“What did you just say?” I ask with hands on
hips, fiery eyes, and a scowl so deep even Rizzo
from Grease would be proud.
Usually men are smart enough to know what not
to say…usually. Especially since they already
know exactly what they'd never want a girlfriend
to say to them . But some boyfriend slip-ups are
so frustrating that they can cause a woman to
ball her fists and silently count to ten while
practicing Guided Imagery mediation.[/i]

Well without much ado lemme drop wad ma friend told me yesterday, i hope it would b useful



1. “Calm down." / "Relax.”

Ugh. Dudes, I cannot stress this enough:
directing either of these phrases at us will mean
a metaphorical hail/thunder/fire/ice storm
coming your way. It might not be logical, but
when you say “calm down,” we're only going to
rev up. A lot.

2. “How can you have so much stuff ?”

We have a lot of crap, alright? We’re women. We
like clothes. And makeup. And hair products . And
shoes. And no, we can’t “throw out” any of it.
How could you even suggest such an atrocity?
Make room, men. Our stuff’s not going
anywhere.

3. “I like you better without makeup.”

Sure, we love to hear this when we’re in bed,
stuffing our faces with puffy Cheetos while
watching “Mad Men” and allowing our French
Green Clay mud masks to dry. But if it’s said
after we spend an hour and a half curling our
hair and perfecting the cat eye/red lip combo
applied just to impress you…BAD. GO STAND IN
THE CORNER.

4. “You left your hair in the shower drain.”

Look, guys: we have hair.
And we work hard to make it pretty by
purchasing expensive conditioners and flat irons.
You could show a little love for it by picking out
the curls in the shower drain yourself once in a
while. We promise you won’t die or actually
chuck up your lunch.

5.“Your hair spray/lotion/perfume smells like
crap.”

Um, maybe you should get your nose checked
out, because no it doesn’t. But if you do think
our beauty products smell bad, say it nicely and
maybe we’ll replace them. For example, “The
way your hair mousse smells gives me a bit of a
headache,” is a much preferred alternative to
"Your head stinks."

6. “You stole all the blankets in the middle of
the night / took up three quarters of the bed /
drooled in your sleep.”

We can’t control our sleep habits, just as you
can’t do much about that habitual extreme
snoring. I mean, I guess we can try to work on
it…but we’re not sure how, because we’re
sleeping.

7. “Want to do something about it?” [wink]

This is totally not the way to ask us to get you
off when your little guy is poking us in the
middle of a cuddle sesh. Kiss us passionately.
Caress our skin. Remind us why you think we’re
fabulous. And maybe then we’ll help you out
there.

i think she spoke the mind of em gurls...gurls is she right??

Girls/Women are just a "Pandora Box".

hehehe...this one iyyaf say everthing finish pata pata

Ever heard the saying that truth is bitter. That just a list of bitter truths girls don't wanna hear

One of those threads

No 6,why wont u share bed sheet u be witch,i hate it

That no2 dey vex me sha,,, (my brodas nd my guy too dey talk am) lik sey mak i throwaway my belongins,, abi no b my money i tak buy am

Hmmmmmm
issorai

tuffgongjo:
Girls/Women are just a "Pandora Box".

yeah dats true

Never tell a woman to her face she is fat....



U don send am betta work be that

Shey God created dis one too....itz alright

And if we do?