In the first three months of dating it is DISASTROUS to validate her feelings and agree too much with a woman.

When you first meet a woman, she looks for strength and confidence FIRST. She is basically looking YOU over. She is not concerned at that time if you support her ideas or feelings.

She wants a man who can handle this world. "Can he take it?" she asks. In the beginning she is NOT INTERESTED in your "relationship skills".

She is interested in observing you in action. How does he HANDLE people? How does he HANDLE his car breaking down?

These are the FIRST things she looks for. In the first three months if you act too agreeable, or validate her feelings too much, she INTERPRETS this as being "soft".

She looks for strength and confidence FIRST.
A tough man has a gentle side, but it is CRAZY to present the "soft" side in the very beginning.

Why?

Because a woman will basically think you are ALL SOFT.

You must be confident with a touch of compassion for others. That's about it for about four months to a year.

I make it a point to "disagree" once on each date. It's a test. I want to see if she can handle small disagreements. Many men go along all the way for the first month or two.

Validating and defending a woman comes LATER on in the relationship. You get respect only later on. After one year VALIDATING becomes GOLD to a woman. In the beginning, it is relationship destroying.

I make it a point to "disagree" once on each date.
I am not saying treat her badly. Please don't post me back saying that. You give her basic respect. You are friendly, etc. But you are careful not to 'support' her too much when you FIRST MEET. Because she will interpret it as a character flaw called WEAKNESS.

Now all women are going to disagree. But that is the TRUTH. That's why nice guys get rejected.

Cc lalasticala ishilove

Talking about your mummy and daddy too much will also get you rejected..... Even if you are Yusuf Buhari.

Nice thread. Most times I see some of my nice guys friend get rejected. It's really surprising though. Similarly in all my dating and flirting spree, I got turned down twice, and that period I was nice. Today the story is different, it's all yes and yes each time I want any girl.

A Nice guy gets rejected so as to pave way for the best woman to have him all to herself.
Its an obstacle course most nice guys pass through, for nothing good comes easy.

another thing is...learn not to laugh at every of her jokes..

Alright.

Nice girls sometimes end up with the most beautiful girls who have become fed up of bad boys who are no good. It's just that those beautiful girls might have wide punna by then.




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INTROVERT:
Talking about your mummy and daddy too much will also get you rejected..... Even if you are Yusuf Buhari.

in English please

There are many women out there who are going to like for who you are not what you are... Hope i am right

shamsuRana:
A Nice guy gets rejected so as to pave way for the best woman to have him all to herself.
Its an obstacle course most nice guys pass through, for nothing good comes easy.

I like dis

okay

INTROVERT:
Talking about your mummy and daddy too much will also get you rejected..... Even if you are Yusuf Buhari.

like seriously, who talks abt dr mum and dad huh?

INTROVERT:
Talking about your mummy and daddy too much will also get you rejected..... Even if you are Yusuf Buhari.

abeg comot jor. Yusuf buhari, abi wetin you talk?

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I dont know if it was because i wasnt usin my glasses, but 'nice' in my dictionary means' fool'.

No you are not, I can bearly understand you

godofwar666:
There are many women out there who are going to like for who you are not what you are... Hope i am right

INTROVERT:
Talking about your mummy and daddy too much will also get you rejected..... Even if you are Yusuf Buhari.

Did you just say Yusuf Buhari?
can u swear with ur boobs that u won't accept his proposal even if he talk about his parents too much?
bunch of hypocrite

babs01:

Did you just say Yusuf Buhari?

Is Yusuf not his name? I mean GMBs son.

shamsuRana:
A Nice guy gets rejected so as to pave way for the best woman to have him all to herself.
Its an obstacle course most nice guys pass through, for nothing good comes easy.

*BARTENDER!!!!!!!!!*



A chilled orijin for my nigga here pls.

djeezy:
Today the story is different, it's all yes and yes each time I want any girl.

what a testimony

That's why I love the life of the cock, just pursue the damn hen and all ends in a fvcking story. No time wasted, only d time spent on a chase.

ya d good guys Neva wins thank God i was better

djeezy:
Nice thread. Most times I see some of my nice guys friend get rejected. It's really surprising though. Similarly in all my dating and flirting spree, I got turned down twice, and that period I was nice. Today the story is different, it's all yes and yes each time I want any girl.

That's for the folks that have the luxury of time to go around asking women out. I creep in like a virus and the bae will be like how the hell did we get here?


Sometimes when I hear some of brothers complaining of being in the friendzone I will be like "shut it guy, you are just in the right place to get free sex without being in a relationship".

Some guys sha.....


But bro, this yes yes wey you dey get.

Make e no be say ur talent nah to get woman.

#Runsout.

plz my people, how can i send a pm?

Emenahagos02:
No you are not, I can bearly understand you

thanks bro

Who cares. Just be yourself.

True talk, a friend of mine once left a guy she's been dating for 6 months, she told me its because he was a vegetable( na she talk am o). My own na just to laugh

nice guys without CASH!!! ? yes its possible

nice guys with CASH!!!? no way

hmmm sadly true.

Pinocchioo:
True talk, a friend of mine once left a guy she's been dating for 6 months, she told me its because he was a vegetable( na she talk am o). My own na just to laugh

haa ..that anty wicked o.

RickRichards:
Who cares. Just be yourself.

don't worry bruh.. my next post will be on "be yourself" should be done with it by tomorrow

Tallesty1:
That's for the folks that have the luxury of time to go around asking women out. I creep in like a virus and the bae will be like how the hell did we get here?


Sometimes when I hear some of brothers complaining of being in the friendzone I will be like "shut it guy, you are just in the right place to get free sex without being in a relationship".

Some guys sha.....


But bro, this yes yes wey you dey get.

Make e no be say ur talent nah to get woman.

#Runsout.

lmao at the last part. Na game well played na. Bros e be like say you be player o

Galacious1:
what a testimony