You can have attractive assets or you are among the ladies whose natural
endowment are on the average side and still beautiful. But if you don’t know
how to behave, your man will run, sooner or later.
Sometimes, after a few fantastic dates you had with a guy you really like, he
suddenly stops calling and then it goes on and on with others too. And you
soon start trying to use your body to keep them.If you check well, it could be
that your behaviour was really embarrassing for those guys and unless you take
time to realise what those behaviours are, good men will keep running away
from you.
Do you want to know the things that make men run and how to keep your
man?


Clinging To Him Like Static:

While it might seem like spending every waking
moment together is fun at first, it WILL get old. It’s more likely that he’ll feel
this before you do. All good relationships have a little space in them. Give him
time to miss you and occasionally wait for him to initiate contact. Keep your
friends, hobbies and interests alive.

Over-Communicating:

“Hihihihihi” , “What are you doing?”, “How about now?”,
“And now? I just thought I would share what I’m having for lunch.”, “I sneezed
and thought of you!”, Ugh … just no. Sometimes we blow past all reasonable
boundaries when we’re excited about a relationship. While it may initially seem
cute to him that you’re contacting him a lot, before too long he’ll start seeing
you as insecure and clingy. Remember, let him have some space so he’s not
chocked.
Nagging:

It’s pretty much never a good time to start chiding him about things
he’s “doing wrong”. You might change his behavior in the short term, but the
cost you’ll pay in his resentment is large.
Emotional Outbursts: I don’t know a person alive who hasn’t at some point
completely flipped their top. It happens to everyone. However, freaking out (and
acting it out) is never good for your relationship. If you’re prone to this, work on
displaying your feelings calmly. It never hurts.

Making Him Pay For Every Single Thing:

I’m definitely a fan of courtship, but
remember that it’s sure nice to treat him also. Expecting him to cover
everything all the time is more than a little one-sided and mean. It can also
make him feel like you’re just there for free dinner. There are other ways to
reciprocate his generosity if you can’t afford to pay the check. For example,
with a home-cooked meal, wash his clothes, a date that you arrange or little
thoughtful surprises for him. It should feel like you’re both giving to the
relationship, not like he’s paying for your company.

Being Rude To Others:

I realize that telling you NOT to act like a jerk if you’re
really a jerk isn’t going to create meaningful change in the world. But for those
of you who have an edge, know that it can kill your budding romance dead.

Making Him Accommodate Your High Maintenance Behavior:

High maintenance behavior has a lot of different manifestations. Maybe it’s not leaving the house
without looking like a fashionista or wanting that perfect, specific food item.
High maintenance is a lot of things. They’re not all bad, but you simply
shouldn’t require him to suffer as a result. For my sisters who look amazing all
the time, go on with your bad self. This is not about dulling your shine or
putting you down. It’s about… waiting time. No one wants to feel like they’re
with someone who disrespects their time or that you can’t go for a spontaneous
walk because you wore “This Ordinary Shoes”. So get the beauty routine figured
out before he shows up to pick you up for dates, and dress for what you expect
to do together…

Emasculating Him:

If you try to do this to a man, especially with spiritual
stuffs, you are finished if he by any means get to know about it. Love your man
with all your heart, you will enjoy him when he feels you are truly in love with
him and not after some material things from him.

Making Assumptions:

There are a ton of things to make assumptions about
when you meet someone new, and the vast majority are a bad idea. Assuming
that he’s on the same page as you, automatically thinking he’s “up to
something” or wondering if he’s already pulling away are all problematic. When
in doubt, have a chat with your man and make him feel your love even more.
Don’t compete with him.

Predicting That “It’s Over” And Then Making That A Self-Fulfilling
Prophecy:

Maybe he doesn’t call at the exact time or day he says he will.
Maybe things seem “off”. The problem is that filling these grey areas with doubt
and mistrust will create a problem where there wasn’t one before. Send him a
loving message and remind him that you are always ready to work with him to
achieve your desires and most importantly, tell him “I love you!” with a
reassuring smile.




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K

Mmm, very educating

issorite

daz d poster above me have a long nose? coz pinokio reminds me of...

Abeg teach em how to behave wen I'm around

Nothing makes a sincere man run than ' the choice of word a lady uses when she speaks'. Let manners, politeness, friendliness, warmth, joy and respect be heard in your voice when you speak. You may not look good but these will keep a man bound to you. Absence of these can bring an otherwise romantic moment or relationship to abrupt end and quarrel may arise.