omoge:

yes they don't marry early enough but go about f**cking women around and having illegimate children,
bringing fiction to the real lady who waited to marry, finally marrying him and him and his family forcing the real
wife to take the illegitimate children,
bunch of pretenders they are!!

Gettolove:

I don't agree that a marriage built on financial reasons would crash as someone said instead i will posit the reverse of the assertion.
@gina + lice
girls are the reason why men marry late and not neccessarily to make all the millions in the world, In naija a wise guy must ensure he has what it takes to maintain both his car and wifey because ARISTOS are everywhere
Girls pretend that they love you for who you are but when things look unfriendly(cash wise), then the true picture of your wife will come out.

FOR THE GIRLS

CAN YOU MARRY A POORMAN

a) YES b) NO

iice:

@ghettolove, da name's iice, if you can read it don't bother typing it. I didnt say he has to have millions but considering the amount of money used on traditional weddings, the amount of money used to maintain his car or even get one for the wife and the money spent of making the wife look good and comfortable, well he has to have some serious dough. Do you bother to test your girl out? I mean to find the true colour as they say oh do you just assume? I agree that a marriage based on financial reasons can survive depending on the couple, either they just rather stick to the facade (he just wanting her to look good and know that he can get her flashy things and she just sticking to him because he can get her what she wants) or its a business transaction. I have dated both ends. Either way, being aware of who you are, what you are made off and what you want out of life (same thing for the man)determines what works for you. As to your question of marrying a poor man, yes i can, if i know what he is capable off. Its no new thing in my family and it all turned out great for two generations.

Douzy:

Yea, I think iice has the kind of mentality I want to see in my prospective wife.

iice:


@windywendy, you don turn pastor? lol

windywendy:

Douzy is one Nigerian man who's unmarried and who has found everything he wants in a prospective wifey in iice.