My last real relationship was 2 years ago
I was in love but my boyfriend broke up with me then, am over it but still think about it
And now am scared of trusting, loving cos i dnt wnt to get hurt again.
I wish i can have someone now, cos i feel so lonely not having someone i can share my feelins with

Am at the age range people are expectant, and am not even in a relationship
am i alright? and are there is still good guys!
Is it a crime to be single for so long?

How old are you now ? and do you have an issue for him ?

@charmine

You're perfectly alright. You just have to let go(it's not easy but you have to for your own good) of your heartbreak from your past relationship and 'dare for more' just like the pepsi byline says.
Dare for your heart to be broken more by being open to love again. Go out with friends more often and make new ones(both male and female), before you know it you'd be hooked up with a new man, and by Gods grace a good one this time.

charminme:

My last real relationship was 2 years ago
I was in love but my boyfriend broke up with me then, am over it but still think about it
And now am scared of trusting, loving cos i dnt wnt to get hurt again.
I wish i can have someone now, cos i feel so lonely not having someone i can share my feelins with

Am at the age range people are expectant, and am not even in a relationship
am i alright? and are there is still good guys!
Is it a crime to be single for so long?

You are alright. men are bad, just keep off them. When you are 40 you will know better

woah what a contradiction, first without trusting someone again, you have no chance of finding happiness.
second don't judge all men just because you had one breaking your heart, you might find a husband in the next one ONLY IF YOU TRY.
you have absolutely nothing to loose by giving someone else a chance(just choose him right), just go out there and find someone that is compatible.
it doesnt matter how many times you fall as long as you can get back up. a man is not BAD just because he breaks up with you, he is just different. nothing on the wall says that when you date someone, its forever. just take it one step at a time.
good luck
ps: in my book, it is a crime to be single and alone, PERIOD

Girl, I am available if just need a love-vendor

aus123:

Girl, I am available if just need a love-vendor

Leave her alone, you want to break the heart a 2nd time?

And as usual, Nigerians will insult a poster that asks a question.
If you have no answers, or advice worth giving, then please refrain from posting.

@ Charmine:

Not sure what happened in your last relationship, only you know the circumstances.
But, don't be bullied into making a rash decision, just because Nigerian society "dictates" you shouldn't be single.
It's not a crime to be single, but it's wrong to get involved with someone you're not sure of / in love with. It's not fair on you or the guy involved.
It's best to be sure before you move onto another relationship; I don't know how old you are, and really, it doesn't matter.

There are way too many ladies stuck in unhappy relationships / marriages, because the just felt "they had to be hitched."
Don't try too hard, as to appear desperate, the right guy will come along, and yes, there are good men out there.

DeltaVAG^TM

Not really, I just want to make her happy! She shdn't make a mistake of the next man shd be a husband material.

She shd just free her mind. That is the only way she can find true love,

aus123:

Girl, I am available if just need a love-vendor

How very intelligent you sound.
Luckily, there are good Nigerian guys out there, if they were all like you, we'd be in trouble.

DeltaVAG^TM

How I wish u re one of the gud Nigerians.

I know the sis will heed to my advice, not holy than thou and pretender like u.

Sista brush aside that experience and move on. Bygone is bygone. Look around and you will find the man meant for you. Good luck!

@ Aus:

No point exchanging words with you - you just don't get it.

Enjoy the thread.

DeltaVAG^TM

These re the problems 4 this generation. Proffer a solution instead of criticisms.

I haven't read anyone from ur post.


Just say something constructive.

@AUS123 and SIENA

It was really fun reading from u guys, am really laughin here
but pls no grudges, i appreacite ur view and advices

Thanks Charm, I luv and appreciate pple that understand what is at stake. Not like Senna who is just hypocrisy.

No hard feeling.

austo, i hail o

Path o I hail too. Though both us still have issues to sort out.

How re u doing today?

austo, am fine o. Letz sort our issue out now

We have agreed next Val in 2010.

Or what do u think?

austo, 2010 val is too far nao

Lets communicate through our private e-mail.

Mine is austintor@yahoo.com.

Ok, mine is in my profile

Which of them is it the yahoo or rocket mail.

Rocket

Alright, I just sent a mail to ur yahoo. I will revert it now?

Ok

Whats all the flirting about?

Grizzly, who are u talking to? Plz we don't want u here

I had sent a mail to ur rocket acct. Dont mind him. waiting 4 ur response.

can we start something,as in me and u?

patwhizkid:

Grizzly, who are u talking to? Plz we don't want u here

u hijack someone's thread and start flirting,
why dont u start ur own?

Title: "I wanna Get Hooked. Interested?"
simple