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18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by Nobody: 8:07am On May 10, 2015
1. She cares how your friends are doing. She
knows all your friends by name and is
genuinely invested in whether or not your
roommate Kate gets together with that guy she
likes because they would be so cute together
and she wants her to be happy.
2. You can go on trips together and not fight
constantly. If you can survive being in a
nightmare spa resort full of screaming
children, no clean towels, and weak drinks
with old pineapple on the rim without fighting
constantly, you have something pretty amazing
3. You still catch her checking you out. For no
reason, really. She just thinks you are the
hottest human always and is happy to let you
know.
4. You share the same values. You both want
the same type of relationship, you know where
you both stand on having children, and your
goals for the future are the same. If you want
to work until you're 90, so does she. If you
want to retire early and eat only pudding for
the rest of your life, she's cool with that.
5. She loves bragging about you. To her friends,
coworkers, everyone. Because she's proud of
you and thinks you are the coolest person she's
ever met. Her friends and roommates and
coworkers know every little thing about you
before you even meet them. You're basically
like a boy band she's obsessed with that she
also gets to date.
6. You hear your friends complain about their
significant others and you can't really relate.
Just keep it to yourself that you and your
girlfriend have fun staring at blank walls and
she's incredibly supportive and thoughtful and
compassionate. Not the time to share that info.
7. She's your biggest supporter. She believes
you can do things even you're not sure you can
do because she has the utmost faith and
confidence in you even at your lowest
moments because she believes you are magic.
8. You feel comfortable planning things way in the future. You can buy concert tickets
or book a vacation in advance without
worrying if she's going to break up with you or
you're going to break up with her before then
because you trust her completely and she's
become such a part of you that your future
together seems as certain as anything.
9. She makes sacrifices for you and you do the
same for her. And she thinks nothing of it
because she genuinely enjoys making sure
you're happy and you feel the same way about
her.
10. She doesn't try to change you. She knows
every messed up, weirdo thing you do when
you sleep and when you're awake and when
you're tired and when you're cranky, and she's
OK with all of it in a way that you weren't sure
anyone ever would be. Because you have a lot
of weirdo stuff.
11. Your friends are really, genuinely happy
for you. After suffering through countless drink
dates and morning-after breakfasts with your
horrible exes, your friends are so relieved
you're actually with someone who is as cool as
you are because you're truly right for each
other, which is something they'd wanted for
you for a long time now. It's like seeing your
really tall friend find workable pants, but
instead of pants, it's a person.
12. You can be completely honest with her
about anything. No matter how anxious or
worried or nervous or scared you're feeling,
you know you can tell her anything at all and
she won't judge you. Sexual fantasies,
awkward illnesses, a fight you had with your
parents; anything.
13. She's the first person you want to talk to
when something cool/funny/weird happens.
You used to text your best friend all of this
stuff but your best friend isn't even mad about
that because she's so happy you've found
someone you're so close and connected with.
14. She indulges your guilty pleasures. She
knows you love sitting in track pants and
eating an entire Funfetti cake, and not only
totally accepts that, but sometimes she brings
one home and lets you tear that shit up .
15. You want to protect her. Even though she
totally doesn't need protecting. It's just an
impulse because you love her so goddamn
much.
16. She fights fairly. She doesn't get excessively
angry or mean-spirited, and she doesn't bring
up old issues or low blows just to hurt you. She
might be mad, but she wants to work it out
with you, so you talk about it like adults who
love each other.
17. She has her own life outside of your
relationship. She knows you two are going to
function best when she does her own thing and
you do your own thing and then you both come
together and forget about the rest of the world
existing.
18. You tell her you miss her when she's gone,
and you really mean it. Like you say you wish
she were there because you actually wish she
was there. All the time. Maybe in, like, a live-in
situation. A live-in situation with wedding
rings. And all of our friends there. And then
someone gives us fancy kitchenware. Maybe
like that..

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Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by shakazuldadon: 8:08am On May 10, 2015
signs... amen

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Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by Nobody: 8:09am On May 10, 2015
Me being nice: Sweetheart, space your copied work; I mean, it's bad enough that it's long.

Good points anyway. wink

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Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by loomer: 8:10am On May 10, 2015
Everybody now na expert on love and marriage matter.

You will neva know if she's right for u or wrong until una don marry and things come de hard.

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Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by mployer(m): 8:16am On May 10, 2015
MzNelly:
Me being nice: Sweetheart, space your copied work; I mean, it's bad enough that it's long.

Good points anyway. wink

Show us the Link she copied it from or keep shut.

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Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by Nobody: 8:19am On May 10, 2015

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Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by Truckpusher(m): 8:26am On May 10, 2015
This land is already sold

Beware of my step sister Mznelly and her boyfriend
angry.

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Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by Nobody: 8:26am On May 10, 2015
MzNelly:
Me being nice: Sweetheart, space your copied work; I mean, it's bad enough that it's long.

Good points anyway. wink
wink
MzNelly:
Me being nice: Sweetheart, space your copied work; I mean, it's bad enough that it's long.

Good points anyway. wink
Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by Nobody: 8:28am On May 10, 2015
please guys vote VICKYDERA2 for miss nairaland 2015
Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by tuffgongjo(m): 9:58am On May 10, 2015
Relationship wetin be this?
Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by demmy0325(m): 10:01am On May 10, 2015
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Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by Nobody: 10:47am On May 10, 2015
Truckpusher:
This land is already sold

Beware of my step sister Mzn.elly and her boyfriend
angry.

grin grin

You've started tongue
Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by Truckpusher(m): 10:48am On May 10, 2015
MzNelly:


grin grin

You've started tongue
Wat I do? tongue
Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by Nobody: 11:01am On May 10, 2015
Truckpusher:
Wat I do? tongue

You're looking for my trouble again undecided undecided
Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by FLAWLES(f): 11:05am On May 10, 2015
Vickydera2:
please guys vote VICKYDERA2 for miss nairaland 2015
.Na you Ipledge de say resemble me? >shocked Taaa i stand to disagree
Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by Truckpusher(m): 11:07am On May 10, 2015
MzNelly:


You're looking for my trouble again undecided undecided

Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by jahstech: 11:09am On May 10, 2015
VOTE VICKY FOR MISS NL 2015
Team VICKYDERA2

Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by Nobody: 11:10am On May 10, 2015
Make sense pass w33d claro
Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by Nobody: 1:36pm On May 10, 2015
FLAWLES:
.Na you Ipledge de say resemble me? >shocked Taaa i stand to disagree
sorry u don't look anything like me. u wish u do

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Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by FLAWLES(f): 1:59pm On May 10, 2015
Vickydera2:
sorry u don't look anything like me. u wish u do
.and this s suppose to b AN?
Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by passionate88: 2:45pm On May 10, 2015

10. She doesn't try to change you. She knows every messed up, weirdo thing you do when you sleep and when you're awake and when you're tired and when you're cranky, and she's OK with all of it in a way that you weren't sure anyone ever would be. Because you have a lot of weirdo stuff.
Na lie o, all Naija girls go want to change some things in your life... Na so one tell me "Passionate, you are my type of guy but only one thing wey I no like in you, You no dey go church, u no gree follow me go, u no dey like to hear abt the gospel, u hardly call" etc... All these na the 'one' thing o
Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by Nobody: 4:03pm On May 10, 2015
passionate88:
Na lie o, all Naija girls go want to change some things in your life... Na so one tell me "Passionate, you are my type of guy but only one thing wey I no like in you, You no dey go church, u no gree follow me go, u no dey like to hear abt the gospel, u hardly call" etc... All these na the 'one' thing o
church is a good thing na
Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by Nobody: 4:20pm On May 10, 2015
Nice piece of article for the ladies thooo,
Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by passionate88: 4:35pm On May 10, 2015
Many people go to church but don't practice what they preach in the church... Sociology tells us that religion is a tool used to control the masses, that's why Karl Marx said it is the 'sigh of the oppressed, the hope of the hopeless and the opium of the masses...'
Vickydera2:
church is a good thing na

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Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by MizMyColi(f): 5:35pm On May 10, 2015
grin
MzNelly:
Me being nice: Sweetheart, space your copied work; I mean, it's bad enough that it's long.

Good points anyway. wink

angry
Lmao
Babes!
Why evulz.

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Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by MizMyColi(f): 5:38pm On May 10, 2015
Truckpusher:
This land is already sold

Beware of my step sister Mznelly and her boyfriend
angry.

Lmao
Na you dash her bftongue

How far, about that ish we talked about on that thread...
I'm sending you a PeeHemgrin
Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by Nobody: 9:12pm On May 10, 2015
passionate88:
Many people go to church but don't practice what they preach in the church... Sociology tells us that religion is a tool used to control the masses, that's why Karl Marx said it is the 'sigh of the oppressed, the hope of the hopeless and the opium of the masses...'
OK. but forsake not the gathering of the brethen
Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by passionate88: 11:05pm On May 10, 2015
Vickydera2:
OK. but forsake not the gathering of the brethen
I will never forsake my brother, neither will I my friends.
Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by otokx(m): 4:29am On May 11, 2015
passionate88:
I will never forsake my brother, neither will I my friends.

Women and Church is like bread and butter especially in Nigeria.
Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by Mrval20(m): 7:02am On May 11, 2015
You only know she's the one you should call your wife if she deserves to be called your wife. I'm tired of all these 'how to know' this and that about relationships abeg.
The rules should always be rolled out for the ladies to follow, guys have lots of common sense and can always spot a gold digger.
Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by martius101(m): 7:30am On May 11, 2015
MzNelly:
Me being nice: Sweetheart, space your copied work; I mean, it's bad enough that it's long.

Good points anyway. wink





naso
Re: 18 Signs You're With The Woman You Should Marry by Nobody: 9:21am On May 11, 2015
Mrval20:
You only know she's the one you should call your wife if she deserves to be called your wife. I'm tired of all these 'how to know' this and that about relationships abeg.
The rules should always be rolled out for the ladies to follow, guys have lots of common sense and can always spot a gold digger.
lolzzzz

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