kitnah:
Nothing hurt most than seeing your messages being read without reply,instead I'll rather not read your message than read and not reply

trust. Girls do it alot n I never understand why. Last time I ask a friend how thing are ggoing with some girl he is alking to...he told him she hasn't responded to a msg from about four days ago. Why she did that is beyond me. ...it happened to me a while ago and I just delete her on sight. I dont have time for that

Mzdivacious:
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see them...

Enahi:
Seriously what's the biggy about replying messages? It takes me a week or months to reply messages but its not delibrate,guys should realize that people are different.

what?? Did you really just say that?? So you have some guy on your bbm or whatsapp list who sent you a message about a week ago and you still haven't replied?? You are the exact girl we are talking about. .
it is a big deal, besides it being rude and not polite...it says alot aboutyou in more ways than you think.

Ucheosefoh:
Kids or teenagers does that a lot it is called shakara or hard to get, they will complain and moan when the guy block them or ignore them because their myopic mind tells them that a guy is meant to work hard to get them so that they will know he loves and will respect her when she finally agreed but who have such time to waste? Many fishes in the river

~ not just kids or teenage girls.. Even Ladies

~ Because their egos have been crushed....

To me,no one has deleted me from their list b4 So I can't know the feeling



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Mhizkel:

Yeah sure..But what they don't know is, accepting a guys proposal easily doesn't make you cheap! Rather, your contribution to the relationship does..(i.e..demanding too much from a guy you just started dating and allowing him have sex with you immediately after acceptin his proposal ).. Some girls have lost some good guys all in the name of forming hard to get! Either you accept the guy immediately he approahed you or it took 2years before accepting him, a guy that will cherish you will

~ @bold 1... I don't think that's a criterion. Having sex immediately after accepting to be his girlfriend doesn't make her cheap. That's just a lame and hypocritical Nigerian mentality..

@bold2 ...I don't think so too.. You tend to forget that there are many other girls out there. If you play hard especially if he's rich, he loses interest and moves on. boom!

justmag:


what?? Did you really just say that?? So you have some guy on your bbm or whatsapp list who sent you a message about a week ago and you still haven't replied?? You are the exact girl we are talking about. .
it is a big deal, besides it being rude and not polite...it says alot aboutyou in more ways than you think.

~ What if she doesn't wanna reply you.?
is it necessary to be polite? Or is it every girl you talk in the real world that's gonna like you... ?

If she doesn't reply for a long period and its obvious sjr has read it, try reaching out again...you can always send- "Are you there"..If she don't reply still, then delete her contact and add a more Interactive and interesting person.

Mhizkel:

And @ the end, they turn to sister Mary..Going to church everyday,seeking for a life partner

Can I take u out on date?

Well said Mhizkel. Hope ur friends can get this message.

Darkrebel666:


~ @bold 1... I don't think that's a criterion. Having sex immediately after accepting to be his girlfriend doesn't make her cheap. That's just a lame and hypocritical Nigerian mentality..

@bold2 ...I don't think so too.. You tend to forget that there are many other girls out there. If you play hard especially if he's rich, he loses interest and moves on. boom!

Allowing a guy to have sex with you immediately after accepting his proposal, is cheap! Accept it or not!
Read the bolded2 again!

wristwatch:

Can I take u out on date?
Well said Mhizkel. Hope ur friends can get this message.

Thank You!

Darkrebel666:



~ not just kids or teenage girls.. Even Ladies

You are right, na that one dey vex me pass but I still call them kids cus their mindset is that of kids and teenagers

Darkrebel666:


~ What if she doesn't wanna reply you.?
is it necessary to be polite? Or is it every girl you talk in the real world that's gonna like you... ?

If she doesn't reply for a long period and its obvious sjr has read it, try reaching out again...you can always send- "Are you there"..If she don't reply still, then delete her contact and add a more Interactive and interesting person.

That's the problem right there. Why should I resend a message when it is obvious that she is ignoring my message. There are girls that will tell you they dont see u that way and call it a day and there are girls that play games and ignore your message. A grown asss woman has no problem with saying how she feels but children will play games, that's all they knoe anyways. Keep it in mind that this is a social platform where it is obvious that she is ignoring, for example, what's app, Facebook and bbm let's you know when you message has been read. No one with common sense expects every girl to like them, but it would be nice to not play mind games with adults. Don't u think??

Some guys don't even know when to stop sending.

justmag:


That's the problem right there. Why should I resend a message when it is obvious that she is ignoring my message. There are girls that will tell you they dont see u that way and call it a day and there are girls that play games and ignore your message. A grown asss woman has no problem with saying how she feels but children will play games, that's all they knoe anyways. Keep it in mind that this is a social platform where it is obvious that she is ignoring, for example, what's app, Facebook and bbm let's you know when you message has been read. No one with common sense expects every girl to like them, but it would be nice to not play mind games with adults. Don't u think??

~ Sending her a message again is a sign of maturity...
They are the fragile and babyish ones. We are meant to be the mature ones

Darkrebel666:



~ Sending her a message again is a sign of maturity...
They are the fragile and babyish ones. We are meant to be the mature ones

Okay! If you say so..

Enypie:
Some guys don't even know when to stop sending.

When u ignore them? ? Or in general??..

Mhizkel:

Allowing a guy to have sex with you immediately after accepting his proposal, is cheap! Accept it or not!
Read the bolded2 again!

~ That is so not true girl ...

If your mum told you that she had sex with your dad on their first date, does that make her cheap? of course not!

You can have sex whenever you want as long as both of you really want it and like each other very Much... .. The time doesn't matter .. It does not make her cheap. Its not like she was played for sex...

So ..if I ask you to be my girlfriend today and you agree. ..how long would it take before we have sex? 10 months?

Mhizkel:
Some girls and their forming hard to get nature..They should just keep forming hard to get until their parents put their name on OLx!

Hahahaha!! U sef suppose dey OLX

justmag:


Okay! If you say so..

~ Lol ...
I tried that anyway..and the girl felt guilty and started apologising saying she was very busy...
Assuming I hadn't humbled myself I would have ignored too and we wouldn't have had the opportunity to know each other and be close friends till this moment....
you get my point?

Darkrebel666:


~ Lol ...
I tried that anyway..and the girl felt guilty and started apologising saying she was very busy...
Assuming I hasn't humbled myself I would have ignored too and we wouldn't have had the opportunity to know each other and be close friends till this moment....
you get my point?

I get what you mean...but this only applies to certain girls. How about those girls who make a habit out of it. You talk for a while and then she ignores u, and then u message her like u said and then she talks for a while and ignores u all over again. This is how my friend described his situation. As for me, I am not as nice as you are. If you ignore me for two or three days! DELETE!!!!

Well am guilty of this sha

But have got my reasons

diddydiva:
Well am guilty of this sha

But have got my reasons

~ So what are they?

justmag:

When u ignore them? ? Or in general??..

I ignore no one. #peace#

kinglekan:

Hahahaha!! U sef suppose dey OLX

Me ke? Nor be the day wey u toast me na im i gree sharpaly?

Darkrebel666:


~ So what are they?

1) my mood
2) irrelevant chats
3)dumb guys (guys who don't know when to stop)
4)boring chats
5)your relationship with me
6) my nature (I don't talk much so I hate guys who does)


I prefer to start a chat with someone, and I don't feel offended if you block me. But am fun to be with sha (my friends can testify


I am me

Darkrebel666:


~ That is so not true girl ...

If your mum told you that she had sex with your dad on their first date, does that make her cheap? of course not!

You can have sex whenever you want as long as both of you really want it and like each other very Much... .. The time doesn't matter .. It does not make her cheap. Its not like she was played for sex...

So ..if I ask you to be my girlfriend today and you agree. ..how long would it take before we have sex? 10 months?

You should have used another illustration instead of my mom (not cool)
IF i agree to be your gf today, it would take 101years before we can have sex

justmag:


I get what you mean...but this only applies to certain girls. How about those girls who make a habit out of it. You talk for a while and then she ignores u, and then u message her like u said and then she talks for a while and ignores u all over again. This is how my friend described his situation. As for me, I am not as nice as you are. If you ignore me for two or three days! DELETE!!!!

~ True talk
I'm not nice as well.. its only when I wanna bang the girl that I play Mr Nice guy

Mhizkel:
Me ke? Nor be the day wey u toast me na im i gree sharpaly?

Hian!!!!
If I hear say u gree make I baf naked!!

Mhizkel:

You should have used another illustration instead of my mom (not cool)
IF i agree to be your gf today, it would take 101years before we can have sex

~ Oh...I'm really sorry about that...

wow! Are you high on Codeine or what? 101 years?
Smh ... That's the way they'll be saying..
50 bucks says you would succumb and jump on the bed within 2 days You are just acting here..

diddydiva:

1) my mood
2) irrelevant chats
3)dumb guys (guys who don't know when to stop)
4)boring chats
5)your relationship with me
6) my nature (I don't talk much so I hate guys who does)


I prefer to start a chat with someone, and I don't feel offended if you block me. But am fun to be with sha (my friends can testify


I am me

~ Okay..Fair enough