brutal:

@poster-i don't quite get it.do u mean marriage 4 love or 4 paper?because most have married b4 2 whites,blacks or whoever and some r still in it.most in europe have husbands but that's not a guarantee they r happy.talking about unfailthfulness--it's an individual thing,it has nothing 2 do with race.when a white man cheats on his partner,he blames it on alcohol"I WAS DRUNK".And when a black man cheats also,he blames it on d devil"NA DEVIL WORK".another fact is that u can't trust a white man or woman cos u don't know what they'll do next.they can change any time(LIKE D GERMAN WEATHER).They r prone 2 depression.una see as people dey commit suicide,we no know who dey mad again .so marry ur level.marry someone that will give u peace and compatible with.i don yarn finish oh.

olabukola:

Why do this british girls attach thier mind on this paper? I don't just understand that. I mean a guy will come over struggle and get paper, he will willingly travel home to marry a girl and bring her over. Why is it difficult for a girl to marry someone that have over stayed his visa. To be honest it is difficult for a nigerian guy with paper to marry a nigerian girl with paper. Check people around you and see for yourself. Not only Nigerians i work with 3 ghana guys and they have the same view. Maybe we are wrong but somehow somewhere those girls are not cutting it.
Most nigerian born brit will chose to marry a Nigerian girl that is illegal than to marry a british born nigerian that grew up in britain.

olabukola:

Why do this british girls attach thier mind on this paper? I don't just understand that. I mean a guy will come over struggle and get paper, he will willingly travel home to marry a girl and bring her over. Why is it difficult for a girl to marry someone that have over stayed his visa. To be honest it is difficult for a nigerian guy with paper to marry a nigerian girl with paper. Check people around you and see for yourself. Not only Nigerians i work with 3 ghana guys and they have the same view. Maybe we are wrong but somehow somewhere those girls are not cutting it.
Most nigerian born brit will chose to marry a Nigerian girl that is illegal than to marry a british born nigerian that grew up in britain.

olabukola:

Why do this british girls attach thier mind on this paper? I don't just understand that. I mean a guy will come over struggle and get paper, he will willingly travel home to marry a girl and bring her over. Why is it difficult for a girl to marry someone that have over stayed his visa. To be honest it is difficult for a nigerian guy with paper to marry a nigerian girl with paper. Check people around you and see for yourself. Not only Nigerians i work with 3 ghana guys and they have the same view. Maybe we are wrong but somehow somewhere those girls are not cutting it.
Most nigerian born brit will chose to marry a Nigerian girl that is illegal than to marry a british born nigerian that grew up in britain.

olabukola:

Why do this british girls attach thier mind on this paper? I don't just understand that. I mean a guy will come over struggle and get paper, he will willingly travel home to marry a girl and bring her over. Why is it difficult for a girl to marry someone that have over stayed his visa. To be honest it is difficult for a nigerian guy with paper to marry a nigerian girl with paper. Check people around you and see for yourself. Not only Nigerians i work with 3 ghana guys and they have the same view. Maybe we are wrong but somehow somewhere those girls are not cutting it.
Most nigerian born brit will chose to marry a Nigerian girl that is illegal than to marry a british born nigerian that grew up in britain.

tope2000:

I have noticed that too but most of the chic excuse are usually thats the reason why he is still with me, i actually heard a story of a guy that only date a girl with her papers intact . . . . .apparently wheneva he meet a new girl he usually ask her to travel with him, the girl's answer will detemine if she has paper or not meanwhile he doesnt have any paper himself but just looking a chic that will help him get his own . . . . .now tell me wud any girl wanna marry that kind of guy?? i know i wudnt

Treetop20:

i wonder why these blokes find it hard to understand
that most of the so called paperless men are just looking for
who to use for immigration purposes. I know lots of lasses it has
happened to.

tope2000:

Thank you . . . .u dont who to trust nowadayz . . . i swear
I mean u cant help but think . . .is he with u cus of the paper or truly

Treetop20:

then lie about it
tell him you haven't got any and if he disappears
afterwards then that is fine.

olabukola:

Why do this british girls attach thier mind on this paper? I don't just understand that. I mean a guy will come over struggle and get paper, he will willingly travel home to marry a girl and bring her over. Why is it difficult for a girl to marry someone that have over stayed his visa. To be honest it is difficult for a nigerian guy with paper to marry a nigerian girl with paper. Check people around you and see for yourself.

na una sabi o. why wont they put their mind on paper when a guy marry them just mainly to get their paper why wont they run away frm them. besides my mama told me to run away frm naija guys dat ova stayed their visa oops

Thank you . . . .u dont who to trust nowadayz . . . i swear
I mean u cant help but think . . .is he with u cus of the paper or truly

i wonder why these blokes find it hard to understand
that most of the so called paperless men are just looking for
who to use for immigration purposes. I know lots of lasses it has
happened to.

Because British-born Naija women are what they are. . . . . . . .Twats!!!

The irony of it is that those that are legal don't think of marrying you gyls. Moreover Marriage is not what you decide withing two months of meeting each other. Lets look at it from this angle, A guy from your home town can never marry and leave you when he get his papers. Nigerians marry and divorce oyibos and not fellow Nigerians. An Igbo guy cannot marry an Igbo gyl and divorce her after getting the paper when they are children involved. We value marriage and the product of it.

What of the paperless gyls that our guys marry, why don't you tag them with the same label?

But to be sincere, this paper shit is causing lots of problems, wetin this paper dey cause no be small thing oo!
Interesting thread!

na una sabi o. why wont they put their mind on paper when a guy marry them just mainly to get their paper why wont they run away frm them. besides my mama told me to run away frm naija guys dat ova stayed their visa oops

where did u get dat conclusion from that naija born here find it difficult to get married? na u know o!
just because they dont want to get married early doesnt necessary mean that they find it difficult to marry or maybe
they havent find the Mr. right yet!

lady kool:

@chikeobi and amarilo

i dont care what u ppl say or think. so wat if they want to be single till late 30s cuz they are no good men around. wetin cum be una problem for there! no worry if i like make i be 50 no marry i no go still say had i knw i will still be enjoying my life so no worri am kool.

tpia2:

I dont understand the people taking panadol for other folks's headaches either.
Trust a naija man to wonder about "those girls who cant get none of this"
Did the girls say they wanted "some of that"?

presido1:

U will be kool if u chose not marry not when u want to but nobody finds you.

The 47-year-old spinster told viewers of the U.K. TV talent show that she lived alone, had a cat called Pebbles, and had "never been kissed."

But it wasn't true.

Boyle, who has competed in countless talent shows, used the line to curry favor with the audience. She told a TV interviewer from U.K. breakfast show GMTV, "That was made as a joke! Never been kissed? I've never stopped."

sherifatou:

indeed!!! You feel the world begins and ends with you!(plural)

presido1:

Hahahaha go and look for emeka pls. My name doesn't look like his.

sherifatou:

did I call you before you called me?

debosky:

Tope do you have papers?

If yes, please forward you application. . .I am looking for a wifey.

^{berra hurry up before you expire on the shelf.}

tope2000:

Actually i was abt to ask u same question . . . .
Do u know any guy that has paper that i can marry

presido1:

4play he will make a good husband