Well,my friend(29yrs) and his girlfriend(26)(which he loves so much and plans to marry) went out on a date and snapped some pictures. He uploaded the picture on his facebook wall and the picture had lots of likes. Well,it didn't go down well with his girlfriend's mum who scolded his girlfriend seriously. His girlfriend's mum told his girlfriend that she is messing up her life because if her present boyfriend ends up dumping her,she may not get any decent guy because she has given out too much publicity for a relationship that has not been legalised. She added that the guy has not done formal introduction to the family and has no right to upload her daughters picture in a public platform because that may discourage other serious suitors. My friend has been feeling down since then because they both love each and want to get married but he is still trying to set himself up financially. So is it a bad thing for guy to post his serious girlfriend's picture on facebook and can this discourage serious suitors in future?

which one be serious? so you have the ones you date for fun?

The Mum has a point
He should delete the pictures. Simple
Some don't see it as a big deal; some do
Just blend and move on. YOLO.

Not that bad, it depends on the two matured minds.

that's kiddish
Pictures of their marriage cermony, fine!

" what an adult see while sitting down , a young person cannot see even if he climbs the tallest tree "

The mum is right .

damseyl:
that's kiddish

Pictures of their marriage cermony, fine!

uhmn... U wanna swear no guy has upload ur picsure b4??

The mother mean business Oo...in my own view ... She can't wait for u or is it your friend to Hammer .... Any financially ready-made guy ... Oboy your babe don port be that ....

Well... It isn't bad though depending on the parties involved... Though there shouldn't be too much publicity cos if for some unfortunate reasons the relationship didn't work out...eyebrows will be raised and questions will be asked.

I once did the same thing but when I realized it was gaining too much publicity, I hid all the pictures asap cos everyone ranging from family to friends, far and wide were like "so na your babe be that" and I don't like such.

So your friend shouldn't be too down about it. He should brace up, work harder, make the thing formal, prove her mom wrong and all will be fine. May God bless our hustle

2dice:
uhmn... U wanna swear no guy has upload ur picsure b4??

at all!

some nigerian parents just too razz abeg

Her mum is right
There is nothing like serious girlfriend
I once uploaded a picture I took with a colleague, just a friend at school on my whatsapp. My parents saw it,all hell broke lose


It's shameful for a girl to be associated with a guy who isn't her husband in public

Relationship should be a secret till it materializes

A man can flaunt 100 girls as girlfriends, another 100 girls are waiting to marry him

But for a woman,once you have been identified with one man...sorry! Other men run away from you and if the relationship ends,nobody gon approach u..nobody wants a leftover.
moreover, It's not just nice to showcase who you are having premarital sex(That's what people do n call it relationship ) with to the world.

So far she is still at girlfriend level,will never do that,only marriage pictures or engagement pics I can upload.

damseyl:
at all!

eerm... which of Dem is U @dp ... Lemme break the jinx

DrGroove:
Her mum is right
There is nothing like serious girlfriend
I once uploaded a picture I took with a colleague, just a friend at school on my whatsapp. My parents saw it,all hell broke lose


It's shameful for a girl to be associated with a guy who isn't her husband in public

Relationship should be a secret till it materializes

A man can flaunt 100 girls as girlfriends, another 100 girls are waiting to marry him

But for a woman,once you have been identified with one man...sorry! Other men run away from you and if the relationship ends,nobody gon approach u..nobody wants a leftover.
moreover, It's not just nice to showcase who you are having premarital sex(That's what people do n call it relationship ) with to the world.

This comment got potential

DrGroove:
Her mum is right
There is nothing like serious girlfriend
I once uploaded a picture I took with a colleague, just a friend at school on my whatsapp. My parents saw it,all hell broke lose


It's shameful for a girl to be associated with a guy who isn't her husband in public

Relationship should be a secret till it materializes

A man can flaunt 100 girls as girlfriends, another 100 girls are waiting to marry him

But for a woman,once you have been identified with one man...sorry! Other men run away from you and if the relationship ends,nobody gon approach u..nobody wants a leftover.
moreover, It's not just nice to showcase who you are having premarital sex(That's what people do n call it relationship ) with to the world.

Hmmmmm,ok o

dlex21:
Well... It isn't bad though depending on the parties involved... Though there shouldn't be too much publicity cos if for some unfortunate reasons the relationship didn't work out...eyebrows will be raised and questions will be asked.

I once did the same thing but when I realized it was gaining too much publicity, I hid all the pictures asap cos everyone ranging from family to friends, far and wide were like "so na your babe be that" and I don't like such.

So your friend shouldn't be too down about it. He should brace up, work harder, make the thing formal, prove her mom wrong and all will be fine. May God bless our hustle

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The mother has a point! But, she was protecting her daughter. Dont forget that this is Africa. Women are an endangered specie.

marcondo13:
The mother has a point! But, she was protecting her daughter. Dont forget that this is Africa. Women are an endangered specie.

Ya,that's true.

DrGroove:
Her mum is right
There is nothing like serious girlfriend
I once uploaded a picture I took with a colleague, just a friend at school on my whatsapp. My parents saw it,all hell broke lose


It's shameful for a girl to be associated with a guy who isn't her husband in public

Relationship should be a secret till it materializes

A man can flaunt 100 girls as girlfriends, another 100 girls are waiting to marry him

But for a woman,once you have been identified with one man...sorry! Other men run away from you and if the relationship ends,nobody gon approach u..nobody wants a leftover.
moreover, It's not just nice to showcase who you are having premarital sex(That's what people do n call it relationship ) with to the world.

Nonsense. One can't take photo with even a friend again? Change your mindset mehn, it stinks.

kandiikane:


Nonsense. One can't take photo with even a friend again? Change your mindset mehn, it stinks.

One can take pictures with friends but uploading them on social media is not wise. The society reads "meaning" into every association btw a man and a woman.

Yeah her mum is right


but eh

wetin d mama dey find for facebook??

mrdrizzy:
Yeah her mum is right

but eh
wetin d mama dey find for facebook??

lol,funny

DrGroove:

One can take pictures with friends but uploading them on social media is not wise. The society reads "meaning" into every association btw a man and a woman.

He should delete it or I slap him..
I have a picture I snapped with a guy (just a friend) on my BBM... We were on a ride at a park and the picture was cool >>>(so I think)
I found out my crush just talks to me using monosyllabic words... Even when I asked about how he manages with fueling his car... he just said " I am ok with it"
THat has been on for like a week because I forget to change/check my DP .. I am so going to remove it now

DrGroove:
Her mum is right
There is nothing like serious girlfriend
I once uploaded a picture I took with a colleague, just a friend at school on my whatsapp. My parents saw it,all hell broke lose

colleague? not even a school mate Mummy's boy. u better grow up. ;-D

DrGroove:

It's shameful for a girl to be associated with a guy who isn't her husband in public

No offence, but are you an S.U? You mean I should tell my fiancee to hide behind the tree till evening or probably see her inside the thick bush before we could talk. Make she dey pass window come inside my room cos we must not be seen associating.

DrGroove:
Relationship should be a secret till it materializes

Another reason for people to cheat with maximum effort. continue.

DrGroove:
for a woman,once you have been identified with one man...sorry! Other men run away from you and if the relationship ends,nobody gon approach u..nobody wants a leftover.

Very funny, even girls that are into serious and open relationship, some guys striving so hard to snatch her from her bobo.
bro you need to see the outside world and stop making suggestions based on your own interest. no offence.

What are we saying here?

temmym4:


colleague? not even a school mate Mummy's boy. u better grow up. ;-D


No offence, but are you an S.U? You mean I should tell my fiancee to hide behind the tree till evening or probably see her inside the thick bush before we could talk. Make she dey pass window come inside my room cos we must not be seen associating.



Another reason for people to cheat with maximum effort. continue.



Very funny, even girls that are into serious and open relationship, some guys striving so hard to snatch her from her bobo.
bro you need to see the outside world and stop making suggestions based on your own interest. no offence.

Abi o

focusM:
Well,my friend(29yrs) and his girlfriend(26)(which he loves so much and plans to marry) went out on a date and snapped some pictures. He uploaded the picture on his facebook wall and the picture had lots of likes. Well,it didn't go down well with his girlfriend's mum who scolded his girlfriend seriously. His girlfriend's mum told his girlfriend that she is messing up her life because if her present boyfriend ends up dumping her,she may not get any decent guy because she has given out too much publicity for a relationship that has not been legalised. She added that the guy has not done formal introduction to the family and has no right to upload her daughters picture in a public platform because that may discourage other serious suitors. My friend has been feeling down since then because they both love each and want to get married but he is still trying to set himself up financially. So is it a bad thing for guy to post his serious girlfriend's picture on facebook and can this discourage serious suitors in future?

The bonded part is the reason the girls mum was not happy about the whole thing.

DrGroove:
Her mum is right
There is nothing like serious girlfriend
I once uploaded a picture I took with a colleague, just a friend at school on my whatsapp. My parents saw it,all hell broke lose


It's shameful for a girl to be associated with a guy who isn't her husband in public

Relationship should be a secret till it materializes

A man can flaunt 100 girls as girlfriends, another 100 girls are waiting to marry him

But for a woman,once you have been identified with one man...sorry! Other men run away from you and if the relationship ends,nobody gon approach u..nobody wants a leftover.
moreover, It's not just nice to showcase who you are having premarital sex(That's what people do n call it relationship ) with to the world.

Nawa oooo but it's true sha,,it drives potential suitors....

The mum is right.. I learnt my own lesson the hard way.

Mehnn.. the mum is right in a way..

If you want her, go and see her mother.