IamOdin:
They are confused.

DeBret:
Love !!!! you mean love....ave you ever love someone before ?....if yes then what are your feelings I mean how do you feel..then women feeling are double of we men,cos dia heart are flexible...














copy that?

MizMyColi:
It takes a level of self-confidence and awareness to let go of such kind of relationships.

This usually happens to folks who have had to work all their lives to win the approval of their parents or the authority figures in their lives.
They hinge their sense of happiness and completeness on the guy, with the feeling that they couldn't possibly get it from anywhere else.
It gets worse, if at the beginning of the relationship, the guy gaslighted her (showed her excessive love and acceptance).
It's an abuse which can only be remedied the moment an individual comes upon enlightenment, an epiphany of sorts.
Bearing in mind that they are complete.
With or without a man or whomever, because they are full of God and in his eyes, they remain eternally accepted and welcome, no matter their gaffe.

kokomilala:
Because, one , they're emotionally weaker.Two, they respond to what befalls them, as opposed to what they actually want.I've heard of a guy who beat his gf blue black, only for the girl to be clinging to him like an elastane tight the following day.
Throughout history, even until now, there's a curious, atavistic and dissembling urge in women to be dominated.They can't explain it.It's like sadomasochism: the act and art of deriving sexual pleasure from hurting someone or/ and getting sexual pleasure from being hurt.
From experience, I also realise that if you're a good boy to any lady, she takes you as stupid, weak, and not man enough.They actually want to see the beast in a man.Not necessarily to unleash violence or mayhem, and, I'm against that.Little wonder they dump men who worship, ovrrpampers them, and, ironically, crave the poverty of what is not.

kokomilala:
Because, one , they're emotionally weaker.Two, they respond to what befalls them, as opposed to what they actually want.I've heard of a guy who beat his gf blue black, only for the girl to be clinging to him like an elastane tight the following day.
Throughout history, even until now, there's a curious, atavistic and dissembling urge in women to want to be dominated.They can't explain it.It's like sadomasochism: the act and art of deriving sexual pleasure from hurting someone or/ and getting sexual pleasure from being hurt.
From experience, I also realise that if you're a good boy to any lady, she takes you as stupid, weak, and not man enough.They actually want to see the beast in a man.Not necessarily to unleash violence or mayhem, and, I'm against that.Little wonder they dump men who worship, ovrrpamper them, and, ironically, crave the poverty of what is not.

MizMyColi:
It takes a level of self-confidence and awareness to let go of such kind of relationships.

This usually happens to folks who have had to work all their lives to win the approval of their parents or the authority figures in their lives.
They hinge their sense of happiness and completeness on the guy, with the feeling that they couldn't possibly get it from anywhere else.
It gets worse, if at the beginning of the relationship, the guy gaslighted her (showed her excessive love and acceptance).
It's an abuse which can only be remedied the moment an individual comes upon enlightenment, an epiphany of sorts.
Bearing in mind that they are complete.
With or without a man or whomever, because they are full of God and in his eyes, they remain eternally accepted and welcome, no matter their gaffe.

IamOdin:



Re-read your post and you will see how confused you sound.

Aiit, thanks a lot.

Tashaamania:
It's only a matter of time and the lady would stop loving him..
Nobody is a fool to love someone who treats them badly..
I think the question is "why they keep loving someone who treats them badly?"
The answer is because they still hold on to the good times both of them shared. Once they let go, the love disappears..

DeBret:
like you mean that girl should just wait until the guy killed her

MizMyColi:


Aiit, thanks a lot.

buygala:
My contribution.....

*sips Alomo mixed with monkey-tail, picks up phone and types under the influence of.....


1- Most girls like arguing, nagging, crying, scratching and chewing.... how the hell are they supposed to do all that if the guy doesn't treat them badly or\and beats the hell out of them?

2- Most girls can't do without frequent drama in their relationships... They go out of their way to provoke him and when he explodes in anger, they will be like "So you care about me this much to get so angry at me ... Buygala, you love me ... admit it "

3- Most girls always feel that post-fight or post-beating sex is the best kind of sex




4- I also suppose some girls mumuciously believe that if the dude can beat them, then he can also beat anyone who tries to beat her

5- Some girls actually encourage their boyfriends to beat them whenever they err, instead of the guy keeping silent or ignoring her indefinitely.... For their mind, if the guy don beat them, the matter don settle be dat

6- Some girls have been so battered and manhandled by their parents that they now measure the amount of love you have for them with the amount of beating you give them... ''My parents beat me because they love me... so he beats me because he really cares about me" bullshiit

Point is.... If a girl loves a guy, she will most times, try to blindly rationalise whatever fuckkked up treatment she gets from him.... They are pretty good at defending their loves, even against their own good sense

blessnija:
its a shame women are like dat. they want u to show strenght. they like it. if u treat dem nice u are a fool. dey simply stat double or triple dating. shame

IamOdin:
They are confused.

Tashaamania:
NO

okiezman:


A guy can't treat them bad and they stay they must be gaining something

Adufetohposh:
*Singing* I have peace like a river, peace like a river, peace like a river in my soul....



I am sooooo in love with myself that I cannot expose Myself to a bondage kind of relationship, hell No! I cannot be in love with a bully.

To the women that re in such entrapment, I can't speak for them coz I'm not in their shoe

DeBret:
something like wat

okiezman:

Ask the parties involved