 |
She prolly wasn't good enough for him. I believe the problem is with her not with him. Advice: She shld stay off relationships for nw and focus on developing herself. And she shld work on her bad sides or annoying attitudes 2 Likes 1 Share |
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