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Some Parents And Forced Marriage by Badfinga: 9:19am On Jun 13, 2015 |
Nowadays we see marriages crashing like aeroplanes piloted by depressed pilots.One begins to wonder the depth to which these marriages were founded or built.I am of the school of thought that when it comes to matters of the heart(marriage),parents should restrict or limit the level of their interference to that of advice but not compeling someone against his/her own wish.I was inspired to write this piece because a female friend of mine is in a dilemma.Her parents wants her to marry someone she barely know.As a tradition in her family,she does not have a say on the issue.She just have to accept.Now the big problem is that she is contemplating suicide,running away from home or agree to the marriage and then kill the man thereafter.As I type this,her phone is switched off and am afraid.What advice do you have for this lady? Am running out of ideas already 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Some Parents And Forced Marriage by Nobody: 9:34am On Jun 13, 2015 |
Well if she doesn't love the guy then she shouldn't marry him Its that simple Her parents would cant chain her down or force her .. Shebi she will say i dont .. Finish . Y would she kill her self when its not like she 16, she needs to put her foot down n stop acting like a child .. ... My opinion oh lol 1 Like 106 Shares |
Re: Some Parents And Forced Marriage by MEGGATRON(m): 9:41am On Jun 13, 2015 |
LadyBoss1: brilliant! My love |
Re: Some Parents And Forced Marriage by djeezy(m): 9:49am On Jun 13, 2015 |
Dude this is 21st century and people should be allowed to exercise their liberty free from constraints as long as it posses no threat to another. Marriage is very delicate and as such requires the exercise of our own will and volition. Furthermore getting married is not compulsory. 2 Likes |
Re: Some Parents And Forced Marriage by Nobody: 10:01am On Jun 13, 2015 |
djeezy: |
Re: Some Parents And Forced Marriage by Nobody: 10:01am On Jun 13, 2015 |
Meggatron morning |
Re: Some Parents And Forced Marriage by MEGGATRON(m): 10:09am On Jun 13, 2015 |
LadyBoss1: I dreamt about you last night. |
Re: Some Parents And Forced Marriage by Nobody: 10:11am On Jun 13, 2015 |
MEGGATRON:Lol early morning U need to stop dreaming |
Re: Some Parents And Forced Marriage by Badfinga: 10:32am On Jun 13, 2015 |
LadyBoss1:I asked her to speak to her uncles,but she said they are all in support of the marriage which is against her wish |
Re: Some Parents And Forced Marriage by Nobody: 10:36am On Jun 13, 2015 |
Badfinga: Then she should tell them if they are so passionate about the guy .. They can marry him |
Re: Some Parents And Forced Marriage by Badfinga: 10:37am On Jun 13, 2015 |
djeezy:Exactly brother.This should not be happening in this age and time |
Re: Some Parents And Forced Marriage by Badfinga: 10:41am On Jun 13, 2015 |
LadyBoss1:That even the senior sis went through thesame condition.Was given out of her wish |
Re: Some Parents And Forced Marriage by Nobody: 10:42am On Jun 13, 2015 |
Badfinga: Nah wah in this modern day and age .. But nigerians are not known for arrange marriages tho ... Anyway its cuz they let them |
Re: Some Parents And Forced Marriage by yorubaboiy: 10:44am On Jun 13, 2015 |
if d guy loves her she should learn to love him back....... |
Re: Some Parents And Forced Marriage by Badfinga: 10:49am On Jun 13, 2015 |
LadyBoss1:Yes.but you cant take away that african factor of respect to the later even if it hurts. |
Re: Some Parents And Forced Marriage by Badfinga: 10:52am On Jun 13, 2015 |
yorubaboiy:She barely knows him.And also she has that principle of not marrying her tribe due to some reasons |
Re: Some Parents And Forced Marriage by Nobody: 10:54am On Jun 13, 2015 |
Badfinga: Nah. ,,, trust me Is it her uncle or her parents that will be in that marriage.. Anyway its not by force .. Isit men we should fear or God .. |
Re: Some Parents And Forced Marriage by Badfinga: 11:01am On Jun 13, 2015 |
LadyBoss1:But some parents will not reason that at all.Once you go against their wish,you hear something like I will disown you |
Re: Some Parents And Forced Marriage by Nobody: 12:45pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
Badfinga:Then so be it . |
Re: Some Parents And Forced Marriage by Johny2015: 2:03pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
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