Davland:

How do we go about it Friend

A good orientation would do!

Lol... Most the ladies commenting here ... Does the same... The most annoying one is beeeeeep ... As soon as he press the yes button ... She will press the Red button... She expect you to call her back.... Like say Na her papa buy airtime for u.... Some guys sef... Will be forming Richie-Rich ...after few days later ... Dude will be googling the best call tarriff...

2dice:
Lol... Most the ladies commenting here ... Does the same... The most annoying one is beeeeeep ... As soon as he press the yes button ... She will press the Red button... She expect you to call her back.... Like say Na her papa buy airtime for u.... Some guys sef... Will be forming Richie-Rich ...after few days later ... Dude will be googling the best call tarriff...

Badt guy

Mhizkel:
Some girls are naturally stingy while some have the dumb mentality of ''He is the guy, he should be the one calling''!

Was alittle bit surprised when I saw this come from a lady, u nailed it tho....

This type of a thing too happened to me too, and the lady does like she cares and is into me, but one day we talked about something similar to the OP's topic together with her roommate and from there I saw that she had that 'but he is the guy, and he should be the one calling' mentality.... [she would say shebi na you guyz dey find......] I then noticed that since I had knew her I had been the only one calling her jst to check on her even during holidays..... When we are on break and we are back to our respective houses she never bother to call me throughout the holiday. And as for me, I had wised up long before now not to call her...she dares not beep inorder for me to call back...[boya ko di'ra e mu o]

but op... talk about it with her if she has the mentality type that Mizkel talked about then maybe a good orientation will do just like she said.... but she might not be willing to unlearn that mentality. Then she must be ermm.....

Davland:



So annoying, & she do call her friends (male & female) on daily basis

Seems you're the guy, for you to know all this.

NaMe4:


Seems you're the guy, for you to know all this.

Lolz. Nope
Though also had the experience

[quote author=princedami post=34083935]

Was alittle bit surprised when I saw this come from a lady, u nailed it tho....

This type of a thing too happened to me too, and the lady does like she cares and is into me, but one day we talked about something similar to the OP's topic together with her roommate and from there I saw that she had that 'but he is the guy, and he should be the one calling' mentality.... [she would say shebi na you guyz dey find......] I then noticed that since I had knew her I had been the only one calling her jst to check on her even during holidays..... When we are on break and we are back to our respective houses she never bother to call me throughout the holiday. And as for me, I had wised up long before now not to call her...she dares not beep inorder for me to call back...[boya ko di'ra e mu o]

but op... talk about it with her if she has the mentality type that Mizkel talked about then maybe a good orientation will do just like she said.... but she might not be willing to unlearn that mentality. Then she must be ermm.....[/quote

LEARNING
But she must be

I don't really see anything in this.

U got a phone right? Beep or flash her which ever way; any time you want to talk to her. If she did not call you back, let it go as if nothing happened. The next time she does that, reciprocate the kind gesture by ignoring her.

If she says she beep or flash you, kindly explain that you did the same. Let her know that friendship calls for sacrifice. That what is good for the goose is equally good for the .......
l love u is not a one way traffic. It is just not a big deal.

But if you got the money to recharge, just ignore what ever you are thinking and keep giving her the call. Besides credit is meant for calling loved ones... oh! and those that are owing you

[quote author=Davland post=34095364][/quote] ayaf 4gotn self... Later...

princedami:
ayaf 4gotn self... Later...

Ehya. Patiently waiting...

princedami:


Was alittle bit surprised when I saw this come from a lady, u nailed it tho....

This type of a thing too happened to me too, and the lady does like she cares and is into me, but one day we talked about something similar to the OP's topic together with her roommate and from there I saw that she had that 'but he is the guy, and he should be the one calling' mentality.... [she would say shebi na you guyz dey find......] I then noticed that since I had knew her I had been the only one calling her jst to check on her even during holidays..... When we are on break and we are back to our respective houses she never bother to call me throughout the holiday. And as for me, I had wised up long before now not to call her...she dares not beep inorder for me to call back...[boya ko di'ra e mu o]

but op... talk about it with her if she has the mentality type that Mizkel talked about then maybe a good orientation will do just like she said.... but she might not be willing to unlearn that mentality. Then she must be ermm.....

That's what it is my dear!

tosyne2much:
I don't roll with ladies who don't want to be on the losing end


Either friendship or dating, I believe both of us should have something to lose

ure a very sharp guy.

Davland:


Ehya. Patiently waiting...

I don't wanto jump into conclusion.... But on the other hand, if a lady could do that *[calling other guyz but beeps her bf]* there is a possibility she doesn't like him from the onset and jst decided to date him due to: No option, pressure from the guy or friends e.t.c [ladies can use this to want to be on the receiving end always, saying 'shebi na u wan marry wife, eh you go spend wella] but I believe if she truly loves she will/can go out of her way just to hear her bf's voice atleast, even if it is once in a day for just 1min... but I would still advice you talk this issue over with her

princedami:
I don't wanto jump into conclusion.... But on the other hand, if a lady could do that *[calling other guyz but beeps her bf]* there is a possibility she doesn't like him from the onset and jst decided to date him due to: No option, pressure from the guy or friends e.t.c [ladies can use this to want to be on the receiving end always, saying 'shebi na u wan marry wife, eh you go spend wella] but I believe if she truly loves she will/can go out of her way just to hear her bf's voice atleast, even if it is once in a day for just 1min... but I would still advice you talk this issue over with her

Hmmm right words, would do as adviced
Thanks Bro

Davland:

Hmmm right words, would do as adviced Thanks Bro

you are welcome