Eating Hated Food In The Name Of Love

Suppose you are in love with some one. Now the natural thing to do is start doing things you never enjoyed doing before just to please your spouse. Now would you consider eating food you would normally abhor because the person you are dating eats it so lovingly? Give me your candid response. I am in such a fix.

men, can't go outta ma way to please anyone oh abeg. If i dey nko, he go find anotha person now. No Way!!

well i don't think u got t eat it cos she loves it or he loves it tho u might try it together somtimes but u ain't got to eat it if u don't like it

It's not advisable unles your hatred of the food in question isn't very strong.

Just let her know you don't like it.
i've got a friend that had to eat a particular kind of food coz of his girlfriend.
he went to see her and that was what she cooked at home, when she served him he couldn't eat. she was angry that he didnt want to eat her food, so he had to eat it to prove her wrong

i'm very picky about foods, i wouldn't eat something i'm not comfortable with for someone else's sake. if he loves/ likes me he should be able to accept me the way i am. relationships are about compromise not sacrifice

okwanuzo3:

i'm very picky about foods, i wouldn't eat something i'm not comfortable with for someone else's sake. if he loves/ likes me he should be able to accept me the way i am. relationships are about compromise not sacrifice

Same here!

@Chiori
If it doesnt appeal to you dont eat it.

Ingesting something u don't like?. . . . .

I don't call that love, . . . .I call it punishment. . . . . .

It's not a by force thing, and not eating it doesn't have anything to do with ur relatioship.

I am a 9ja woman and my hubby is white, i do cook 9ja meal for him he does eat some and others no, same to me, french people like eating stinky cheese.

The American ppl call them, ((((STINKY CHEESE))) hubby has tried to make me enjoy their stinky cheese ((cover nose)) but i couldn't just endure the smell.

We have no problem in respecting each other's test.

You do not have to pretend or die in silent because u want to please some1 u love.

Let ur partner understand ur test is not her test, at least not all food u do reject abi

Such a cute picture! your baby is so cute!!

I also put stinky cheese on the menu once. My husband said it reminds him of rat food!!

i only cook nigerian food now and one thing I just can't take is shaki and ponmo, i just put them to the side

[b]Probably [/b]unless I'm married to the person and I'm not allergic. . .

Chiori:

Eating Hated Food In The Name Of Love

Suppose you are in love with some one. Now the natural thing to do is start doing things you never enjoyed doing before just to please your spouse. Now would you consider eating food you would normally abhor because the person you are dating eats it so lovingly? Give me your candid response. I am in such a fix.

The natural thing is start doing things you never enjoy just to please your spouse?

Really?

Well color me surprised! I honestly thought the natural thing to do is be yourself, you know "This is me, take me as I am" kinda thing instead of the pretending and then changing after marriage thing. Aah, well you learn something new every day.

Well since it is the natural thing to do is pretend, may I suggest you grab a spoon and start digging into that love food. You dig into it like a man who hasn't eaten in days and you do it with a smile on your face!!

Let's know how it tasted. . . if you are still alive. . . I mean alove. . . in Love.

Chiori:

Eating Hated Food In The Name Of Love

Suppose you are in love with some one. Now the natural thing to do is start doing things you never enjoyed doing before just to please your spouse. Now would you consider eating food you would normally abhor because the person you are dating eats it so lovingly? Give me your candid response. I am in such a fix.

so if you are allergic to say nuts, the natural thing to do is start eating crunchy nuts for breakfast?

very soon the person you love will be eating your akara so lovingly 

There is unity in diversity, you do not have to eat what you don't particuarly like because of anybody, lover or not.

It is important to respectfully disagree though rather than put down what another may find palatable.

I am sure at some point we have all witnessed others eat what we may consider offensive, but diplomacy and respect is key.

My husband's love has not reached that level. Hmm. He is so anti new food. One day I ordered frog legs o common frog legs and he almost had a heart attack because I was eating frog legs. He will not even eat nigerian foods that he did not grow up with. The only time he will experiment is maybe at a chinese bistro otherwise it is always steak and a salad.

hell no, i'd probably do it is if it a life or death situation, other than that hell no

must people eat the same things?

@karma wetin dey? U just bone my side. I don mis U die. which tyme U change Ur pic. Sé na B dat? Omo U set no B small but if na Ur j. sista, I go lik no am.

well i wonder y we ask questions that we don't take cognizance of! u av seen a person u lyk, afta approaching, u do a lot of chatting asking questions like what to u like or dislike, what are u allergic to and some like that. if u try to please someone @ ur detriment my brothers and sister, then there is a problem,
what the point of saying u dnt like something and ur eating it to me it sounds dumb, this happens when u don't draw the linee, plz dont be infatuated, learn how to draw the lines, there should be no go areas. Peace be unto you!

Outstrip:

My husband's love has not reached that level. Hmm. He is so anti new food. One day I ordered frog legs o common frog legs and he almost had a heart attack because I was eating frog legs. He will not even eat nigerian foods that he did not grow up with. The only time he will experiment is maybe at a chinese bistro otherwise it is always steak and a salad.

Lol!! do you want to commit muderer?How would you proposing a jumping chickin legs to you hubbyy a Nigerian man?I tried this one time my mouth got swolling the next morning, lol.

I'll eat all food in the name of love, as long as my partner joins me.

It's called love guys, not lust or likeness, sorry, just my take.

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It's called love guys, not lust or likeness, sorry, just my take.
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alright love expert

@topic no, no way I wouldn't eat the food I hate all in the name of love.

i wont eat food i dont like for love,im not very picky on food so i eat most european foods but my hubby doesnt eat most of my nigerian foods,so cook alone and eat alone.

hahaha

Which love?

Such foolishness.

Its Called PRETENSE.

If your partner cannot understand that you dont like something

you better discard him/her!

@ Lailah: Such a cute picture! your baby is so cute!!

I also put stinky cheese on the menu once. My husband said it reminds him of rat food!!

i only cook nigerian food now and one thing I just can't take is shaki and ponmo, i just put them to the side

Thanks for the compliment, it's nice to hear that u can cook Nigeria meals, ur hubby will love u so much because Nigeria men no dey play with their meals ooo.

Shaki and kpomo is very good, miah miah,  if u find them easily in Dublin kindly post them to me '''joking"" because i can't find them in the city where i live.

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uhm?

Surely, eating certain kind of food in the name of love is an unnecessary practice,

no one does that, i'm quite sure , and i wont expect anyone to that 'cos they love me, that's sheer pretence!!!

I remember when i was dating one babe from Ondo state and we visited her aunt. meanwhile, i dont eat pepper or anything spicy, we got to the aunt's house, and i was kinda shy, so she cooked with Jamaican hot pepper, the food was served, and i tasted it, it was bitterly and suiciderly hot, but i was forming big boy, i ate some and i started sweating like a pig, the aunt asked, what happened, i said, i am kool, the my girls, said, damn,,,,,i remember you dont eat pepper.
I will never try that again in my life, cos i was so sick afterwards, wasnt funny at all.

KarmaMod:

must people eat the same things?

How else are we gonna measure love?

I once dated a babe who offered me a food of which the soup is prepared using MAGGOT. Thank God i asked her what those black things are inside the soup. I almost threw up when she said it's maggot. I couldnt even kiss her afterwards.

I think it changed the way a percieved her.