Now am even more confused. How are this girls wired? i don tire. I really don't blame guys cheating or maltreating any girl after all they turned d guy to the beast he is... Now to my story i have known the lady a long time even before i met my X girl friend we have been good friends for a long long time and when myself and my ex were having issues she was like my confidant and the one that i always poured my heart too Naturally, It only made us more closer there fore developing Huge feelings and affections which in-turn turned to love. After my Ex she was the person i started dating at 1st it was like we understood each other a lot been friends for years. But months later she changed. i am that guy that gives my lady anything because i don't want them to look out there i give her 100% attention and care all because i don't want them to give excuses. Even when i travel out of the country or am so busy i make provisions for them to just feel safe. But all this has been taken for granted and i am so confused because this is some1 that has always been advising me in my past relationship. She does exactly the opposite of what she advised . if i call her now she hardly picks she returns calls only when she is comfy. But when its time for the money she knows my number although i stopped from giving her money recently. I don't know what she wants anymore? Now my question. is Given all your time and resources too much for a girl to handle ? Because it seems the more you show care love and affection the more you get taken for granted. Because if this doesn't work i would never be a good guy again.

are u a learner?