I am really hoping to hear and learn how you guys manage a time of heart break from some one you once loved and how you did come out of the pain.


I personally have been heart broken for more than 7 times and every time that happens it seams like dieing. But still after some times you come out of it, you just want to go into another relationship despite the fear of another heart break.
I am yet to get an answer,

Ok! It seams the topic points acusing finger at me. 7 times is an estimate since 1993 that i started dating, All i wanted was "How one can eliminate heart break if its possible or not" I am doing research on the topic if you guys must know.

(Thank you all for your response and yabis and i want to personally thank "eyonigger" for the correction. we all make mistake don't we.

And for you "hollandis" Please be very honest to yourself and tell all of us here on nairaland that in the past 6 years of your life at least, that you've never made any mistake in grammer either by writing or by speaking. And if you lie to us, then let it be upon you that you will always make mistakes henceforth that will cost you half of your fortune each time you do. 

I am not laying a curse ooo! but just acting like Jesus did during His time when a prostitute was brought before Him to be stone to death. So "hollandis" cast your stone now or tender an apology not to me but to all nairalanders.) I come across grammertical error every time and if i cannot correct then i keep my mouth. We all learn every day. 

Otherwise i know your type, you pretend to be what you are not and never going to be. Feel too much when you are nothing, make a change "Pride goes before a fall"

Damn, u dont came out of no heartbreak.
U've been heartbroken 7 times,
Are u testing the elasticity of ur heart or wat, ?

Have You Been Broken Hearted Before, How Did You Came Out?

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just stay right there brother, cos u may hurt your self trying to caming out

er, closure?

These ur heartbreaks are really doing something to ur english. Dieing, Came out. Hahahahahaha

smooooooth:

Have You Been Broken Hearted Before, How Did You Came Out?

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just stay right there brother, cos u may hurt your self trying to caming out

Hahahaha, smooooth u be craze person, u for just correct the dude instead of worsening the grammatical error he committed. Poster modify your subject by changing your came to come, two past tenses cannot go all at once. Please do that quick b4 heatfusion, siskill,phoenix busybody and other's come at ur rescue. Infact reverse that broken hearted to heartbroken.

I personally have been broken hearted for more than 7 times and every time that happens it seams like dieing. But still after some times you come out of it, you just want to go into

. . .and you kept looking for more heartbreaking partners.

na wa o

Thank your stars they weren't divorces.
The problem might be with you -check yourself,step up your game-and let hooking up come naturally.
Heartbreaks happen-only when you allow it to.

No!

@ OP. . . . . sowwy o!!

@moyola -your profile pic is right on the money.

U just have to examine urself properly to know where ur problem lies. Heartbroken 7 times! Damn, U just have to know the right time to quit, so that you'll be the victor and not the vanquished.

7 times
ur heart get stone insyd or wat?

I want to knwo if all this girls never use AXE on ur heart.There is no room for another girl now oh.Just stay out of girls for 7years first.HAHAHAHA

7 times? How old are you? Are you sure you are not the problem? i think you are.
Please save the babes the time wasting and examine yourself well before going into another relationship.

Heart break? ~~~~~~~23 and still counting

No heart breaks 4 me because the signs are always there so i take a bow before the light goes out

@ lovelace Heartbreaks happen-only when you allow it to.


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I don't agree with that line of argument. Heart break does not happen only when you allow it, often times you try to give a relationship the best shot, but it just does not work out. but when it happens 7 times and still counting, then there  is definately a problem somewhere.

No.

kinda troubled

@ poster
My guy, they say, experience is the best teacher. How come after 6 times of being heartbroken u still allow the seventh one to happen. Be sure they will keep breaking ur heart till ur wedding day.

My kindly advise is that u should not rush into any relashionship again. Take time and examine (not learn) the gal's xter.
Dont shw the gal that u luv her so much (let her b in a state of doubt). Act and speak like a matured person, dont b childish n try to b a man which u are. Also b sensitive so that u can quit b4 she thinks of dumping u. Let the word " I am sorry" lack from ur mouth. Dont beg for friendship but command frendship.

Hope u understood my point in my last sentence. Gudluck

@Virgie
My points exactly. It happened 7 times for the poster -only because he allowed it.
You give it your best shot like you said-but believe me, there are always tell tale signs right from the start.
The signs might not be noticed by you, but say by friends or family members-but most times we are often blinded by love to even notice them until its too late.

the only time a girl dumped me, i fell into a sewage chanell on the way home. i was so stupified

I am not deliberately looking for grammar mistakes or misspellings or blunders but what the hell is "came out" ,these shellers replying too

@Topic,

Nope. havent been heartbrokn yet.

Nope. havent been heartbrokn yet.

And pray never to experience it cos u may not survive the pains. It hurts alot

gabry, am ready to broken ut hearted o

@shofu2000
Quit whining Any poster or thread starter can have a title and contents that contains excusable terrible English as far as I'm concerned ,their errors were due to haste:-I'm not bothered about their grammer as long as they make a point! but not issues like the calamity and commotion you caused before you spell checked your entire entry.came out ko, caming out ni

u need not experience it well it makes one strong and there are always lessons to learn

Quote from: smooooooth on February 04, 2009, 12:48 PM
Have You Been Broken Hearted Before, How Did You Came Out?

Shocked Shocked Shocked.

just stay right there brother, cos u may hurt your self trying to caming out


Hahahaha, smooooth u be craze person, u for just correct the dude instead of worsening the grammatical error he committed. Poster modify your subject by changing your came to come, two past tenses cannot go all at once. Please do that quick b4 heatfusion, siskill,phoenix busybody and other's come at ur rescue. Infact reverse that broken hearted to heartbroken.



Poster, good u finally heed to my advise, changing the necessary error. Would have included Hollandis name as part of those terror squad. My bad!!

Me I be Ice Maiden, I no get heart but im a broken hearts collector.

bros just check your self,for you to have up to 7 heartbreaks thats means some thing is wrong some were