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Re: I Can't Date A Girl Who Does This. What Do You Think?? by justmag(m): 11:32am On Jun 08, 2015
xtervaganza:
i have my own personal policy of not picking calls from a lady when im with my miss.......even if na business call

I actually don't pick up calls when am on a date except it exceptionally important. Phone stays on silent. It's just the way I am. I just believe it's rude. Also, someone told me once that it could be a sign that you are bored and need to get out of there! undecided

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Re: I Can't Date A Girl Who Does This. What Do You Think?? by boboLIL(m): 11:43am On Jun 08, 2015
U r just n0 seri0us....c0nji nva h0ld...if e h0ld u,,,u n0 g0 c0m hia de yarn abt datin ethical behavi0urs...
Re: I Can't Date A Girl Who Does This. What Do You Think?? by justmag(m): 12:26pm On Jun 08, 2015
boboLIL:
U r just n0 seri0us....c0nji nva h0ld...if e h0ld u,,,u n0 g0 c0m hia de yarn abt datin ethical behavi0urs...

Bredren! I am speaking about girls you want to take seriously. And not a beep and dismiss.
Re: I Can't Date A Girl Who Does This. What Do You Think?? by BuddhaPalm(m): 1:11pm On Jun 08, 2015
justmag:
If I am on a date with you and you anwser a phone call without acknowledging my present. I think it is rude and you should excuse yourself. If you don't. There won't be another date. Am I wrong for this??

A few of my friends say I am over reacting. But i still believing in common dating etiquette.

Ladies and guys i need your opinion because i dismiss girls for this simple thing. What do you think?

That's not something to freak out about. Just think of her as a new puppy.

She doesn't yet know what the boundaries are.

YOUR boundaries.

Just casually tell her, after her call, "Please don't do that again" (without anger, or frowning or anything). But fvcking, fvcking, fvcking mean it.

And continue your conversations as if nothing happened. She won't do it again, or would beg you to take a call if it's very important.

But with time anyway, she will of course have to take calls when you guys are together and that's normal.
Re: I Can't Date A Girl Who Does This. What Do You Think?? by oppybouy(m): 1:56pm On Jun 08, 2015
Mhizizzy:
It cud be way more important Dan d so-called date
You serving in Ife?
Re: I Can't Date A Girl Who Does This. What Do You Think?? by boboLIL(m): 2:21pm On Jun 08, 2015
justmag:


Bredren! I am speaking about girls you want to take seriously. And not a beep and dismiss.
kip searchn den
Re: I Can't Date A Girl Who Does This. What Do You Think?? by Nobody: 5:46pm On Jun 08, 2015
AfricanApple:
do you obey all the rules? like opening doors for her all the time? or are you just being ... lipsrsealed

Which kain yeye rule be that , open door ko open closet ni , abi she get muscle pull for hand
Re: I Can't Date A Girl Who Does This. What Do You Think?? by Macmilla(m): 6:30pm On Jun 08, 2015
justmag:
If I am on a date with you and you anwser a phone call without acknowledging my present. I think it is rude and you should excuse yourself. If you don't. There won't be another date. Am I wrong for this??

A few of my friends say I am over reacting. But i still believing in common dating etiquette.

Ladies and guys i need your opinion because i dismiss girls for this simple thing. What do you think?
Dude, I strongly agree it shows lack of courtesy on the part of the girl, but ask yourself this, how many of us really knows what courtesy demands? Even you overlook a lot of things thinking they don't matter, when actually, they do.
How many times do you hold the door for ppl behind you to pass? Hardly if ever. On this particular date you went on, did you position the chair for her and hold it for her to sit before you look for your own sit? I guess not.
If the above examples are correct, then you have no right to get angry. Just point it out to her, if she apologises, forget it and date ur girl or else, I see you single in 20yrs time.
Re: I Can't Date A Girl Who Does This. What Do You Think?? by justmag(m): 7:18pm On Jun 08, 2015
Macmilla:

Dude, I strongly agree it shows lack of courtesy on the part of the girl, but ask yourself this, how many of us really knows what courtesy demands? Even you overlook a lot of things thinking they don't matter, when actually, they do.
How many times do you hold the door for ppl behind you to pass? Hardly if ever. On this particular date you went on, did you position the chair for her and hold it for her to sit before you look for your own sit? I guess not.
If the above examples are correct, then you have no right to get angry. Just point it out to her, if she apologises, forget it and date ur girl or else, I see you single in 20yrs time.

I understand you and you have a wonderful point but what you mentioned are gestures men should show towards women. However, what I pointed out is more of a disrespectful behavior as opposed to dating etiquette. Whether you are a guy or girl! It's rude to do that. Besides, I always pull out a chair for my date, hold the door before her and more.

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Re: I Can't Date A Girl Who Does This. What Do You Think?? by Mhizizzy(f): 8:32pm On Jun 08, 2015
kagari:

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You a dumb girl for this comment, just read what you typed in relationship to what the op typed. Razz girl, yet you keep wondering why guys wanna go through your wide legs

Frustrated as.shole
Re: I Can't Date A Girl Who Does This. What Do You Think?? by Mhizizzy(f): 8:33pm On Jun 08, 2015
starlingslimnet:
that's a soft lip you got there

How d f did u know
Re: I Can't Date A Girl Who Does This. What Do You Think?? by justmag(m): 8:45pm On Jun 08, 2015
Mhizizzy:


How d f did u know

maybe he kissed them before... grin grin
Re: I Can't Date A Girl Who Does This. What Do You Think?? by kagari: 8:55pm On Jun 08, 2015
Mhizizzy:

i am a Frustrated as.shole
. Yes you are
Re: I Can't Date A Girl Who Does This. What Do You Think?? by tuk2ato(m): 9:27pm On Jun 08, 2015
Lemme check out the soft lips wink
starlingslimnet:
that's a soft lip you got there
Re: I Can't Date A Girl Who Does This. What Do You Think?? by tuk2ato(m): 9:46pm On Jun 08, 2015
I would like to be your friend on any SNS sad
Mhizizzy:
It cud be way more important Dan d so-called date
Re: I Can't Date A Girl Who Does This. What Do You Think?? by justmag(m): 6:15am On Jun 09, 2015
kagari:

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Yes you are

shocked
Re: I Can't Date A Girl Who Does This. What Do You Think?? by justmag(m): 6:15am On Jun 09, 2015
tuk2ato:
Lemme check out the soft lips wink

lmaoo
Re: I Can't Date A Girl Who Does This. What Do You Think?? by xp17(m): 6:37am On Jun 09, 2015
jcmaiah:
My friend go and sit down! Did you pay her bride prize? Guys just want to take all the glory for being just a diick! That's rubbish!
Bros cool down. It's not paying bride price or claiming ownership, this is simple courtesy and common sense. Basically, you supposed to retreat from all form of distractions when on a date, but if that is so important , then excuse the significant other and make the call as brief as possible.

As for me if you pull unnecessary stunt by having devided attention at all time, I'll just simply tell you we're done with the date, then go drop you and tell you to fix another date whenever you re ready. The same rule applies if you 're 5mins or more late for a date, I'll leave, even if I meet you by the door way, I ain't going back. We done for that day. If I can make it 15mins prior while can't her?

Bro, you need to put some values on yourself and don't have the mentality of her dating you is a favor rendered to you.

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Re: I Can't Date A Girl Who Does This. What Do You Think?? by Mhizizzy(f): 2:18pm On Jun 09, 2015
kagari:

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Yes you are

Crazy fellow.....
Re: I Can't Date A Girl Who Does This. What Do You Think?? by kagari: 2:27pm On Jun 09, 2015
Mhizizzy:

Crazy fellow.....
. My nigga
Re: I Can't Date A Girl Who Does This. What Do You Think?? by syommex(m): 2:33pm On Jun 09, 2015
Cutehector:
Cmon, dnt be so uptight, the call may be from her boss, or her mum, or her sister... Sometimes, thr r things we all need to tolerate... We dnt need to be too serious all d tym bro. Just pass on dat.
well said, at times we need to be flexible.
Re: I Can't Date A Girl Who Does This. What Do You Think?? by Emilord(m): 3:32pm On Jun 09, 2015
Mhizizzy:
It cud be way more important Dan d so-called date
God try when He created you. U r pretty...
Re: I Can't Date A Girl Who Does This. What Do You Think?? by Emilord(m): 3:35pm On Jun 09, 2015
INTROVERT:




All these guys that will be gauging lip softness via pics. tongue
sweetie,is not bad to appreciate good thing. I have checked d lips,abeg d guy talk true joor
Re: I Can't Date A Girl Who Does This. What Do You Think?? by justmag(m): 3:53pm On Jun 09, 2015
xp17:
Bros cool down. It's not paying bride price or claiming ownership, this is simple courtesy and common sense. Basically, you supposed to retreat from all form of distractions when on a date, but if that is so important , then excuse the significant other and make the call as brief as possible.

As for me if you pull unnecessary stunt by having devided attention at all time, I'll just simply tell you we're done with the date, then go drop you and tell you to fix another date whenever you re ready. The same rule applies if you 're 5mins or more late for a date, I'll leave, even if I meet you by the door way, I ain't going back. We done for that day. If I can't make it 15mins prior while can't her?

Bro, you need to put some values on yourself and don't have the mentality of her dating you is a favor rendered to you.

You have a bright future ahead of you. You said it well. This everything I am trying to tell people. Thirsty and desperate guys will see this in Spanish and not english because they just don't understand the value of self worth.

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