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The Ex-lover, Marriage And Infidelity by Isuckpussy: 7:23pm On Jun 03, 2015
My friend divorced his wife last week because he caught her cheating, red-handed. Surprisingly, the wife didn't deny the accusation, neither did she feel perturbed about the divorce. Rumours had been spreading among neighbours earlier on about her inviting her ex to her matrimonial home for sex or whatever they did behind closed doors until my friend finally decided to set a trap and catch her by himself. It was later found out that the loverboy is her ex boyfriend. They had been dating since she was in secondary school. And to crown it up, my friend was aware of their relationship. According to him, he thought "she will outgrow it" and "it was just the regular kinda relationship, no strings attached".
Now I ask:
- Ladies, can I say men are taking risk marrying those of you who have had serious relationships in the past?
- Why does the chemistry linger between ex lovers even after marriage?
- Guys, would you marry a lady you know her ex boyfriend?


Ps: I'm not a masculinist. Of course, it's a fact that men are worse cheaters in the marriage circle, but as you know, we Africans are inclined to tag it a taboo when the woman falls victim, especially if the couple is living in a local community.

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Re: The Ex-lover, Marriage And Infidelity by INTROVERT(f): 7:25pm On Jun 03, 2015
Isuckpussy shocked

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Re: The Ex-lover, Marriage And Infidelity by Nobody: 7:27pm On Jun 03, 2015
INTROVERT:
Isuckpussy shocked
FOOL!
Re: The Ex-lover, Marriage And Infidelity by Isuckpussy: 7:33pm On Jun 03, 2015
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Re: The Ex-lover, Marriage And Infidelity by G3n3sis: 7:47pm On Jun 03, 2015
Isuckpussy:
My friend divorced his wife last week because he caught her cheating, red-handed. Surprisingly, the wife didn't deny the accusation, neither did she feel perturbed about the divorce. Rumours had been spreading among neighbours earlier on about her inviting her ex to her matrimonial home for sex or whatever they did behind the closed until my friend finally decided to set a trap and catch her by himself. It was later found out that the loverboy is her ex boyfriend. They had been dating since she was in secondary school. And to crown it up, my friend was aware of their relationship. According to him, he thought "she will outgrow it" and "it was just the regular kinda relationship, no strings attached".
Now I ask:
- Ladies, can I say men are taking risk marrying those of you who have had serious relationships in the past?
- Why does the chemistry linger between ex lovers even after marriage?
- Guys, would you marry a lady you know her ex boyfriend?


Ps: I'm not a masculinist. Of course, it's a fact that men are worse cheaters in the marriage circle, but as you know, we Africans are inclined to tag it a taboo when the woman falls victim, especially if the couple is living in a local community.
A lesson to put in mind. Never marry a girl u know her former lover and never presume her relationship with u will get any better

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Re: The Ex-lover, Marriage And Infidelity by Nobody: 7:48pm On Jun 03, 2015
Isuckpussy:
My friend divorced his wife last week because he caught her cheating, red-handed. Surprisingly, the wife didn't deny the accusation, neither did she feel perturbed about the divorce. Rumours had been spreading among neighbours earlier on about her inviting her ex to her matrimonial home for sex or whatever they did behind the closed until my friend finally decided to set a trap and catch her by himself. It was later found out that the loverboy is her ex boyfriend. They had been dating since she was in secondary school. And to crown it up, my friend was aware of their relationship. According to him, he thought "she will outgrow it" and "it was just the regular kinda relationship, no strings attached".
Now I ask:
- Ladies, can I say men are taking risk marrying those of you who have had serious relationships in the past?
- Why does the chemistry linger between ex lovers even after marriage?
- Guys, would you marry a lady you know her ex boyfriend?


Ps: I'm not a masculinist. Of course, it's a fact that men are worse cheaters in the marriage circle, but as you know, we Africans are inclined to tag it a taboo when the woman falls victim, especially if the couple is living in a local community.

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Make the guy lock up and move on. Women plenty.
Re: The Ex-lover, Marriage And Infidelity by kr0ne(m): 8:04pm On Jun 03, 2015
Lol! My paddy, that's why your elders would advise you to marry your friend. If she's truly your friend, she'd never think of cheating on you, whether she's been in a relationship before or not. But if you're looking for a girl who's never had previous relationships go to Sambisa forest grin

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Re: The Ex-lover, Marriage And Infidelity by WIZGUY69(m): 8:04pm On Jun 03, 2015
Isuckpussy:
My friend divorced his wife last week because he caught her cheating, red-handed. Surprisingly, the wife didn't deny the accusation, neither did she feel perturbed about the divorce. Rumours had been spreading among neighbours earlier on about her inviting her ex to her matrimonial home for sex or whatever they did behind closed doors until my friend finally decided to set a trap and catch her by himself. It was later found out that the loverboy is her ex boyfriend. They had been dating since she was in secondary school. And to crown it up, my friend was aware of their relationship. According to him, he thought "she will outgrow it" and "it was just the regular kinda relationship, no strings attached".
Now I ask:
- Ladies, can I say men are taking risk marrying those of you who have had serious relationships in the past?
- Why does the chemistry linger between ex lovers even after marriage?
- Guys, would you marry a lady you know her ex boyfriend?


Ps: I'm not a masculinist. Of course, it's a fact that men are worse cheaters in the marriage circle, but as you know, we Africans are inclined to tag it a taboo when the woman falls victim, especially if the couple is living in a local community.

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Obontami
Lordnaruto
B0rn2fuck
Fucktoto
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Plumber45
Clevverminded
RedBenson
iPopAlomo
Ducksoup
Kr0ne
WIZGUY69
BlackMaria etc
Femistico
ANGELMARVE

The wife is foolish for not feeling guilty in the first place after been caught in the act.

if I am to be the husband, I will do her something that she will regret.

isuckpussy.
i think your friend is soft.

the situation now is divorce, he shouldn't have anything to do with the lady anymore.

and if I know the ex of my wife to be shocked I will warn the guy and my wife separately. nothing should being the both of them together. as far am still the husband.

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Re: The Ex-lover, Marriage And Infidelity by kr0ne(m): 8:18pm On Jun 03, 2015
WIZGUY69:


The wife is foolish for not feeling guilty in the first place after been caught in the act.

if I am to be the husband, I will do her something that she will regret.

isuckpussy.
i think your friend is soft.

the situation now is divorce, he shouldn't have anything to do with the lady anymore.

and if I know the ex of my wife to be shocked I will warn the guy and my wife separately. nothing should being the both of them together. as far am still the husband.
I couldn't have said it better
Re: The Ex-lover, Marriage And Infidelity by Histrings08(m): 8:23pm On Jun 03, 2015
Men bn dey suffer from this since 700AD....
Re: The Ex-lover, Marriage And Infidelity by Isuckpussy: 8:29pm On Jun 03, 2015
kr0ne:
Lol! My paddy, that's why your elders would advise you to marry your friend. If she's truly your friend, she'd never think of cheating on you, whether she's been in a relationship before or not. But if you're looking for a girl who's never had previous relationships go to Sambisa forest grin
By 'marry ur friend' u mean a long term relationship, right?
Re: The Ex-lover, Marriage And Infidelity by GeneralQuamdeen: 8:31pm On Jun 03, 2015
Buddy, there is nothing wrong dating a girl with a serious relationship in the past.. but know that you are taking a risk. But i'll advise you to take a calculative rish, if the girl is the one you can mentally convince to make her see you like her first love (you can do that by badmouthing the first guy, all is fair in love and way).. but if she can't be convinced.. don't accept fate at all, call it off.
Re: The Ex-lover, Marriage And Infidelity by fucktoto: 8:36pm On Jun 03, 2015
GeneralQuamdeen:
Buddy, there is nothing wrong dating a girl with a serious relationship in the past.. but know that you are taking a risk. But i'll advise you to take a calculative rish, if the girl is the one you can mentally convince to make her see you like her first love (you can do that by badmouthing the first guy, all is fair in love and way).. but if she can't be convinced.. don't accept fate at all, call it off.
It depends on how committed she was in her past relationship. If her ex is gifted with a big dick like me am sorry. am experiencing similar issues as we chat.....my married ex chics still want my kondo. Bitches ain't loyal
Re: The Ex-lover, Marriage And Infidelity by GeneralQuamdeen: 8:40pm On Jun 03, 2015
fucktoto:

It depends on how committed she was in her past relationship. If her ex is gifted with a big prick like me am sorry. am experiencing similar issues as we chat.....my married ex chics still want my kondo. Bitches ain't loyal
yeah, b.itches ain't loyal, but now all of them are b.itch.es. A real woman should have know it's her responsibility to curb any for of chemistry before going into marriage but mess. These b.itch.es aint real women.
Re: The Ex-lover, Marriage And Infidelity by fucktoto: 8:50pm On Jun 03, 2015
GeneralQuamdeen:
yeah, b.itches ain't loyal, but now all of them are b.itch.es. A real woman should have know it's her responsibility to curb any for of chemistry before going into marriage but mess. These b.itch.es aint real women.
A real woman ke? no woman is really 'real' when she's in love. bro, the truth is at times they get married just to avoid the spite of getting ridiculed by their peers. So marriage is just the license to buy a 'Mrs Somebody' right. Gone are those days when a woman wud love her husband with all her heart. that's why I settle for bad and wayward gals who have no family tendency. Coz any good gal I fvck and dump will have marriage problem in the future. chemistry, lust and love are so entwined
Re: The Ex-lover, Marriage And Infidelity by Fidecoo(m): 9:39pm On Jun 03, 2015
I am also caught, in the web 2.
Re: The Ex-lover, Marriage And Infidelity by Isuckpussy: 10:04pm On Jun 03, 2015
Fidecoo:
I am also caught, in the web 2.
You mean like marrying a cheating wife?
Re: The Ex-lover, Marriage And Infidelity by Isuckpussy: 10:05pm On Jun 03, 2015
fucktoto:

A real woman ke? no woman is really 'real' when she's in love. bro, the truth is at times they get married just to avoid the spite of getting ridiculed by their peers. So marriage is just the license to buy a 'Mrs Somebody' right. Gone are those days when a woman wud love her husband with all her heart. that's why I settle for bad and wayward gals who have no family tendency. Coz any good gal I fvck and dump will have marriage problem in the future. chemistry, lust and love are so entwined
Funny dude cheesy
Re: The Ex-lover, Marriage And Infidelity by Fidecoo(m): 10:37pm On Jun 03, 2015
Isuckpussy:

You mean like marrying a cheating wife?
nope, but almos forced.2 do the latter.
Re: The Ex-lover, Marriage And Infidelity by Isuckpussy: 10:39pm On Jun 03, 2015
Fidecoo:
nope, but almos forced.2 do the latter.
Ok
Re: The Ex-lover, Marriage And Infidelity by GbengaJimoh(m): 8:53am On Jun 04, 2015
Most ladies are bitches, no pun intended
Re: The Ex-lover, Marriage And Infidelity by sunnydayasaba(m): 9:03am On Jun 04, 2015
The truth is that some ladies find it hard to easily move on from all their exes and attention they've received when their single. Your friend might have rushed things too fast. He ought to have waited for d lady to be mentally prepared of dis change. I think the wife is among dos class of women who falls in love with all their hrt and mind and healing is quit slow for her.

i will never marry a woman who i know still communicate with her ex and claim to be just friends with him.
Re: The Ex-lover, Marriage And Infidelity by Adisa89(m): 6:13pm On Jun 04, 2015
sunnydayasaba:
The truth is that some ladies find it hard to easily move on from all their exes and attention they've received when their single. Your friend might have rushed things too fast. He ought to have waited for d lady to be mentally prepared of dis change. I think the wife is among dos class of women who falls in love with all their hrt and mind and healing is quit slow for her.

i will never marry a woman who i know still communicate with her ex and claim to be just friends with him.
it's even better that he realized this early enough cos i didn't read about them having kids yet. the only thing he'll lose is the bride price he paid
Re: The Ex-lover, Marriage And Infidelity by Isuckpussy: 2:14pm On Jun 05, 2015
Adisa89:

it's even better that he realized this early enough cos i didn't read about them having kids yet. the only thing he'll lose is the bride price he paid
Lol, ur right

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