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Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by tpia: 7:14pm On Feb 23, 2009
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Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by tpia: 7:16pm On Feb 23, 2009
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Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by Hauwa1: 7:16pm On Feb 23, 2009
hey, we don't hate you. just want you to do the right thing. what you are abt to do is completely wrong.

we hope a date with the real madam and not the small opeke grin

don't spoil her life for her. next time she is on you, send her home. you are old enough to know better undecided
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by touchmeder: 7:17pm On Feb 23, 2009
too bad, u c this thing they keep saying about NIGERIAN MEN. he just cant be faithful. (i know its not all of them sha)
someone will later tell the wife when she finds out ''leave him alone, abi is he not providing for you and the family?''
And the circle goes on and on

make God nor let person see bad thing oh.
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by RichyBlacK(m): 7:21pm On Feb 23, 2009
sweetpain:

St Richyblack NL's holyman who is a parmanent resident in sexuality and romance, I didnt exactly have you in mind when I started this thread.

I can accommodate just one school boy. Not more.

grin grin
Where did this I-forgot-to-play-while-single dude get the impression that yours sincerely is a "holyman"?

Stop making people disrespect your wife and leave the young girl alone. Just because you have a few naira in your pocket does not mean you should start doing what you're supposed to have done before marriage. Abi dem force you to marry? Married men chasing little girls in their neighborhood are uniquely pathetic!
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by DaPhoenix(f): 7:23pm On Feb 23, 2009
So leave her alone.
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by debosky(m): 7:26pm On Feb 23, 2009
@ tpia

thanks for the heads up wink
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by tpia: 7:30pm On Feb 23, 2009
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Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by geolabious(m): 7:40pm On Feb 23, 2009
[size=13pt]Pls Kindly Leave Her Alone[/size]
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by Outstrip(f): 7:53pm On Feb 23, 2009
Doesn't the 20 yr old ashewo know that he is married. He obviously has no respect for himself and neither does she. This is not even a case of him leaving her alone. She is also coming on to him. @ poster you are too old for this shit. Grow up
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by kingsikaz(m): 8:02pm On Feb 23, 2009


[center]ANALYSIS[/center]



39 minus 20= 19

at least she's romantically mature to be romantically dealt with grin you know now smiley

even if she's not mentally matured, the other one will compensate 4 that.

undecided
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by sweetpain: 11:27am On Feb 24, 2009
We had our first outing yesterday and it was all I wished for and maybe a little bit more.No first date bullshit from this real life angel, ever wanting to please. I have decided she is for keeps. Had a complimentary present delivered anonymously to her this morning.

Now to NL upstart critics, save for a few contributions that make sense virtually all the others come across as confused and irrelevant by persons who feel they too have to say something even when they have nothing.

Now hear this particular one who never has a mind of his own but with a pathological craving to 'always belong'
tpia:

you're welcome.
The guy seems to have overdosed on narcotics.
A known porn freak, his life begins and ends on internet. Profiling his type is actually very easy.NL and porn during the day and at night lurks in the dark looking for cheap thrills.This ajegunle born and bred has often laid claims to NZ as a place of habitation.

Debosky and Seun I hope you keep this line of communication open because I know there is a lot people would like to know about my friend tpia. Officially this thread is now about tpia the wannabe husband and father who likes to claim he is single.
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by Mitchelin(m): 11:53am On Feb 24, 2009
If u werent married, i would hv said no big deal since no guy can say he wants to marry a gal on their first date. But u r married and single guys like myself feel cheated when u deprive us the company of single chics. You see, we cant go after married ladies and the single ones are being gradually coerced by the married guys. Life harsh ooo.
AMEN![b][/b]
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by Nobody: 12:05pm On Feb 24, 2009
cry cry cry cry cry cry

i no play around b4 i marry , as soon as i enter correct job within 6 months i marry (madam don dey wait for 4 years) now small small girls for my close dey take style eye me - (small girls full festac) - na soso regret say i no sow wild oats back in the day grin. probably turned out for the best - some habits are hard to break once you get into them - i'm sure sweetpain has been hammering small girls since his 20s. the freaky ogas where i work have always been like that - but more money has giventhem more opportunuities tongue tongue
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by JJYOU: 12:10pm On Feb 24, 2009
oyb:

cry cry cry cry cry cry

i no play around b4 i marry , as soon as i enter correct job within 6 months i marry (madam don dey wait for 4 years)  now small small girls for my close dey take style eye me - (small girls full festac) - na soso regret say i no sow wild oats back in the day  grin. probably turned out for the best - some habits are hard to break once you get into them - i'm sure sweetpain has been hammering small girls since his 20s. the freaky ogas where i work have always been like that - but more money has giventhem more opportunuities  tongue tongue
o boy.  i tot this was some right of passage in naija why do you guys suddenly find it wrong?  even good ole tope didnt find nothing wrong with it at first.

@ sweetpain. na bitter pain you wan cause so abi?
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by spikedcylinder: 12:39pm On Feb 24, 2009
The age difference is not big deal.
However, this man is determined to cheat on his wife, what can "virtual people" do about it one might ask? undecided
I also have a problem with the girl as the OP said he originally thought of her as just a teenager down the road. She came on to him, she gave him ideas.
Both of them are scum.

[size=5pt]Plus, I noticed this seems to be a regular user with a different ID.[/size]
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by JJYOU: 12:46pm On Feb 24, 2009
spikedcylinder:

The age difference is not big deal.
However, this man is determined to cheat on his wife, what can "virtual people" do about it one might ask? undecided
I also have a problem with the girl as the OP said he originally thought of her as just a teenager down the road. She came on to him, she gave him ideas.
Both of them are scum.

[size=15pt]Plus, I noticed this seems to be a regular user with a different ID.[/size]

Both of them are scum
100% agree. however this is a normal scene in most naija cities if not all
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by Nobody: 12:52pm On Feb 24, 2009
spikedcylinder:

The age difference is not big deal.
However, this man is determined to cheat on his wife, what can "virtual people" do about it one might ask? undecided
I also have a problem with the girl as the OP said he originally thought of her as just a teenager down the road. She came on to him, she gave him ideas.
Both of them are scum.

[size=5pt]Plus, I noticed this seems to be a regular user with a different ID.[/size]

please do tell - my sherlock holmes seems to be offline
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by spikedcylinder: 12:56pm On Feb 24, 2009
I no know who im be o, I just dey guess.
CNN. tongue
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by lancevader(m): 12:58pm On Feb 24, 2009
Hm@lastposter
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by sweetpain: 1:02pm On Feb 24, 2009
spikedcylinder:

The age difference is not big deal.
However, this man is determined to cheat on his wife, what can "virtual people" do about it one might ask? undecided
I also have a problem with the girl as the OP said he originally thought of her as just a teenager down the road. She came on to him, she gave him ideas.
Both of them are scum.
[size=5pt]Plus, I noticed this seems to be a regular user with a different ID.[/size]
We have to understand the essence of this thread.It is not a morality debate. Hyenas know no morality.The OP has been true to himself. The only scum I can see here is tpia- that hideous creature hiding somewhere.

A lot of people talk the talk on this platform, all things considered how many people walk the walk.That is hardly the issue. My angel is so excited that the only challenge I see here is keeping the relationship discreet.
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by spikedcylinder: 1:20pm On Feb 24, 2009
sweetpain:

We have to understand the essence of this thread.It is not a morality debate. Hyenas know no morality.The OP has been true to himself. The only scum I can see here is tpia- that hideous creature hiding somewhere.

A lot of people talk the talk on this platform, all things considered how many people walk the walk.That is hardly the issue. My angel is so excited that the only challenge I see here is keeping the relationship discreet.

Its not a moral debate, what is it then? Unfortunately, the issues you've raised and the attitude you put forth cannot but bring about a moral debate. I hope you get that.

However, after this, I cease to believe you. You are just looking to cause an uproar. I'm sure you'll get it, just be patient.
*pats sweetpain's head*
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by spikedcylinder: 1:24pm On Feb 24, 2009
Plus, I notice how you've been logging in and out. Concentrate on one ID will ya?
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by sweetpain: 2:03pm On Feb 24, 2009
spikedcylinder:

However, after this, I cease to believe you. You are just looking to cause an uproar. I'm sure you'll get it, just be patient.
*pats sweetpain's head*
You cant be further from the truth. Anyway, I adore you too.
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by spikedcylinder: 2:20pm On Feb 24, 2009
LOL!
I knew it. grin
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by tpia: 2:32pm On Feb 24, 2009
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Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by sweetpain: 3:40pm On Feb 24, 2009
spikedcylinder:

LOL!
I knew it. grin
You know nothing.
tpia:

Your head is not correct. Se my post dey pain you because you know the girl is only with you for your money or she has a low sense of self worth.

First you claim there's a 19 year age difference. You followed it up with the bombshell that you're actually a stone cold cheater of the type who will vanish should his wife deliver triplets.

Once again- your head is not correct. Better correct it.
agbaya. angry

abeg stop describing your low life as if anyone is interested in your motor park tout behavior.

If your wife should do the same thing you're doing now, I'm sure you'll call a family meeting screaming culture and tradition in order to persecute the woman.

Useless man. Do you even know what it means to be a man. This your 20 year old hoochie should just present you with her boyfriend's baby and tell you its yours. Idiot.

Everyone look at a supposedly educated Nigerian. He lacks originality and worst of all he lacks common sense.

Over 5000 posts of pure sewage.You can trust him to pollute everywhere he goes. Nothing he says is original-As if he invented the word agbaya. You are free to copy and paste my post afterall this is NL anything goes. And yes there is enough to look after 100 babies including yours. Fool.There is hardly anywhere you go on NL you dont find that pollutant always seeking relevance. Because he thinks he too is an intellectual.Fake.
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by tpia: 3:44pm On Feb 24, 2009
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Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by debosky(m): 3:53pm On Feb 24, 2009

Debosky and Seun I hope you keep this line of communication open because I know there is a lot people would like to know about my friend tpia. Officially this thread is now about tpia the wannabe husband and father who likes to claim he is single.

@ Sweet pain.

That would be going off topic. If you want to discuss tpia or any other member of nairaland, please open a thread in the appropriate section. If you feel this thread has served it's purpose, then I may decide to lock it. Please read the rules before posting. Thanks wink
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by JJYOU: 4:06pm On Feb 24, 2009
why is this thread being locked and unlocked several times?
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by dani1luv: 4:07pm On Feb 24, 2009
I dunno undecided
Re: I Am 39 And She Is 20. So What? by spikedcylinder: 4:12pm On Feb 24, 2009
It should be locked jor, it is spam.

I thought tpia was female? shocked shocked shocked

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