My fiance said, I must become their church member before we can get married... what should I do? The major problem is her father, because her father is a minister in that church. If she chose to marry me without her father hand in it. Her parents will not attend the wedding.

bayogbite:
My fiance said, I must become their church member before we can get married... what should I do?

You know what to do.. Stop disturbing us

The ball is in your court.

You are about to become her husband. The least you do right now is agree with her on Spiritual grounds

.....give us something to work with na. are you of the same faith/doctrine? isn't the woman supposed to submit to the guy? isn't your love more important than which church you worship? a girl is giving you an ultimatum for marriage?

what concern us

czarr:
.....give us something to work with na.
are you of the same faith/doctrine?
isn't the woman supposed to submit to the guy?
isn't your love more important than which church you worship?
a girl is giving you an ultimatum for marriage?

Lemme know when some group of women start attacking you for this comment.

Tallesty1:
Lemme know when some group of women start attacking you for this comment.

....lol..okay
hope say you go defend me ooo

czarr:
....lol..okay
hope say you go defend me ooo

Definitely. What are we brothers for?

You are d man.. Not the woman! Fvck

It is your personal choice. But marrying without her parent's approval is not a good thing. Make your decision once and for all, don't delay the lady. She's not getting younger. Whatever the case, i wish you all the best.