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Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by EzeUche22(m): 7:28pm On Sep 12, 2010 |
Yoruba men do not know how to treat their women. Do not make good husbands. How many Yoruba women have I see being mistreated by their Yoruba husbands. Yoruba husbands do not give a dammn about the sanctity of marriage. They cheat on their women and are not loyal. I am a firm believer if you get married, you should be entirely faithful to your spouse. |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by AloyEmeka5: 7:33pm On Sep 12, 2010 |
Ileke-IdI: This is an individual matter. There are igbos who hate Yorubas and Yorubas who hate igbos. It is very wrong to claim that Yorubas hate igbos or Igbos hate Yorubas besides, the reason your mom gave you about Igbos hating Yorubas is pure tribalism. Why will an igbo man ask for your hand in marriage when he hates your people and you? 1 Like |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by AloyEmeka5: 7:38pm On Sep 12, 2010 |
EzeUche22: That is a lie. Yoruba men are more romantic than Igbo men only that they have the tendency to share that romance to as many women as they can get. OnlyTruth is accusing Yoruba women of bewitching their men, well, it is a competition issue in the ecosystem. It is very rare to find a Yoruba man who stays faithful to his wife nowadays and the women have to gear up by using juju to control their attention deficit disorder[ADD]. If the men stay faithful, why will the women meddle with juju in the first place?. |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by AloyEmeka5: 7:41pm On Sep 12, 2010 |
EzeUche22: Sorry homeboy that you can't do nada about it. Several Igbo families do the same too when they see their son or daughter messing romantically with Yorubas. May be you need to tell us why many Igbos believe that every Yoruba person is diabolic and can poison you on contact. I have also noticed that Igbos who live in Igbo land are surprisingly less tribalistic than Igbos who live with other tribes in non Igbo land. The ones who live in Igboland just don't care about any tribe and they rarely speak ill of other tribes. |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by AloyEmeka5: 7:47pm On Sep 12, 2010 |
Ileke-IdI: In that case,concentrate on Osun men only. They are more likely to be faithful than any other men from Yorubaland. I am also 95% sure an Egba man will cheat on you. |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by AloyEmeka5: 7:57pm On Sep 12, 2010 |
tpiah: Ijebu Ode is the capital of juju and witchcraft in Africa and would have been the world capital save for Haiti. Also, jujuism is engraved in Yoruba culture and that is why it proliferates more in Yoruba land. Check the number of spiritualists, pastors, babalawos, etc churned out from Yorubaland yearly and compare with other tribes. It is very normal to find a 20 yr old Hausa/ Igbo/Ijaw/Efik, etc boy or girl who has no clue of juju or how it works but it will be very rare to find such in Yorubaland. It is very rare to find Igbo/Ijaw/Hausa/Ibibio etc women who give their married daughters juju to plant in their husbands home even when there is no cause for alarm but that behavior is not rare in Yorubaland. More likely than not, a Yoruba wife will receive juju no matter how harmless from her mother for further protection even if she lives in UK, US or New Zealand. |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by Onlytruth(m): 8:09pm On Sep 12, 2010 |
Aloy+Emeka: lol. @ Alloy The bolded can be very easily explained. Igbos are NOT intrinsically tribalistic. Most of the time, we are reactive of tribalism. We don't initiate it, but are likely to reciprocate. The Igbos in Igboland don't witness tribalism on a daily basis from other Nigerians, because those Nigerians can't do that in Igboland. Now, cross over to their own side and those same Nigerians become tribal monsters. Let me throw in this rough prognosis: A Yoruba extended family is more likely to diabolically kill an Igbo women married to a Yoruba man, than an Igbo family killing a Yoruba woman same way. That is why it is safer for an Igbo man to marry a Yoruba woman than the other way round. Much of the reason lies in the extended family (wives, babymamas, etc) role in the issue. An Igbo man will likely marry only one wife, and so, even if the family hates her, they would eventually get used to accepting the inevitable and resigning their fates with her. You can't kill a man's only wife. Now, if he has more than one, well, anything can happen, even in Igboland too. |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by Onlytruth(m): 8:15pm On Sep 12, 2010 |
Aloy+Emeka: Well, Aloy, I take correction! Yikes! I guess I can't say more then. |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by Nobody: 9:51pm On Sep 12, 2010 |
Onlytruth: Are you for real? Are you trying to say Ezeuche is reacting to something? Dude wakes up to eat and breath an imaginative enemy. If he sees none, he must create one. You know, I can also come out and claim that Yoruba ppl are only reactive of tribalism. Hypothetically, there's been more anti-tribalism Yorubas on politics than any other tribe. . . .but after a while of being thrashed they change and become tribalistic themselves. 1 Like |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by asha80(m): 10:25pm On Sep 12, 2010 |
Ileke-IdI: Check nairaland threads from when it started in 2005 to 2007 and tell how what you said above is the truth. |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by EzeUche22(m): 10:27pm On Sep 12, 2010 |
Ileke-IdI: Must you always bring up my name? You live and breathe my name. Don't use that famous Yoruba juju on me! I hear Ekiti juju is strong o! I didn't become a tribalist to Yorubas until I encountered many of you all in the U.S. I am not talking about the Yorubas who were raised in the West, I am talking about Yorubas who were raised in Naija. Remember the only groups that I encountered when I was younger were Ibibios, Igbos, Ogoni and Ijaws. Yorubas changed my view. I actually had a very favorable view of your people. And for your second statement, that is very FUNNY. |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by Nobody: 10:32pm On Sep 12, 2010 |
EzeUche22: Quit changing your story, lil boy. And stop flattering yourself, it's not cute. A while ago, you said that na only NL you display your tribalism, that you dont do it offline. And something about having Yoruba friends. . . . that you guys just joke. Anywaz, nice way to say Yoruba did ths and that when you know we cant prove you wrong. People just make stories up as they go along. |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by Nobody: 10:36pm On Sep 12, 2010 |
asha 80:I dnt believe I was in politics in that period. But since '09, Yorubas have become reactive to anti-yoruba campaign. You dont see the likes of Aigbofa and Katsumoto creating tribalistic threads. They just react to what they deem untruth and fabricated lies by other tribes. |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by EzeUche22(m): 10:41pm On Sep 12, 2010 |
Ileke-IdI: Who do you think you are talking to like that? I will not tolerate such nonsense from you. You see I clearly made the distinction, between Yorubas raised in the states and Yorubas raised in Naija. A big difference. Most of Yoruba friends were raised in the U.S. so they are not tainted with the Igbo hatred that pulses through many Yorubas raised in Naija veins. I keep on telling you that people in the East do not give a dammn about the Yoruba. Since you are rarely travel outside of your region, it is pretty rare to see a Yoruba in the East in large numbers. Are you not a person who said you could NEVER marry an Igbo man? I clearly said I could marry a Yoruba woman. |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by Nobody: 10:45pm On Sep 12, 2010 |
EzeUche22:Wait, lemme take a minute to laugh at this HAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHA!!!!!!!! HAAAAAAAAA AHAHAHAHHA!!!! ROTFLMAO!!!!! Thanks for the laughs dear EzeUche22:LMAO!!!! Oh slugger, you're really cute when you try to be serious. ahahah EzeUche22:I said I couldnt marry a Non-Yoruba man, which includes Igbo men duh. I'm not into that inter-tribal thing. Doesnt make me a tribalist, just my preference. Just like YOU dont want to marry a Fat chik. 2 Likes |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by Onlytruth(m): 11:04pm On Sep 12, 2010 |
Ileke-IdI: lol. Spot on. A carmel will have to pass through the eye of a needle before someone like myself dreams of marrying outside Igboland. Just my preference. How can I spend a whole day without speaking Igbo? Strange stuff. |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by Nobody: 11:10pm On Sep 12, 2010 |
Onlytruth:It doesnt have to be strange, if youhave $14k, there's this chick platinumk on NL. She'll do you well OASN, Exactly. It's not even just about the language. Trying to explain my culture and why this happens and that is just tiring. Now imagine trying to deal with a Ghana man who thinks I'm "weird" sometimes Anywaz, that's just for the fun of the moment until am "ready" |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by Kilode1: 11:17pm On Sep 12, 2010 |
Aloy+Emeka: For someone with an Igbo name, You watch Yoruba movies too much 2 Likes |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by Nobody: 11:19pm On Sep 12, 2010 |
Kilode?!:The chick is Yoruba, suffering from identity crisis. I see that it's better to start ignoring Funmi. 1 Like |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by asha80(m): 11:20pm On Sep 12, 2010 |
Ileke-IdI: It was the nonsense of that period that gave rise to the likes of mekus Bleep. |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by Nobody: 11:21pm On Sep 12, 2010 |
asha 80:So it's an unhealed wound. eyah, I understand now |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by manoy(m): 11:23pm On Sep 12, 2010 |
No oh, YOU are from MY state lol. In un ara ule a, ala ni gbogbo won. In seun [hope I spoke it right, mines is kinda rusty] [quote][/quote] LOL,ala ni kete ran oh,Omo Ilu wo ? Omo Uyin le mi oh |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by tpiah: 11:26pm On Sep 12, 2010 |
Aloy+Emeka: juju is widespread across nigeria, but its only yoruba's own that gets broadcast. as per women giving their daughters juju, well, that depends on the type of family the daughter is from. Someone raised in a juju setting will definitely depend on juju no matter what. btw the world capital of juju is benin republic. Can you also explain why you're including pastors in your list? Because some of them use juju? It is very normal to find a 20 yr old Hausa/ Igbo/Ijaw/Efik, etc boy or girl who has no clue of juju or how it works you wish. ask any nigerian anywhere on the street- even a two year old- they will tell you something about juju. I'm not saying juju isnt rampant in yorubaland but to say nobody elsewhere knows what it is, is simply false. 1 Like |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by Nobody: 11:29pm On Sep 12, 2010 |
manoy:Omo Uyin Ekiti? I've never heard of that place sha. My Ekiti is baaaaaaad, so I'll stick to Yoruba lol Omo Ilu Ikun-Ekiti, ni egbe Ado ati Iluepje-Ijan Ekiti ni mi. Sugbon mi feran lati so wipe omo ilu meteeta nimi, nitoripe mi gbe ni ilu meeteta nigba ti mi se kekere. |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by excanny: 11:31pm On Sep 12, 2010 |
Ileke idi and Ezeuche You guys used to be cool before this. If not that Ileke isn't yet convinced of how cool Igbo men are, i'll would have suggested that Ezeuche turns up his flirting skills. He will really teach you a lot you dont know about Igbo land. But first, you guys must stop fighting so we can find a foundation where things will can kick off from. |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by manoy(m): 11:37pm On Sep 12, 2010 |
Ileke-IdI: Haa, I know those places. Ibi si awon family re igbe? Emi wa ni ilu queen? Se o ni Iranse yahoo ? LOL ma sign in ,ko buzz mi ,so that we can talk better. |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by Kilode1: 11:39pm On Sep 12, 2010 |
tpiah: If I may add to your observation, I don't know what is negative about a people who use their own religious and cultural beliefs to order the course of their life or find meaning and succor. Isn't that what religion is for? One may not agree with Juju, or believe in Ifa Religion or Osun, or whatever some of these people call unto, but we can agree that all religious people use their religion for both bad or good, the wife asking Osun to give her a child or hold down her philandering husband is not worse than the night-vigil wifey that constantly hugs the ground at the holy-ghost conference demanding those same things from her God. Not to talk of the sister tryna covet another pesin BF with prayer and biblical verses I do not agree with all of their cultural/ religious practices(same for Christian practices) but I'm glad they use their own religion to give their life meaning, I wish all Africans will do the same. 1 Like |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by Nobody: 11:44pm On Sep 12, 2010 |
the world capital of voodoo/juju/jasss is Haiti |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by Nobody: 11:45pm On Sep 12, 2010 |
manoy:Ah, I dont o. I dont have YIM sha, I try not to get my convos off of NL. Lol I no fit tell you where my family live nau, you know online na dangerous place. excanny:Is there a reason why you hate me without knowing me? Actually, I'm getting "toasted" by an Igbo men [off NL, or atleast he's "trying"] now, so being convinced is out of the question. I still say SOME Yoruba men have that spice and swagga that makes them diff from any men. I wouldnt trade that for anything. But I can drop them like its hot if they start misbehaving. |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by manoy(m): 11:50pm On Sep 12, 2010 |
Ileke-IdI: |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by excanny: 12:09am On Sep 13, 2010 |
Ileke-IdI: Nah nah nah. I dont believe you. Be specific with proofs of such swagga and I'll give you scores of Igbo men wey such swagga dey over worry. Igbo men just have a different kind of swagga. You only need to do one thing- find out. |
Re: Yoruba Boys And Igbo Gals by Onlytruth(m): 12:14am On Sep 13, 2010 |
excanny: I'm yet to see any woman from a different tribe that left an Igbo man after having a taste. In fact what I have even noticed is that once a woman has been with an Igbo man, she finds it EXTREMELY hard to look elsewhere. All her future lovers would likely be Igbo. And I mean women from ALL PARTS OF THE WORLD. |
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