This girl came to work in a company the guy works, and they became best of friends. The guy loved her so much and the girl never hide her feelings for him. But she claimed she has fiance that she met 3 months ago and that if she could quiz the relationship he will marry the guy. Most of the company staffs knew them and have started calling them husband and wife in the staff quarters where they stay because they see each other everyday @ work and in the quarters, sometimes they cook and eat together in one plate. No sexual activities between them

The girl's mother and sister knew the fiance but not the father yet. The fiance has yet to introduce her to his own people though.

What can the guy do because he loves her so much and he feel they are compatible since they are already mastering each others behavior and the girl said many guys still want her but she will only go for him if she quit the relationship.

I think that question should be the other way round:

Can a girl who is already in a relationship agree to marry someone else

The will to get married here or not belongs to the lady in question

Apply the sayin, " if u love someone, let dem go, if they come bak, den they r truely urz"

blazzer1:
This girl came to work in a company the guy works, and they became best of friends. The guy loved her so much and the girl never hide her feelings for him. But she claimed she has fiance that she met 3 months ago and that if she could quiz the relationship he will marry the guy. Most of the company staffs knew them and have started calling them husband and wife in the staff quarters where they stay because they see each other everyday @ work and in the quarters, sometimes they cook and eat together in one plate. No sexual activities between them

The girl's mother and sister knew the fiance but not the father yet. The fiance has yet to introduce her to his own people though.

What can the guy do because he loves her so much and he feel they are compatible since they are already mastering each others behavior and the girl said many guys still want her but she will only go for him if she quit the relationship.

Which relationship exactly are you referring to

write2obi:
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Which relationship exactly are you referring to

Her fiance. The guy she met 3months ago before she met the new guy.

blazzer1:
This girl came to work in a company the guy works, and they became best of friends. The guy loved her so much and the girl never hide her feelings for him. But she claimed she has fiance that she met 3 months ago and that if she could quiz the relationship he will marry the guy. Most of the company staffs knew them and have started calling them husband and wife in the staff quarters where they stay because they see each other everyday @ work and in the quarters, sometimes they cook and eat together in one plate. No sexual activities between them

The girl's mother and sister knew the fiance but not the father yet. The fiance has yet to introduce her to his own people though.

What can the guy do because he loves her so much and he feel they are compatible since they are already mastering each others behavior and the girl said many guys still want her but she will only go for him if she quit the relationship.

The eating together, telling him about her fiance and telling him guys want her is just talk. The way i see it he is setting himself up for confusion and heart break He should tell the girl what he wants and stop acting like her best friend.

andromida:


The eating together, telling him about her fiance and telling him guys want her is just talk. The way i see it he is setting himself up for confusion and heart break He should tell the girl what he wants and stop acting like her best friend.

The guy had told her that he wants to marry her but she didn't want to break her fiance heart because someone else broke his heart many months ago.

She should marry both

I despise girls who give men false hopes in the name of friendship (friendzone). If you can't date him, let him go and stop acting like a megaloblastic parasite.

The guy also should brace up and find someone else to date. There are over a million single & beautiful ladies out there. Must he marry someone in his confined company?

Btw, how sure are you that the girl isn't cheating already? how sure are you that a lady (engaged) who (lives) with another man, wash together, cook together and eat from the same plate, hasn't tasted at least his lips? I don't believe in such crappy friendship.

blazzer1:


The guy had told her that he wants to marry her but she didn't want to break her fiance heart because someone else broke his heart many months ago.

So now she is with her fiance because she pities him? She is doing herself and her fiance a disservice but that is none of your business. Your business is your life, you like her but she wants to mend someone else's life leave her alone to get on with her care taking business. You care take your life.

End the confusion NOW by keeping your distance from her so you can get over this episode with minimal damage. She has told you she cannot leave him for xyz reasons so what her you waiting for? Stay away from confused people they will drag you into their confusion there is nothing to gain from hanging around her except of course eating from the same plate and being called husband and wife by fellow colleagues we both know this is not what you want. Stay grounded, right now there is nothing for you with this woman only friendship which you do not want you can return to the friendship when you get over her.

I know you are thinking if only she can see how good you are together then she will leave her fiance - this is fantasy. If by some mysterious force she wakes up to accept your proposal and you still want her then by all means embrace her in the interim keep your distance from the friendship.