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Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child From Another Relationship? by Olutola88(m): 6:27pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Most Nigerians( especially men) right off partners that already have kids from other relationships. These category of people became Fathers/Mothers in different ways. Some had the baby while they were young(before marriage) & some had the baby after marriage but got widowed/divorced/separated. Sometimes, I sit and ask myself: Why do we discriminate against these set of people? cos I'm also guilty of having this mentality. I feel having a child doesn't stop a man or woman from making a good husband/wife. In fact, it's possible for a mother of one a.k.a “After one” alias “My X1” to make a better wife, better partner and build a better home than a virgin lady. Ladies & Gentlemen, can you marry someone that has a child from another relationship? Tell us your reasons and your conditions |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child From Another Relationship? by XavierBlue(m): 6:28pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
i dunno, lemme ask Google, hold on a bit XavierBlue |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child From Another Relationship? by MrCork: 6:28pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Olutola88: ...only if she is lightskin & she gots Big Nyash, big Boobsi, hip, heavy thigh plus yellow lips & flat stomach plus real hair & natural smile plus nice legs & kissable face plus straight legs and look like wifey mterial... HELL YES!!! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child From Another Relationship? by Mynd44: 6:30pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Yes I can |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child From Another Relationship? by Nobody: 6:30pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
if she get money wella, then we can arrange something... |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child From Another Relationship? by FruityLass: 6:33pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
If there's mutual understanding. But to me A widower....Yes Divorced/separated....No Small time u go see the babymama knocking with baggages to own a room. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child From Another Relationship? by Olutola88(m): 6:34pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Mynd44:Don't forget, I said give us your reasons and conditions. Look @ the Gentleman below you, na kudi, owo, ego ihm dey follow |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child From Another Relationship? by sneak3(m): 6:36pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Small thing |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child From Another Relationship? by DesChyko: 6:38pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
No, I can't. The stress of being in such union is quite hectic, especially on the child. I'm speaking from a cultural point of view. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child From Another Relationship? by MrCork: 6:38pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Mynd44: ermm bro..not sure I u read well but thread is about marryin a woman.....not marryn a man!! (no ofeinse) 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child From Another Relationship? by Olutola88(m): 6:40pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
MrCork:lol! Don't worry bro, you'll get her if you can go to heaven to tell God to help you create this specification |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child From Another Relationship? by shortgun(m): 6:42pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Having a kid should not be a hindrance as long as there is mutual understanding between us. Women with kids are better lovers......... Yes I will marry her. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child From Another Relationship? by MrCork: 6:43pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Olutola88: ...correction..am all ready datin 2 lightskin females wit kids...One Nigerian & one jamaican 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child From Another Relationship? by Nobody: 6:44pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
i can marry a widower with kid but not divorced or seperated |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child From Another Relationship? by xynerise: 6:46pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
I am loving the woman and no obstacle can change or stop that (So far she is not a demon). The child might be a blessing in disguise But after a better explanation on how the child became a bastard. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child From Another Relationship? by Nobody: 6:46pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Why U wanna know |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child From Another Relationship? by Nobody: 6:55pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Olutola88: Sure if the kid is beautiful/handsome and the baby mama a stunner then I ain't gat no problem man. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child From Another Relationship? by stinggy(m): 7:08pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Yes I can, if other factors click. Having child from previous relationship isn't a disease. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child From Another Relationship? by Nobody: 7:11pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Yes, but only if there's no crazy baby mama in the picture. However, a guy with children from different women is a no-no. I'm quite judgmental about that. It tells me he is irresponsible. Not a quality I find enticing. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child From Another Relationship? by LasoulMacuby(m): 7:15pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
In all honesty, I can never! if she hides it and I later discover, end of murrafucking marriage |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child From Another Relationship? by jmoore(m): 7:26pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Yes, if she is still a virgin. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child From Another Relationship? by Mynd44: 7:55pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Olutola88:She is a human being. Is that reason enough?
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Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child From Another Relationship? by Exponental(m): 8:06pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
depending on circumstances surrounding d child and d woman in question.
yes i could. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Has A Child From Another Relationship? by Olutola88(m): 8:25pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Exponental:Yes, we know! Give us ur terms |
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