Disclaimer: please those of us with the mentality that all what girls want is money., can stay off this thread. Lets cut them some slack..coz there are some geniune ones among them,.who are caring and loving as they are,.and are not neccesarily after your money. That said

Here are some mistakes guys make when chatting with a girl or texting her.


Confessing your feelings over text.
As a guy, when you have this bottled-up feelings, you want to blurt them out. You feel only if she knew how much,you like her. She will want to be our gf. WRONG..the moment you blurt ur feeling to a girl tru text. You are revealing you hand, and leaving her nothing to work for.


Remember, the less she has to work for you, the more bored she becomes.

Sennding nice guy texts
Do you know why some girls are repulsed, by nice guys. Because the send boring texts. When a girl is continually pulling to read. ''hope your day is going well'', ''have you eaten'', have you had ur bath''. You began to seriously annoy her. These are checking in texts, and they make you appear too needy.

Being too available.
There are few reasons these will kill her attraction towards you. Firstly, it eliminates your mystery, secondly it doesnt give her time to miss you and anticipate hearing from you. She places less value on guys that are easy to catch. Which means if you are always around, she begins to value you less.

Texting your way to the friendzone.
Here is where guys blow it, they think the more they text back and fort with a girl, the more she likes them,well, they are sort of right, she likes them,,.as a friend tho. And we all know friendzoning is real.

Giving up too soon.
Every girl has a lock and getting her turned is just a matter of finding the right key. Most guys give up immediately she plays hard to get.

Happy romantic year.

no wonder why caro left me.....

Ok

Lol @ giving up too soon.

Interesting post tho'.

Well Said Chibwike..... The Stuff Is Guys.. Never Reveal Your Feelings Online.. Only If You'll create a website online to show how much you love her.... Plus There's A Huge Difference When She's Just Reading The Text And When You're Looking Into Her Eyes And Telling Her What You Feel

Lol @texting ur way to the friendzone

Confessing your feelings over text is not always bad, for some people, that's the next best logical thing to do... The consequence of holding out too long may result in the guy/girl being put in one of those C-X(Zones).... Where C=X= any number of titles below B(oyfriend) or G(irlfriend)

The key is to know the personality of the person you're chatting with, be sensitive to their psyche and temperament. An average Melancholic would prefer that you told them how you feel instead of just dragging on and on.

VickyyB:

Lol..why that face

This post is awesome. It should make front page

1one:
Confessing your feelings over text is not always bad, for some people, that's the next best logical thing to do... The consequence of holding out too long may result in the guy/girl being put in one of those C-X(Zones).... Where C=X= any number of titles below B(oyfriend) or G(irlfriend)

The key is to know the personality of the person you're chatting with, be sensitive to their psyche and temperament. An average Melancholic would prefer that you told them how you feel instead of just dragging on and on.

do u have a girlfriend?

faqman:

no wonder why caro left me.....

Lol..which of them re u guity of

luigiajah:
Well Said Chibwike

thanks man

..,.I don't see anything wrong in confessing your feelings over text....

U r right bro!

solomonbrown64:
..,.I don't see anything wrong in confessing your feelings over text....

And u think she'd take you seriously....bro they want you tell tell them face to face...they want to feel ur emotions, ur seriousness.....and these would go a long way....

Mzjhulz:
Lol @texting ur way to the friendzone

Oddly.. it is quite true and rampant.

Natasha2:


True

Lol..so others are lies

I think no 3 & 4 are standout reasonsif you ask me. but what do I know about this. *sips ribena*

Na so ooo!

I sense danger

Olukokosir:
I sense danger

Lol, danger has in how

No time. @ giving up too soon

chibwike:
And u think she'd take you seriously....bro they want you tell tell them face to face...they want to feel ur emotions, ur seriousness.....and these would go a long way....

True...but there is always a starting point....guess that point apply just to online dating or a distant relationship.

Nice posts tho! Some guys just blow d lid open via a simple text/chat.....I'd like to b d mystery niqqa dah alwz gets dz kinda texts in d nite from a gal b4 goin to bed "do u realy love me @ all" e dey sweet me ehh

ThaSlimKidd:

Oddly.. it is quite true and rampant.

U must have done it many times

Fell victim to the friendzone sh*t... tho

Blackeard:
do u have a girlfriend?

You're asking because?

Chaiii I hate dat friendzoning of a word.... its such an awful experience been into it.....
BTW, dis guy below me is just lucky.... I fit kick am put for page 1 now, but make I shun am since na new year... I don change

Mzjhulz:

U must have done it many times

If I have to be truthful... yes!!
you think she's feeling you but unknowingly you are building a mansion in the Friendzone.
Sad stuff.