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How To Talk To Women And Getting Her Attention by yungmarshall(m): 7:36pm On May 06, 2015
1. You should talk about “emotional” topics like childhood
memories, future ambitions, or her passions. These
conversation topics will open up her emotional floodgates.

2. Women want a guy who is not afraid to lead her. While
talking to a woman take control of the conversation. Never
wait for her to dictate what you’ll be talking about.

3. Pay attention to the non verbal cues a woman is giving
you. If you’re standing too close to her, accidentally
spitting when you talk, or making her feel uncomfortable in
any way… she will send you hints. Pay attention to them.

4. Remember this motto “Fun not Funny.” Women are
attracted to men who allow them to have fun. Don’t
concentrate on having the funniest jokes. Concentrate on
showing them the most excitement and enjoyment.

5. Tease women. One of the easiest ways to take a
conversation to a fun and flirty level is to begin to tease
women. Think back to your time on the playground. In the
world of dating… what worked on the playground is
effective all over again.


6. Get intimate with her. Women are turned on by men who
are not afraid to take a conversation to a personal, intimate
level.

7. Use things like “cold reads” to turn women on. Women
love to hear opinions about themselves. Tell her what you
observe about her.

8. Avoid complimenting a woman too much. Women are
turned off by men who come across as “needy.” If you are
complimenting a woman too much she will think you’re
trying to impress her. Which will have the opposite effect.

9. If you want to know how to talk to women in a way that
doesn’t bore them… Avoid asking too many “interview”
style questions. Instead state your opinion about things.


10. Remember: Statements over questions. Instead of
saying “where did you grow up?” Say “You don’t look like
you grew up around here.” This allows you to make
observations about her and express your personality.


11. Don’t hide your identity. Don’t be afraid to talk about
whatever you’re passionate about.

12. Never compliment her on her eyes, looks, or body.

13. Say something that lets her know that you view her in a
“sexual” way. If you don’t, you run the risk of winding up in
the “friend zone”.


14. Use conversation “games” to keep the mood fun and
flirtatious. Games can be anything like “truth or dare” or to
less extreme games like the “5 questions game”.

15. Don’t give away your hand so fast. Women like men
who are a challenge. If you want to keep a woman’s
interest she has to feel like she is slowly winning you over.
If she thinks you’re too easy… she’ll lose interest.

16. Add yours
Re: How To Talk To Women And Getting Her Attention by Nobody: 7:38pm On May 06, 2015
*Spreads mat *

Call me when the food is ready....

Okay.. Nice post op, but we've already known this since 19AD.. . This post should be for the children here




EricRichie

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Re: How To Talk To Women And Getting Her Attention by Tattooboy: 7:43pm On May 06, 2015
Nice one
Re: How To Talk To Women And Getting Her Attention by Nobody: 8:07pm On May 06, 2015
[quote author=EricRichie post=33484541]*Spreads mat *

Call me when the food is ready....

Okay.. Nice post op, but we've already known this since 19AD.. . This post should be for the children here



Food is ready, come and eat.
Re: How To Talk To Women And Getting Her Attention by Nobody: 10:46pm On May 06, 2015
oyin17:
food is ready. Come and eat.

Thanks dear. . That's why I love you.. . cheesy



EricRichie
Re: How To Talk To Women And Getting Her Attention by guidotti(m): 6:14am On May 07, 2015
does it mean dt one must have des 15tips in mind before talking to her?dn I better not try it
Re: How To Talk To Women And Getting Her Attention by loomer: 6:22am On May 07, 2015
Na nigerian women or oyibo women u de refer to?
Re: How To Talk To Women And Getting Her Attention by major466(m): 8:01am On May 07, 2015
loomer:
Na nigerian women or oyibo women u de refer to?
It doesn't matter. Women are women.
Re: How To Talk To Women And Getting Her Attention by loomer: 8:25am On May 07, 2015
major466:

It doesn't matter. Women are women.

Women are not women o,
Re: How To Talk To Women And Getting Her Attention by Nobody: 8:02pm On May 07, 2015
#12 , why not
Re: How To Talk To Women And Getting Her Attention by akaahs(m): 9:11pm On May 07, 2015
Does it mean i should crame all dis nonsense in order to win a woman heart?mtceeeeeeeeeeew
Re: How To Talk To Women And Getting Her Attention by Theophinio(m): 11:35pm On May 07, 2015
@Op Exactly Love it
Re: How To Talk To Women And Getting Her Attention by hottest111: 6:44pm On May 08, 2015
Every time is about women... what of "how to talk to a man and get his attention"undecided
Re: How To Talk To Women And Getting Her Attention by Theophinio(m): 2:50pm On May 13, 2015
yungmarshall:
1. You should talk about “emotional” topics like childhood
memories, future ambitions, or her passions. These
conversation topics will open up her emotional floodgates.

2. Women want a guy who is not afraid to lead her. While
talking to a woman take control of the conversation. Never
wait for her to dictate what you’ll be talking about.

3. Pay attention to the non verbal cues a woman is giving
you. If you’re standing too close to her, accidentally
spitting when you talk, or making her feel uncomfortable in
any way… she will send you hints. Pay attention to them.

4. Remember this motto “Fun not Funny.” Women are
attracted to men who allow them to have fun. Don’t
concentrate on having the funniest jokes. Concentrate on
showing them the most excitement and enjoyment.

5. Tease women. One of the easiest ways to take a
conversation to a fun and flirty level is to begin to tease
women. Think back to your time on the playground. In the
world of dating… what worked on the playground is
effective all over again.


6. Get intimate with her. Women are turned on by men who
are not afraid to take a conversation to a personal, intimate
level.

7. Use things like “cold reads” to turn women on. Women
love to hear opinions about themselves. Tell her what you
observe about her.

8. Avoid complimenting a woman too much. Women are
turned off by men who come across as “needy.” If you are
complimenting a woman too much she will think you’re
trying to impress her. Which will have the opposite effect.

9. If you want to know how to talk to women in a way that
doesn’t bore them… Avoid asking too many “interview”
style questions. Instead state your opinion about things.


10. Remember: Statements over questions. Instead of
saying “where did you grow up?” Say “You don’t look like
you grew up around here.” This allows you to make
observations about her and express your personality.


11. Don’t hide your identity. Don’t be afraid to talk about
whatever you’re passionate about.

12. Never compliment her on her eyes, looks, or body.

13. Say something that lets her know that you view her in a
“sexual” way. If you don’t, you run the risk of winding up in
the “friend zone”.


14. Use conversation “games” to keep the mood fun and
flirtatious. Games can be anything like “truth or dare” or to
less extreme games like the “5 questions game”.

15. Don’t give away your hand so fast. Women like men
who are a challenge. If you want to keep a woman’s
interest she has to feel like she is slowly winning you over.
If she thinks you’re too easy… she’ll lose interest.

16. Add yours
On point bro
9ice1
Re: How To Talk To Women And Getting Her Attention by drtwist(m): 5:26pm On May 13, 2015
boss actually just got some new clue from your post maybe I need to try them on my girl that is almost slipping away lets see if it work.

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