Ladies most of the times have taught guys one lesson
or the other which has generated to negative
conclusions.

Most guys of this century believes that you can win any
woman once you have the resources(money).

The question is that if you have dated a girl and her
approach towards you is always a Yes Yes when money
comes to play does that implies that all of the girls are
just lovers of material things?

Agreed, money is essential when we talk about
relationship, but at the same time money is not
everything. Love has its own place and it is the first that
must be considered before money.

Most times, first impression you create matters.
Your first impression shows any lady the kind of
relationship you want from her. A responsible lady who
knows what she wants in a man will definitely not
accept you if the kind of impression you create is the
one that shows to her that you have the cash to spend
around. With such attitude such woman will know that
you will place money above her after she agrees which
will be very disastrous to her future.

Some guys don't even waste their time doing the
needful when approaching a lady, they believe once they
show the colour of money any lady will follow, this has
earned many guys slap(s).

Accepted, there are girls that all they want is your cash,
but don't make that mistake of generalizing that
assertion. As we have those that all they want is your
cash, we also have those that they need all other
qualities a man must possess to be a good husband
from you.

Respect is what a woman wants and deserves from any
man, if you place money or any material things above
that respect, you will never get the Yes from any
responsible lady.

What about being caring? Do you think money can solve
that all the time? Being caring is one thing money
cannot always cater for. Ladies needs someone that will
show them he will be available not only materially but
physically and emotionally as well.

You must show her you care so that she will feel
secured whenever she is with you.

If you are from a rich home don't be intoxicated with the
money, do you think this ladies don't know your level
when we talk about the financial aspect? They want you
to tell them what else you can offer apart from the
wealth.

If you are from a well-to-do family or even a poor home,
don't try to impress the lady financial so that you will
not set the standard you cannot manage consistently
because consistency is a huge factor that develops a
good relationship.

You might not be buoyant financially at the beginning
but the lady is also interested in your dreams.
Future determines a poor man and not the present. You
will be shocked that if you work towards a realistic
dream and you become rich a lady who denied you
when you were not too financially stable will want to die
just to have you. So, be yourself and don't be pushed
by peer pressure.

Don't proclaim to a lady what you are not. If you start a
relationship with lies, when the truth will come out it
might not be able to repair the danger caused.



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