This a present issue my pal finds himself. There’s this lady he has been dating for like 8years. Initially, they didn’t take it serious, but as time goes on, the feeling developed and they started thinking of ending up with eachother. The challenge erupted because of the church the lady attends. Her father happens to be pastor also in this church, though he was not the founder of the church. They are the churches that don’t allow their member to marry outside the church, especially the ladies member. So the father insists she must break up with the guy. Though they have been through ups and down together, even breaking up few times but they always settle. This final break up is a result of church issue. After like 3 months, they came back together cause they both couldn’t just do without one another. They resorted to the guy attending the church for the main time till after marriage. My guy has attended the church Sunday service few times, he complains of the service too boring and he doesn’t flow with the method of worship. Though my friend is not a genuine member of any church, but he made me to know he can never attend the lady’s church under normal condition. Now the question is, is it appropriate for a guy to attend a church cause he wants to marry a lady attending the church? Will the marriage work considering different beliefs of different churches like wearing of trousers, fixing of hairs, nails etc? What does the bible say about this particular issue?

Hypocrisy!

firstly, my in laws can't give me conditions before I will marry their daughter

God is everywhere you are if you are ready to call him, he will answer you. not until I attend my wife to be church before God will answer my prayers. since the guy doesn't have a permanent place of worship, he can choose to worship with the lady BUT not under frustration. its a decision he should make by himself.

8years relationship no be "akamu" o

MzNelly:
Hypocrisy!

From your own mouth

Borrussia:
From your own mouth

I never asked you to nau

MzNelly:


I never asked you to nau

Talking of hypocrisy, I think I'll pass.

Borrussia:
Talking of hypocrisy, I think I'll pass.

The guy is a weakling.

Is it the father or the church that's marrying the girl?
or is she the only girl in the whole world that he cannot look for an alternative and has to subject himself to torture?
.
Religion making people stup1d since 12b.c

MzNelly:

Seems you're free today, you've been online since a.m

Borrussia:
Seems you're free today, you've been online since a.m

Yeah, I am.

So are you, I see.

kradleber:
The guy is a fool and a weakling.

Is it the father or the church that's marrying the girl?
or is she the only girl in the whole world that he cannot look for an alternative and has to subject himself to torture?
.
Religion making people stup1d since 12b.c

He loves her, love is unconditional

.

Mtcheww...church and their wahala.... Marry a girl in your church by force.... What if all Dem girls are not your taste..... What will you do? Smh for 9ja churches

kradleber:
The guy is a weakling.

Is it the father or the church that's marrying the girl?
or is she the only girl in the whole world that he cannot look for an alternative and has to subject himself to torture?
.
Religion making people stup1d since 12b.c

You have a point there. But as they say, DONT EVER UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF LOVE

MzNelly:


Yeah, I am.

So are you, I see.

Huh, I just woke up from slumber, one petite ebony chick has been disturbing my dreams for the past few days, You've any idea who it might be?

Very inappropriate
People and religion
Modern day slavery

Not appropriate, buh terms and condition apply
Now Applied, aas in this case

Borrussia:
Huh, I just woke up from slumber, one petite ebony chick has been disturbing my dreams for the past few days, You've any idea who it might be?

Petite and ebony?


Naah

Who? Sandranaub?

2dice:
Mtcheww...church and their wahala.... Marry a girl in your church by force.... What if all Dem girls are not your taste..... What will you do? Smh for 9ja churches

My brother, thats 9aija for us o. The power of religion. All na brain washing. Once they made you believe it, i tell you they have you in their hand. God help us all.

jacksparrow1207:
Very inappropriate
People and religious
Modern day slavery

Brother, you took the statements out of my mouth

Borrussia:
He loves her, love is unconditional

Correction:- Its only your parents that can love you unconditionally, not your lover, boyfriend or even husband.


All these things shouldn't even be an issue. Why can't these over-religious drones realise there's no imaginary white bearded Santa Claus residing in the sky, instead of making people suffer.

Olanireti:

My brother, thats 9aija for us o. The power of religion. All na brain washing. Once they made you believe it, i tell you they have you in their hand. God help us all.

amen....jes leave Dem.. When Mr. Menopause show face ..... They will knw wassup

MzNelly:

Petite and ebony?

Naah
Who? Sandranaub?

Oh, that breathtaking angel, I wish I can dream of her.

Olanireti:

This a present issue my pal finds himself. There’s this lady he has been dating for like 8years. Initially, they didn’t take it serious, but as time goes on, the feeling developed and they started thinking of ending up with eachother. The challenge erupted because of the church the lady attends. Her father happens to be pastor also in this church, though he was not the founder of the church. They are the churches that don’t allow their member to marry outside the church, especially the ladies member. So the father insists she must break up with the guy. Though they have been through ups and down together, even breaking up few times but they always settle. This final break up is a result of church issue. After like 3 months, they came back together cause they both couldn’t just do without one another. They resorted to the guy attending the church for the main time till after marriage. My guy has attended the church Sunday service few times, he complains of the service too boring and he doesn’t flow with the method of worship. Though my friend is not a genuine member of any church, but he made me to know he can never attend the lady’s church under normal condition. Now the question is, is it appropriate for a guy to attend a church cause he wants to marry a lady attending the church? Will the marriage work considering different beliefs of different churches like wearing of trousers, fixing of hairs, nails etc? What does the bible say about this particular issue?

Finding a good woman isn't easy... If you find one you can go to her church...if its conveninient..but if she says unless you attend her church she will not marry you... Don't attend her church.

Borrussia:
Oh, that breathtaking angel, I wish I can dream of her.

Okay, bye.

Continue dreaming.

Olanireti:


Brother, you took the statements out of my mouth

Don't mind them

kradleber:


Correction:- Its only your parents that can love you unconditionally, not your lover, boyfriend or even husband.


All these things shouldn't even be an issue. Why can't these over-religious drones realise there's no imaginary white bearded Santa Claus residing in the sky, instead of making people suffer.

Well, we all have our own ways, I am a Muslim but I can attend church because of my lover, whenever I love someone, I don't let anything hold me back.

MzNelly:

Okay, bye.
Continue dreaming.

Why bye, don't tell me you're jealous.

Borrussia:
Why bye, don't tell me you're jealous.

Tchw -_-

I'm not.

I want to sleep and dream too.
Bye.

MzNelly:

Tchw -_-
I'm not.
I want to sleep and dream too. Bye.

Okay, bye, scary nightmares.

desperation at its peak

MzNelly:
Hypocrisy!

Thank you for that