Pls before I start I want u to knw am typing via a mobile phone, in cases of errors pls don't mind too much
Let me start this way, I notice this, people that are capable of wrecking my life always find my gf attractive to them, about four years ago we went to dsame higher institution, where we met @ out 1st year, we had loved each other like water to the body, it 1st started wt dis lecturer in our 2nd year that wanted to go out wt her by all force, she had a carry over in dat particular course, as her punishment, a course she taught several people frm her department, dsame happened in her 3rd year, where she struggled to hav a pass, which affected her G.P seriously, the worst was our final year project, my supervisor came directly to me, that he want to go out wt her, that I should make sure I get her ready if, am ready to graduate frm skul, as we all knw without the project stuff, the years in skul could be wasted.....I lied to my supervisor we r dating and we are about to engaged self, after several times of repeating chapter three in my project, then agreed to leave her that he didn't knw frm the start we r dating. Again where she went to serve, a politician man always keeps dis stopping her in the community she stays, she had to park to another place, which is more stressful to get to her place of duty, the man won't stop calling her phone number every 30min, even though she wouldn't pick it, this continues for several months, I became angry wt myself, sometimes I blame myself for dating and eye embracing and attractive lady, but she never cheated on me, she never for once compromised on cheating, she never wear seductive clothes, y her always, upon all those ladies walking naked outside, could this be a curse? Its been 6months now she got over the politician man issue, now she's working at an estate firm in Lagos, now a male frnd of her female boss want her out again, he's been calling her on phone as a gentle man, but its getting harder for me to cope and bear, she once suggested she should quit her job, as the young man won't stop visiting her @ the office, she has done several things to him, scream, shout, ignore, but not until last week she was served a query letter for disrespecting the company customer, she showed me this letter with hot tears in her eyes, this time she looked into my eyes and said "darling pls help me, this ain't an ordinary issue we use to think, let go spiritual on this" we are not yet married but we are certain we might very soon, but what can I do? Pls Nairalander help me, could dis be a spiritual issue or she's just been a sincere victim of all dis?
Am depressed I need a cogent advice




This mail was received frm a colleague of mine, as his brother was the one in the situation

WoW,at the sight of d TOPIC i was goin2 give a funny response but WOW after reading it content.?This one s strong

You gotta stay strong for the competition(Too many rivals) or marry her away.

Very strong one!

1st=i don't tink its spiritual(u can Still visit d pastor or BABALAWO sha) it possible cuz Half of such have experienced,so its no cause for alarm.No2=at the beginning of giving anybody her number,her 1st sentence should be I JUST GOT INTO A RELATIONSHIP AM TRYing TO BUILD or SOMETHING BETA,,,,,,,,,,,,,ur babe na ANNA BARNA?

I wonder when we Africans will stop this our spiritual blv.

nothing is fishy In the situation jare, just that the Lady is attractive and her appearance will judge. I no fit shout, show us her picture and let's see the reason why everybody wan date her. I might be lucky to have her too

Life na all about struggles, if u no struggle to get her you no go value her.

Just be rest assured, if she loves u, nothing wey other people go do go ever make her leave u.

Finally, u no need go any spiritualist or pastor, just pray and u go de surprised at how things go work out.

agarawu23:
ok

Boo, you have nice lips, shiny sexxxxy eyes and cute hips. May I kiss you sometime?

Give her like 6 deep tribal marks on each cheek and your problems are over......>scratch that<.....
Bro,if she's that pretty,men will always hit on her.there's no possible way you can curb this unless she becomes ugly overnight so you gotta live with it bro.
Infact ,you gotta be so damn proud mahn that so many men want's a piece of what you have,would you have liked it if all other men besides you wave her off as an ugly smello?
Well i know your answer is no.
She doesn't even cheat on you gaan,that's a big plus mahn.
But if you feel it's spiritual,you can still visit your pastor oo,ya dig?
So cheer up.

Boxer007:



Boo, you have nice lips, shiny sexxxxy eyes and cute hips. May I kiss you sometime?

what the fvck!!

Bro, weather the storms since the love looks authentic.

14 yrs no be joke o

Boxer007:



Boo, you have nice lips, shiny sexxxxy eyes and cute hips. May I kiss you sometime?

Boxer007:



Boo, you have nice lips, shiny sexxxxy eyes and cute hips. May I kiss you sometime?

sorry!!! I don't do guys

agarawu23:
I wonder when we Africans will stop this our spiritual blv.

nothing is fishy In the situation jare, just that the Lady is attractive and her appearance will judge. I no fit shout, show us her picture and let's see the reason why everybody wan date her. I might be lucky to have her too

KiidaACE:

bro na so na

try your luck

KiidaACE:
Give her like 6 deep tribal marks on each cheek and your problems are over......>scratch that<.....
Bro,if she's that pretty,men will always hit on her.there's no possible way you can curb this unless she becomes ugly overnight so you gotta live with it bro.
Infact ,you gotta be so damn proud mahn that so many men want's a piece of what you have,would you have liked it if all other men besides you wave her off as an ugly smello?
Well i know your answer is no.
She doesn't even cheat on you gaan,that's a big plus mahn.
But if you feel it's spiritual,you can still visit your pastor oo,ya dig?
So cheer up.

Read my write up carefully.......its always at the expense of her happiness or mine

Boxer007:



Boo, you have nice lips, shiny sexxxxy eyes and cute hips. May I kiss you sometime?

agarawu,,,,....




make out with the guy if you will please??

Holatunde007:

Read my write up carefully.......its always at the expense of her happiness or mine

ok

@Holatunde007
maybe you should teach your girlfriend how to turn these people down nicely. it is actually very simple, and best done in public view so these men dont try again later.

she simply has to say:" i am sorry but i am NOT interested whatsoever because i am happily dating in a serious r/ship, about to be married. now, if i was your gf, you wouldnt want me to disrespect you and meet other guys who want to date me, right? so why would you expect me to disrespect my man like that with you? if you were a proper guy, with INTEGRITY/RESPECT/UNDERSTANDING you wouldnt disrespect me and ask me out, so pls act RIGHT as a man so some ladies out there has the chance to value you.