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6 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Girls Stay In Unhealthy Relationships by lolaxavier(m): 1:14pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
No woman should endure any form of maltreatment from any guy. It is sad when you find a beautiful young lady with potentials clinging to a guy who treats her badly, even hits her and feels good about it. They give you so many reasons why they cannot leave him. Here are some sad reasons. 1. Fear: Most ladies hang on to unhealthy relationships because they are afraid of the future. They do not see any life outside being with the guy. 2. Loneliness: Most girls dread being lonely. They rather be with someone, than stay single. 3. Sympathy: Women, being nurturers tend to get convinced when the guy appeals to their motherly side. 4. Emotional and material investment: Ladies tend to hold on to unhealthy relationships, because they feel they are the ones to lose out. They begin to calculate the “body,” financial, emotional investments they have made. 5. Pressure: Sometimes, family and peer pressure make them hang on . 6. Hope: Sadly, most ladies in unhealthy relationships actually hope the guy will change. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 6 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Girls Stay In Unhealthy Relationships by mekstaniac(m): 1:18pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
FTC? |
Re: 6 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Girls Stay In Unhealthy Relationships by Nobody: 1:23pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
True. buh that guy isn't the only guy in the world. 2 Likes |
Re: 6 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Girls Stay In Unhealthy Relationships by XavierBlue(m): 1:25pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
When he is true with you, my dear your life and pvssy will never be the same again. XavierBlue |
Re: 6 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Girls Stay In Unhealthy Relationships by buygala(m): 1:26pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
7- the money.... Ask Lara Oshiomohle 8- the Dicck.... Ask Rihanna why she found it hard leaving Chris Brown.... A girl who has found the best Dicck ever, will almost always find excuses to stay put in that relationship, no matter how toxic it is ...... Seeing how female orgasms these days are as scarce as teeth in the mouth of a 110 year-old woman, I kinda understand their predicament 9- Choice... Funny as it may sound, some girls enjoy being beaten, shouted at, and generally treated like slime.. I guess it's some kind of Pseudo-sadomasochism.... These kind of girls might die of depression in a sane relationship |
Re: 6 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Girls Stay In Unhealthy Relationships by lolaxavier(m): 1:30pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
EroticAngelina: A lady who refuses to opt out of an abusive relationship is only encouraging the guy the more to continue with his acts. Not sure why you will receive constant slaps and blows from someone and you will still see him as your messiah...which kind love be dat |
Re: 6 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Girls Stay In Unhealthy Relationships by lolaxavier(m): 1:38pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
mekstaniac: |
Re: 6 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Girls Stay In Unhealthy Relationships by basholodan(m): 2:20pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Booked |
Re: 6 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Girls Stay In Unhealthy Relationships by lolaxavier(m): 3:48pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
basholodan: |
Re: 6 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Girls Stay In Unhealthy Relationships by tofy: 4:15pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
[quote author=lolaxavier post=34489215]No woman should endure any form of maltreatment from any guy. It is sad when you find a beautiful young lady with potentials clinging to a guy who treats her badly, even hits her and feels good about it. They give you so many reasons why they cannot leave him. Here are some sad reasons. 1. Fear: Most ladies hang on to unhealthy relationships because they are afraid of the future. They do not see any life outside being with the guy. 2. Loneliness: Most girls dread being lonely. They rather be with someone, than stay single. 3. Sympathy: Women, being nurturers tend to get convinced when the guy appeals to their motherly side. 4. Emotional and material investment: Ladies tend to hold on to unhealthy relationships, because they feel they are the ones to lose out. They begin to calculate the “body,” financial, emotional investments they have made. 5. Pressure: Sometimes, family and peer pressure make them hang on . 6. Hope: Sadly, most ladies in unhealthy relationships actually hope the guy will change. Your points are very correct |
Re: 6 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Girls Stay In Unhealthy Relationships by czarr(m): 4:16pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
....emotionally hooked.
good or bad emotions. still emotions, still bond them. |
Re: 6 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Girls Stay In Unhealthy Relationships by Adaeze003(f): 4:29pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Money... Low self esteem... Lack of parental guidance or love... And yea choice... |
Re: 6 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Girls Stay In Unhealthy Relationships by KoredeBellosMum(f): 4:31pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
lies, lies and more lies lies, lies and more lies |
Re: 6 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Girls Stay In Unhealthy Relationships by Nobody: 4:33pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Adaeze003:such girls don't know they have the power to make the guy do silly things after they dump him. Silly Things Guys Do After They Get Dumped By A Pretty Girl |
Re: 6 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Girls Stay In Unhealthy Relationships by Nobody: 5:22pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
KoredeBellosMum:truth,truth and more truth.truth,truth and more truth |
Re: 6 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Girls Stay In Unhealthy Relationships by lolaxavier(m): 6:13pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Adaeze003: Also very true... |
Re: 6 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Girls Stay In Unhealthy Relationships by Aitee1: 7:26pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
buygala: You again Why have you derailed from your gala selling to the bashing crew @topic it pays to be focused and have a choice in life. I don't belong to the "I must have a boyfriend crew" if I'm not averagely satisfied in a relationship I'm off, sometimes those who fly solo have the strongest wing. |
Re: 6 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Girls Stay In Unhealthy Relationships by grad2012(f): 7:47pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
i think the fear of loneliness is 90 % reason why dey stay in such relationship. |
Re: 6 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Girls Stay In Unhealthy Relationships by lolaxavier(m): 8:39pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Aitee1: Not so sure if this your quote applies in this case ooo. |
Re: 6 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Girls Stay In Unhealthy Relationships by buygala(m): 10:17pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Aitee1: Don't blame me I just like looking at things from an up-side-down perspective |
Re: 6 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Girls Stay In Unhealthy Relationships by Enegod(m): 10:21pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
The grass might not be greener on the other side. |
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