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Feminism And Its Inherent Evils by winner01(m): 6:29pm On May 16, 2015
Feminism.
Now, this is likely to ruffle a few feathers among those who have
swallowed the devilish lies the feminist movement have
propagated over the years, so I want to emphasise right from
the start that what I'm about to discuss is not an attack against
women any more than feminism has women's liberty at heart.
Rather it is a revealing of the true meaning of feminism and its
inherent evil.
feminism is said to refer to a series of campaigns for reforms on
issues such as reproductive rights, domestic violence ,
maternity leave , equal pay , women's suffrage , sexual
harassment , and sexual violence , all of which fall under the
label of feminism .
feminists have also had to maintain focus on women's die
reproductive rights, such as the right to abortion.
In terms of language, Feminists are sometimes, though not
exclusively, proponents of using non-sexist language , using "
Ms. " to refer to both married and unmarried women, for
example, or the ironic use of the term "herstory" instead of
"history". Feminists are also often proponents of using gender-
inclusive language, such as "humanity" or "womankind" instead
of "mankind", or "he or she" in place of "he" where the gender is
unknown.
There is also the criticisms of men's contributions to child care
and domestic labour centered around the idea that it is unfair
for women to be expected to perform more than half of a
household's domestic work and child care when both members
of the relationship perform an equal share of work outside the
home.
The general idea is man-advantage, woman-disadvantage.
Feminism deceitfully seems to tackle this issue when in real life,
for most “female disadvantages” there is some parallel “male
disadvantage”. below is an analogy.
1. Women are under far more risk of sexual violence than
men are. Men are under far more risk of being sent to
prison.
2. Just as women are expected to stay at home and be
mothers, men are expected to go out, even migrate, and
be breadwinners.
3. Just as women are oppressed by social ideas of beauty, men
are oppressed by social ideas of success.
4.Just as women are oppressed by the idea of chastity, men are
judged by how many women they’ve bedded.
5.The male equivalent of sluts is not, as some people think,
studs who have lots of sex, but losers who do not have any –
both “sluts” and “losers” are considered failures on the
mating market. (Incidentally, womaniser is not a nice
word.)
6. Words like Dam and Well gendered, but so are creep, dick,
bastard and asshole.
7. Assertive women are considered overbearing, and
unassertive men are considered weak.
8. violence against women has been highlighted in the media
lately. people insist that women have it particularly bad
because they face violence on a daily basis. Yet, the vast
majority of homicide and assault victims are men. Society
allocates more men to careers in the police force, the military
and crime, where the violence is the point . The riskiest
occupations, like fishing, logging or diving, are largely
male. Men are the majority of suicide victims. Rape is rampant
in prison, and a non-issue for the public. Men are goaded to
fight and considered “less of a man” if they back down. Most of
the lives laid down in wars and political struggles are male.
Men
are also victims of domestic violence, and yet the law doesn’t
even recognize this as a possibility in most countries. Even in
today’s American army, which has made much of integrating
the sexes and putting women into combat, the risks aren’t
equal. This year we passed the milestone of 3,000 deaths in
Iraq, and of those, 2,938 were men, 62 were women.
Almost universally, they live shorter lives. Men are, and always
have been, the disposable sex . Clearly men face violence, and
it’s clearly a gendered institution.
9. While many argue that men commit more aggressive crimes
than women, studies can prove that some women commit these
same heinous crimes.
Unfortunately, leniency for men seems to have no place
in the criminal justice system, especially when it comes
to the murdering of a spouse. Over the past several
years, some women have been allowed to serve little to
no time at all for...
Here’s a link showing that women tend to get shorter sentences
for similar crimes: http://www.studymode.com/essays/
Gender-Equality-Women Serving-Less-Time-621679.html
10. we are all aware of the numerous day to day priviledges
given to women e.g The Indian Government has amended the
law to exclude the possibility of female rapists and hardly do
you find female rape cases all over the world.
NOTE: I’m not claiming that women have it better than men or
vice-versa. Asking “who has it worse – men or women?” is like
asking “what is more painful – being kicked in the balls or
giving birth?” its a dead - end.
I’m only using the existing frame of female disadvantages to
illustrate male disadvantages.
But this merely replaces one question with another:
why are feminists exposed to one-sided examples? Despite
being against all gender essentialism in theory, nine times out
of ten, the activities of self-identified feminists – protests, op-
eds, speeches, blog posts, organisation, tweets, essays, legal
activism etc. – center around women’s problems. The fact that
beauty, a social construct, can drive young girls to unhealthy
eating habits gets highlighted – the fact that success, a social
construct, can drive young men to withdrawal
and depression does not. I’m not denying that the first
is a gender issue – I’m insisting that the second is as
well. They’re both consequences of individuals failing
to live up to some ideal that is partially determined by
their gender.
Research has shown that several arguments of the feminist
activism is an unintelligible shorn of the empirical commitment
to the basic thought that ‘women have it worse’. And this only
fuels the proof that there is more to feminism philosophy than
meets the eye and sadly unsuspecting ladies are dancing to the
tune of this movement.
Re: Feminism And Its Inherent Evils by winner01(m): 6:31pm On May 16, 2015
A BIBLICAL APPROACH. Several books could be written concerning the evils and destructive forces inherent to feminism. Feminism is anti-God, anti-marriage, and anti- family. What is feminism? Let’s start with what feminism isn’t. It is NOT women’s rights, as many have been deliberately misled to believe. God created man and woman equal in dignity, worth, and human rights. However, God did NOT create man and woman equal in authority. God clearly mandated that the husband would rule over his wife (Genesis 3:16, “…and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee” ). This is the dividing line, the great barrier that separates God-fearing women from the feminist movement. In a word—AUTHORITY. The godly wife obeys her husband. No husband is perfect, and the godly woman understands this. She loves her husband, and is patient with him. She wills no evil towards him, and does her best to help him with his life’s work (keeping the house in order while he’s at work). She is his “help meet” (Genesis 2:18). Let me help you to understand some of the philosophy that is behind this movement, by giving you some quotes from the recognised leaders of the feminist movement: Gloria Stimenn (sp.) says, "By the year 2000 we will, I hope, raise our children to believe in human potential, not God." Radical feminist leader Sheila Cronam (sp.), who is oft quoted by the way, says this, "Since marriage constitutes slavery for women, it is clear that the women's movement must concentrate on attacking this institution. Freedom for women cannot be won without the abolition of marriage." The "Declaration of Feminism" goes back to November of 1971 when they laid out their agenda and this is what it says, "The end of the institution of marriage is necessary for the liberation of women; therefore, it is important for us toencourage women to leave their husbands and not live individually with men. All of history must be rewritten in terms of oppression of women. We must go back to ancient female religions like witchcraft!" Mark that, "We must go back to ancient female religionslike witchcraft!" Anne Lori Gaylor (sp.) writing an article called "Feminist Salvation" in the "Humanist" in 1988 says, "Let's forget about the mythical Jesus and look for encouragement, solace, and inspiration from real women. 2,000 years of patriarchal rule under the shadow of the cross ought to be enough to turn women towards the feminist salvation of the world." Dr. Mary Jo Bane, feminist, Assistant Professor of Education at Welsley College, and the Associate Director of the school's Centre for Research on Women, writes, "In order to raise children with equality we must take them away from families and communally raise them." And that well known name, Margaret Sanger, the founder of Planned Parenthood, writing an article called "Women in the New Race," says this, "The most merciful thing a large family can do to one of its infant members is to kill it." Sheila Croonan (sp.) again, writing in the National Organisation of Women Times, in January of 1988, said, "The simple fact is, every woman must be willing to be recognised as a lesbian to be fully feminine!" "We can't destroy the inequities between men and women until we destroy marriage" - Ms Robin Morgan "My current position on marriage is that I am against it. ... Politically, I am against it because it has been oppressive for women, and through privileging heterosexuality, oppressive for lesbians and gay men" - Virginia Braun and so on. one way or the other, the end result glorifies lesbianism., Sadly again our ladies look up to these people and they unknowingly commune with the devil by looking up to these set. A truth is that ladies have always been empowered right from the days of the bible till date, the deceit of feminism is a lie from the pit of hell....Take this set into consideration ; Rebecca, ruth, deborah,esther, tamar, even the wicked Jezebel, below are other examples of women who changed the world. (note their eras as contrast to the ideology of the subdued woman). Sappho (c 570 BC) One of the first published female writers. Much of her poetry has been lost but her immense reputation has remained. Plato referred to Sappho as one of the great 10 poets. Cleopatra (69 – 30 BC) The last Ptolemaic ruler of Egypt. Cleopatra sought to defend Egypt from the expanding Roman Empire. In doing so she formed relationships with two of Rome’s most powerful leaders Marc Anthony and Julius Caesar. Mary Magdalene (4 BC – 40AD) Accounts from the Gospels and other sources suggest Mary Magdalene was one of Jesus’ most devoted followers. Mary Magdalene stood near Jesus at his crucifixion and was the first to see his resurrection. Boudicca (1st Century AD) Boudicca was an inspirational leader of the Britons. She led several tribes in revolt against the Roman occupation. Initially successful her army of 100,000 sacked Colchester and then London. Her army was later defeated. Hildegard of Bingen (1098 – 1179) Mystic, author and composer. Hildegard of Bingen lived a withdrawn life, spending most of her time behind convent walls. However her writings, poetry and music were revelatory for the time period. She was consulted by Popes, Kings and influential people of the time. Her writings and music have influenced people to this day. Eleanor of Aquitaine (1122 – 1204) The first Queen of France. Two of her sons Richard and John went on to become Kings of England. Educated, beautiful and highly articulate, Eleanor influenced the politics of western Europe through her alliances and influence over her sons. Joan of Arc (1412 – 1431) The patron saint of France, Joan of Arc inspired a French revolt against the occupation of the English. An unlikely heroine; at the age of just 17, the diminutive Joan successfully led the French to victory at Orleans. Her later trial and martyrdom only heightened her mystique. Mirabai (1498-1565) Indian mystic and poet. Mirabai was born into a privileged Hindu family, but she forsook the expectations of a princess and spent her time as a mystic and devotee of Krishna. She helped revitalise the tradition of bhakti (devotional) yoga in India. St Teresa of Avila (1515 – 1582) Spanish mystic, poet and Carmelite reformer. St Teresa of Avila lived through the Spanish inquisition but avoided been placed on trial despite her mystical revelations. She helped to reform the tradition of Catholicism and steer the religion away from fanaticism. Catherine de Medici (1519 – 1589) Born in Florence, Italy, Catherine was married to the King of France at the age of 14. She was involved in interminable political machinations seeking to increase the power of her favoured sons. This led to the disastrous St Bartholomew’s Day Massacre. Elizabeth I (1533 – 1603) Queen of England during a time of great economic and social change, she saw England cemented as a Protestant country. During her reign she witnessed the defeat of the Spanish Armada leaving Britain to later become one of the world’s dominant superpowers. Catherine the Great (1729 –1796) One of the greatest political leaders of the Eighteenth Century. Catherine the great was said to have played an important role in improving the lot of the Russian serfs. She placed great emphasis on the arts and helped to cement Russia as one of the dominant countries in Europe. Jane Austen (1775 – 1817) – One of the most popular female authors Jane Austen wrote several novels, which remain highly popular today. These include “Pride and Prejudice” “Emma” and “Northanger Abbey”. Jane Austen wrote at a time when female writers were not so high profile, helping pave the way for future writers. Harriet Beecher Stowe (1811 – 1896) A life long anti slavery campaigner. Her novel “Uncle Tom’s Cabin” was a best seller and helped to popularise the anti slavery campaign. Abraham Lincoln would later remark her books were a major factor behind the American civil war. Queen Victoria (1819 – 1901) – British Queen. Presiding over one of the largest empires ever seen, Queen Victoria was the head of state from 1837-1901.Queen Victoria sought to gain an influence in British politics whilst remaining aloof from party politics. She came to symbolise a whole era of Victorian values. Florence Nightingale (1820 – 1910) British nurse. By serving in the Crimean war, Florence Nightingale was instrumental in changing the role and perception of the nursing profession. Her dedicated service won widespread admiration and led to a significant improvement in the treatment of wounded soldiers. Elizabeth Blackwell ( 1821 – 1910) Born in Britain, Blackwell was the first women to receive a medical degree in America and the first women to be on the UK medical register. Blackwell helped to break down social barriers, enabling women to be accepted as doctors. Emily Dickinson (1830 – 1886) One of America’s greatest poets Emily Dickinson lived most of her life in seclusion. Her poems were published posthumously and received widespread literary praise for their bold and unconventional style. Her poetic style left a significant legacy on 20th Century poetry. Marie Curie (1867 – 1934) – Polish / French scientist. Curie was the first women to receive the Nobel Prize and the first person to win the Nobel Prize for two separate categories. Her first award was for research into radioactivity (Physics 1903). Her second Nobel prize was for Chemistry in 1911. A few years later she also helped develop the first X ray machines. Rosa Luxemburg (1870-1919) Polish / German Marxist revolutionary, Rosa Luxemburg sought to bring social revolution to Germany. She wrote fiercely against German imperialism and for international socialism. In 1919, she was murdered after a failed attempt to bring about a Communist revolution in Germany. Helena Rubinstein (1870 – 1965) American businesswoman. Rubinstein, formed one of the world’s first cosmetic companies. Her business enterprise proved immensely successful and later in life she used her enormous wealth to support charitable enterprises in the field of education, art and health. Helen Keller (1880 – 1968) American social activist. At the age of 19 months Helen became deaf and blind. Overcoming the frustration of losing both sight and hearing she campaigned tirelessly on behalf of deaf and blind people. Coco Chanel (1883-1971) – French fashion designer. One of the most innovative fashion designers, Coco Chanel was instrumental in defining feminine style and dress during the 20th Century. Her ideas were revolutionary; in particular she often took traditionally male clothes and redesigned them for the benefit of women. Eleanor Roosevelt (1884 – 1962) Wife and political aide of American president F.D.Roosevelt. In her own right Eleanor made a significant contribution to the field of human rights, a topic she campaigned upon throughout her life. As head of UN human rights commission she helped to draft the 1948 UN declaration of human rights. Mother Teresa (1910 – 1997) – Albanian nun/ charity work. Devoting her life to the service of the poor and dispossessed Mother Teresa became a global icon for selfless service to others. Through her Missionary of Charities organisation she personally cared for thousands of sick and dying people in Calcutta. She was awarded the Nobel Peace prize in 1979. Dorothy Hodgkin (1910 – 1994) British chemist. Hodgkin was awarded the Nobel prize for her work on critical discoveries of the structure of both penicillin and later insulin. These discoveries led to significant improvements in health care. An outstanding chemist, Dorothy also devoted a large section of her life to the peace movement and promoting nuclear disarmament. Rosa Parks (1913 – 2005) – American civil rights activist. Rosa Parks’ refusal to give up her bus seat in Montgomery, Alabama, indirectly led to some of the most significant civil rights legislation of American history. She sought to play down her role in the civil rights struggle but for her peaceful and dignified campaigning she became one of the most well respected figures in the civil rights movements. Queen Elizabeth II (1926 – ) Since ascending to the British throne in 1952, Elizabeth has served as the second longest serving British monarch. She has witnessed rapid social and economic change and has been a unifying influence for Britain and the Commonwealth. Indira Gandhi (1917 – 1984) – First female prime minister of India. She was in power from between 1966-77 and 1980-84. Accused of authoritarian tendencies she only narrowly avoided a military coup by agreeing to hold an election at the end of the “emergency period” of 1977. She was assassinated in 1984 by her Sikh bodyguards, in response to her storming of the Golden Temple. Margaret Thatcher (1925 – 2013) The first female Prime minister of Great Britain, she governed for over 10 years, putting emphasis on individual responsibility and a belief in free markets. Marilyn Monroe (1926 – 1962) American actress who became one of the most iconic film legends. Her films were moderately successful, but her lasting fame came through her photogenic good looks and aura of glamour and sophistication. Anne Frank (1929 – 1945) – Dutch / Jewish author. Anne Frank’s diary is one of the most widely read books in the world. It reveals the thoughts of a young, yet surprisingly mature 13- year-old girl, confined to a secret hiding place. “Despite everything, I believe that people are really good at heart.” Audrey Hepburn (1929 – 1993) – British actress. Influential female actor of the 1950s and 60s. Audrey Hepburn defined feminine glamour and dignity, and was later voted as most beautiful women of the twentieth century. After her acting career ended in the mid 1960s, she devoted the remaining period of her life to humanitarian work with UNICEF. Germaine Greer (1939 – ) Australian feminist icon of the 1960s and 1970s, Germaine Greer enjoys raising contentious issues. In particular her book “The Female Eunuch” was a defining manifesto for the feminist movement, which proved influential in the 1960s. Shirin Ebadi (1947- ) An Iranian lawyer, Ebadi has fought for human rights in Iran – representing political dissidents and founding initiatives to promote democracy and human rights. Awarded the Nobel Peace Prize in 2003. Benazir Bhutto (1953 – 2007) The first female prime minister of a Muslim country. She helped to move Pakistan from a dictatorship to democracy becoming Prime Minister in 1988. She sought to implement social reforms, in particular helping women and the poor. She was assassinated in 2007. Diana, Princess of Wales (1961-1997) – British Royal princess who was noted for her humanitarian charity work. Despite troubled marriage to Prince Charles, she was popular for her natural sympathy with the poor and marginalised from society. J.K.Rowling (1965 – ) British author of the phenomenal best selling Harry Potter series. The volume of sales was so high, it has been credited with leading a revival of reading by children. She wrote the first book as a single mother, struggling to make ends meet, but is now one of most successful self-made woman. Tegla Loroupe (1973 – ) Kenyan athlete. Loroupe held the women’s marathon world record and won many prestigious marathons. Since retiring from running, she has devoted herself to various initiatives promoting peace, education and women’s rights. In her native Kenya, her Peace Race and Peace Foundation have been widely praised for helping to end tribal conflict. Malala Yousafzai (1997 – ) Pakistani schoolgirl who defied threats of the Taliban to campaign for the right to education. note; many of them are not christians, im just trying to expose the feminist idea that women have been subdued for too long.
Re: Feminism And Its Inherent Evils by Nobody: 6:39pm On May 16, 2015
please, help me tell them o. Women have been accomplishing wonderful things before feminism was even dreamt of. I don't know what drives these people. It's just so confusing.


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Farano
Ishilove
Please move this to the . . . culture section. Abi?
Re: Feminism And Its Inherent Evils by winner01(m): 6:42pm On May 16, 2015
Lets consider our very own QUEEN IDIA - Queen Idia was the mother of Esigie, the Oba of Benin who ruled from 1504 to 1550. The FESTAC Mask. Iyoba Idia's visage is the most widely known face of an African royal woman after the Egyptian Queen. MRS OLUFUNMILAYO RANSOME-KUTI QUEEN AMINA OF ZARIA - The most powerful woman warior in the history of Nigeria MARGRET EKPO - Foremost activist MARY ONYALI - Queen of the tracks HAJIA GAMBO SAWABA EFUNSATAN ANUWURA Grace Alele Williams KUDIRAT ABIOLA DR. MRS BOLANLE AWE DR. MRS ADADEVOH Pastor bimbo odukoya omotola jolade ekehinde Gloria bamiloye rebecca ikpe Major General Aderonke Kale Dr. Bene Madunagu chief. bisi ogunleye madam tinubu and the list is endless. These ones ddnt have to be feminists or mislead young ladies to make their mark and they will be remembered always. Feminism is nothing more than plain old rebellion. I not only stand by that assertion but I want to expand on it because it's a serious issue confronting the church. Feminism with all of its assorted features and its unique companionship with homosexuality is an old, old heresy that is meant to destroy God's design. It really started in the Garden when Eve, the original feminist, stepped out from under Adam's authority and thought that she would act independently and led the whole race into sin; and thus the first act in Satan's feminist agenda was successful. Feminism is a deadly evil, responsible for most abortions, divorces and lesbianism. This is true especially in American culture because of all the demonic influence in Hollywood movies and worldly music today. Feminism is so prevalent that many churches and Christian families have been infiltrated with this destructive menace—virtually undetected. Feminism is very deceitful and subtle. The serpent (Satan, Revelation 20:2) came to Eve in the Garden of Eden, offering her liberation; but in reality, Eve became enslaved to sin and ruined her entire family. Oh, how Satan always pays with counterfeit money! Sin always takes you further than you wanted to go, keeps your longer than you planned to stay, and costs you more than you intended to pay. Feminists seek equality with authority, just as Lucifer, who said in Isaiah 14:14: “I will ascend above the heights of the clouds; I WILL BE LIKE THE MOST HIGH.” Feminists want equality of authority like Lucifer. It is evil. The Bible teaches that a husband is to “rule over” his wife (Genesis 3:16), and a wife should possess the “meek and quiet spirit” that 1st Peter 3:4 teaches for Christian women to have... Society today is becoming increasingly hostile towards anyone who stands for God, Biblical truth, and genuine justice. Christians are increasingly being persecuted for exercising their Bill of Rights. Godly husbands, who control their wives (as 1 st Timothy 3:4 states, “One that ruleth well his own house…”) are being labeled as “abusive.” A husband is to RULE his wife and children. Feminism calls that abuse. Clearly, feminism and the Word of God are DIAMETRICALLY opposed to each other. The Devil is working relentlessly to corrupt America with immorality, divorce, and pornography. Feminism is the fueling factor behind the lesbian movement in America. Feminism’s dead-end is lesbianism Feminism isn’t just a seemingly harmless word that male- chauvinists toss around; it is a war against the God-fearing husband who tries to rule his family. Feminism is rebellion! Divorce is Always a Sin! I'm sorry if you come from a broken home, but truth must be said, most people who advocate for eazy marriage dissolution are products of dysfunctional, broken homes or traumatised relationships. Feminism shows no mercy towards a faulty husband, and results in unforgiving self-righteous divorce. All divorce is a sin. There are NO Biblical grounds for divorce. The biggest lie in churches today is that divorce is permissible in cases of adultery. If that were true, then what about all the other sins one's spouse can commit... murder, theft, extortion, lust? Jesus taught in Matthew 5:28 that lust is the same as adultery. If you believe that lust is a sin, then every wife of a husband who lusts has grounds for divorce. Clearly, Jesus did not intend for anyone to divorce, which He makes very clear in Matthew 19:8. Divorce is always a sin. In Matthew 19:9 Jesus simply taught that if a man's wife divorces him, then he is the victim, and not committing adultery by remarriage. She filed. It was her self- righteousness that dragged the husband into court. By comparing Scripture with Scripture, it is plain that divorce is never permissible. The person who files for divorce is sinning, and has no Biblical grounds for remarriage (to do so is the horrible sin of adultery, Matthew 5:32). The Apostle Paul is careful in 1st Corinthians 7:10 to use the word “depart,” concerning the wife who leaves her husband; but Paul does NOT mention putting away (divorce). The wife who departs is clearly commanded not to shack up nor remarry. Divorce is one’s unwillingness to forgive their spouse! No wife would ever divorce her husband if she truly loved him—not one! I don’t care if he beats her, she won’t divorce him (leave, yes; divorce, no). Say what you will, I don’t recall any disclaimer in the wedding vows for spousal abuse which would permit a divorce. And by the way, there are NO Scriptural grounds for divorce . Feminist “Christian” Wives It is tragic! I’ve never seen so many professed “Christian” women leaving their husbands, and filing for divorce. This is why I said earlier that feminism has subtly crept into many Christian homes in America. The Godless court system in America has made it extremely easy for women to divorce their husbands, and take him to the cleaners financially. Women are provided with a free public lawyer, simply by claiming spousal abuse. The husband has no choice but to go into debt for $20,000 to hire an attorney (and most husbands still lose). The wife is provided free housing, food, transportation, and plenty of destructive heathen advice at any one of thousands of shelters across America. Where is a husband to go when his wife disobeys him and refuses to be a wife and a mother? The wife is automatically viewed and treated as the victim in a marriage dispute, while the husband is usually demonized by the entire system. Women are often provided free education, an apartment, welfare, et cetera—everything she needs to abandon her husband and move on into the dream world of feminism. Please don’t misunderstand what I am saying; I’m not against helping a legitimately battered woman getting on her feet. However, many of the women claiming spousal abusive are shiftless, lazy, irresponsible, cut-throat women who simply exploit the system to leave their husband. They’re looking for an easy way out. The system is often a “way out” for careless and irresponsible women who leave their husbands holding the bag--the job, the mortgage, the kids, the problems, the debts, etc. Divorce is a horrible sin! I’ve known several women who just got tired and used “the system” to escape their problematic marriage. But the husband cannot do that, as he has nowhere to go—except back to work for another stressful day at the job. Feminism has provided wives and mothers with a way to escape responsibility, and hurt their husband legally. I’m so tired of hearing about “deadbeats” dads. Do you know why there are hardly any deadbeat mothers? It’s because the court system goes after the breadwinner—the father. Did you ever stop to think that many of those fathers who refuse to pay child-support are doing so in PROTEST—against an evil system that is trying to FORCE him to provide for his children ... while his wife shacks up with another man in adultery? It’s a matter of principal and a man’s dignity. If a man’s wife is rebellious against him, and she tries to hurt him further with the courts, it is not surprising to me that such men would refuse to cooperate with a Godless court order. In America, a woman is not expected to obey her husband. So when a man thinks he is marrying a “Christian” woman who will obey him, and 10 years down the road she drags him into a heathen court system for a divorce, he is up a creek without a paddle. The American court system is Godless, allowing wives to rebel against their husbands, and then expecting the husband to comply with court orders made by Godless judges in a rigged system. Should this be surprising in a court system that allows the murdering of millions of children through abortions? I think not. furtherthermore, what all of these feminist organizations who contest the 50% divorce rate FAIL to consider, is the fact that more people are choosing to shack-up together nowadays than get married at all. From a moral standpoint, this is disgraceful. It requires more than just a casual willingness, on the part of Christian wives, to obey their husbands nowadays. It requires the commitment of a martyr! I will die before I divorce! Every Christian wife should vow to NEVER divorce her husband! She may need to leave for a while; but divorce is out of the question. I know a born-again man whose “Christian” wife looked him in the eye, after 18 years of marriage, and said, “I don’t love you anymore.” He had never heard her say that before in all the years they were married. He said he cried uncontrollably in the back of their home. Less than 6-months later she abandoned him and the kids, and filed for divorce. He was devastated. Do you think this is acceptable to the Lord? Do you think God approves of a "Christian" wife filing for divorce? Wasn’t it God in Hebrews 13:5 who PROMISED that He would “never leave us, nor forsake us”? Yes, that is exactly what God has promised to every believer. If Jesus Christ is our Example, and He certainly should be, then we should honor the very same commitment to our spouse that God has given to us — I will NEVER leave you, nor forsake you … no matter what!!! Don't Allow Feminism to Kill, Steal, and Destroy Your Family Has feminism crept into your marriage? Are you continually threatening your husband with divorce? Are you thinking about it? Feminism is a POISON ladies—a poison of the mind. Feminism poisons a wife’s mind to believe that she is a victim who needs to be liberated. Women are more than twice as likely to file for divorce than men . MOST women today who divorce their husbands were NOT victims of anything, except their own worldliness, stubbornness, bad attitudes, selfishness, and sinful pride. Every marriage has problems. Jesus was willing to become a victim for our sins. Jesus allowed Himself to be beaten, spit upon, mocked, scourged, and crucified. Why is it then that we are so quick to file for divorce? Instead of looking for greener pastures, try planting some of your own grass. Don’t allow feminism to rob you of your marriage. Don’t throw away your husband. You PROMISED “’til death do us part.” John 10:10, “The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.” — Jesus CHRIST

Re: Feminism And Its Inherent Evils by faith551(m): 6:42pm On May 16, 2015
I don't need proof to tell my wife that am the one in authority, she can't help but understand that. Over emphasising the point is just more like giving them an option.
I dnt support violence, but two captions can't definitely be in one ship
Re: Feminism And Its Inherent Evils by passionate88: 7:06pm On May 16, 2015

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