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Can A Guy Like Me Still Find Love? / Fear I Will Never Get Married :/ / My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? (2) (3) (4)
I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by boynigeria(m): 3:14pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
Okay, since my last serious relationship ended last year I find it so hard to make a real connection with any lady. If I meet anyone, after a while, I get bored so easily and these ladies think I'm an assshole but in actual sense I just dont feel any connection at all so I dont even stress myself further. So please matured people in the house, what d F is wrong with me and how do i get over this issue 1 Like |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by MEGGATRON(m): 3:17pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
hmmmm |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by 25omega(m): 3:20pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
boynigeria:maybe you need to take a break from dating. you are obviously still hung up on the past relationship. you need time to heal and properly move on. With the time off you will hopefully realize what it is you are looking for so that you can concentrate on finding that in the women you pursue instead of wasting yours and their time. 3 Likes |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by sirhot(m): 3:26pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
We are in the same shoes guy... No interest! I was so betrayed and back stabbed! |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by Nobody: 3:30pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
Erase every thought of your EX and have peace of mind. |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by sirhot(m): 3:35pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
tunnamania11:its not that easy depending. Now I don't take women serious. |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by Nobody: 3:45pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
sirhot:It's so easy bro, engage yourself with meaningful things , mingle with friends that makes u laugh, don't always be lonely. |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by cherryice(f): 3:47pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
U r d one holdn yourself |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by boynigeria(m): 3:49pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
cherryice:i believe that's why i was asking for advice how am i holding mesef |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by cherryice(f): 3:51pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
boynigeria:u cn love again if u let urself |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by boynigeria(m): 3:52pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
tunnamania11:well, cant deny i have done that but that aint easy though, its not like im still in love with her or any shiit like dat but the whole relationship thingy just looks useless after her |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by sirhot(m): 3:52pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
tunnamania11:its not about being lonely. It depends on the level of betrayal. In my own, after four years, I proposed, she said yes and after a few days she said let's break up. No reason. Now she wants me back. I don't even have the time to start with. 9 to 5 is enough occupation. Its just the betrayal that hurts, meaning she can kill! |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by sinaj(f): 3:53pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
Dunno wah to type coz m suffering from d xme thing now @ boynigeria |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by Nobody: 3:55pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
sirhot:That's true, betrayal hurts when u didn't see it coming. |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by sirhot(m): 3:55pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
boynigeria:I totally understand you. I occupy myself with other stuff, even when I settle with another person tomorrow I'll just doing for doing sake. I can't put my mind in such a venture. Give her what she wants and move on no feelings. |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by boynigeria(m): 3:55pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
cherryice:how do i let myself is the issue here love, i dont even kn how to toast or propose or whatever shiiittt they call that now i just swing it anyway it goes and bam, i get a girl that i later get bored of after a week or two |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by cherryice(f): 3:56pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
boynigeria:u need a counsellor |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by cherryice(f): 3:58pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
Sirhot wat do u do? |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by boynigeria(m): 3:58pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
sirhot:thank you, at least someone u kns how i feel i was crushing like crazy on this babe and she got to kn and asked me out herself but right there on the first date i lost every interest and d babe is kinda crazy abt me now and i can feel myself really hurting her |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by Houseofglam7(f): 4:01pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
Me thinks you need time to heal. Meanwhile, let your heart wander, meet new people, make new friends..... I got a dog though and it really helped. Ain't nothing wrong wiv you. Oh, lest I forget, drink Vodka 1 Like |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by boynigeria(m): 4:01pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
sinaj:my God! when i was abt to post this topic i felt like i was the only one and i actually created the first one i had to modify and clear it up(u will see if u check my profile), i later was like, F it, im gonna post this when was ur last serious relationship |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by sirhot(m): 4:02pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
cherryice:are you falling for me? send me a pm , my bbm is not working I'm a programmer |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by boynigeria(m): 4:03pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
Houseofglam7:lolz been on that like neva before, i quit drink last 3 years but now im back on that shiitt like neva before thanks dear |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by sirhot(m): 4:06pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
Houseofglam7:it not about meeting people, I now enjoy my company a lot now that I don't care about people. I play games a lot, watching movies, cycle, watch conspiracy theory videos and research. My discussion now are out of this world and most naija babes cant flow... |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by Houseofglam7(f): 4:07pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
boynigeria: Keep up the good work. Even I graduated to one bottle a day Works like a fuqin charm Slow down on the alchy bro Don't be like me |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by Houseofglam7(f): 4:08pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
sirhot: Congratulations!!!!!!! You're officially a hermit! |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by sirhot(m): 4:13pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
Houseofglam7:humans are bad, women are devils |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by pbs4real(m): 4:14pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
Houseofglam7:u nah brewery |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by boynigeria(m): 4:15pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
Houseofglam7:a bottle of vodka a day? girl! is u crazy?! who's ur drinking buddy? if he's a dude, i bet he drinks two per day love to have a drink with u sometimes but i may get bored of u too, u kn wait a second, i neva get bored of my drinking buddies we are good to go girl |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by pbs4real(m): 4:16pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
cherryice:hi |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by Sexxkillz: 4:18pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
You haven't allowed enough time to pass after the last relationship. You are just in a hurry to find a girl to call your own. You're in a hurry to no where. Life doesn't revolve around ladies. You don't even consciously fall in love. Love at first sight is actually attraction. To fall in love, non superficial characters of the lady will come into place. It also isn't all about you. Connection has to be mutual for anything meaningful to come out of it. Get busy. Improve your appearance, improve your business, relocate to another part of town, meet new people. If you keep doing the same things, it amounts to futility to expect different results. |
Re: I Fear I May Never Find Love Again by cherryice(f): 4:20pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
pbs4real:Hey |
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