Hello matured minds in the house, please I need a candid and sincere opinion about this issue that has been bothering me for a while now. I have this girl in my life that we've been dating since my 100level in school (presently a finalist though), I truly love her and I believe she loves me too but one thing that has really been bothering my mind is that she have so many guys around her and she doesn't sees it as a crime telling them to me. What really bothers me is that she'll even tell me the ones she 'like' and the ones she 'dislike' but she'll let me know that she can't date any of them. My fear is that is she playing on my emotions or she's acting that way so that I'll not suspect anything is going on between them? Now am considering telling her to stop talking about them to me because its kind of draining me up and to worsen the situation I don't have the gut to even tell her about any girl am 'chyking' not because am afraid of losing her (far from it) but I just don't want to hurt her. Experienced persons in the house should please tell me what to do as am really confused right now.

Dating an attractive girls comes with its high and lows. This is probably one of them. The fact she tells you about them means she values you above them.

Jealousy ... talk to her and make her understand

Since 100lv u started doing bad thing, go and ask God for forgiveness first before i say what i want to say

Jealousy Jealousy. Anyway, don't ask 'matured' mind, ask your 'girl.

Quite complicated but you have to take the bold step.


Call her attention to it. Let her know.
She might have a belief that she's doing the right thing and it's not hurting you.

You have to let her know and then watch things from then onwards.

bro, it happens like that. some ladies keep male friends than females due to reason best known to them.

since the Lady is proud to call you her bf in front of all the guys you are talking about, what else?

you are just thinking negatively cos of your own unfaithful act (but I am glad you let us know).

stop being jealous and focus on your babe instead of hanging around with another one. if you dont love the first one, let her go and focus on the second one

since u said u were "chyking" another girl, den kindly put up or shut up.
u want to form sharp guy and yet you're acting insecure.



#SayNoToDoubleStandards

She's trying to get u to love her jealously... and she's succeeding apparently... op she loves u but start ur own..give ur own dose...but she be girl na and boys must chase her

[b]
You think it’s bad when she’s being too emotional? It’s actually worse when she’s being emotionless. You think it’s annoying when she’s being clingy and is always trying to talk to you? It’ll be even more frustrating for you when she barely has anything to say to you or doesn’t even talk to you at all. You think it’s too much when she’s always trying to see what you’re doing and try hang out with you? It’ll be even more stressful for you when she’s too busy to see you or can’t make any time for you whatsoever. You think it’s crazy when she’s questioning you about other girls and has suspicions about your loyalty and trust? It’ll be even more insane to you when she acts like she no longer gives a Bleep about what you do or make you feel like she doesn’t care anymore. Stop complaining about your girl and realize that y’all got it good right now and that you should be careful what you ask for, because when you get it, you’re gonna realize you took her for granted and that you should have appreciated her for being the way she is now[/b]

#younhartz

op its not bad to have guys as a friend but let her understand you that it feels bad when talking about them in your presence; having said that, you seems jelous too and you suppose understand what your girl can do after dating for so long, if you trust her,you wont doubt her, make the guys your friends too or better still tell her politely to reduce the kind of friendship she has with them,if she really adores you as her boyfriend, she will understand your plight.

Chibuhealth:
Since 100lv u started doing bad thing, go and ask God for forgiveness first before i say what i want to say

are you a v??

Let her know you feel hurt as a result of so much male company she keeps and that you'll be hapi if she can reduce them.

don't make it an issue when telling her but rather use a soft tone

[quote author=naijaboiy post=35334135]All these childish relationships

Sometimes girls feel when they let you know about the guys hitting on them it means they are not hiding anything from you and it makes you feel they are honest and trust worthy.

On the other hand they do it to get you unnecessarily jealous. Mehn if you don't like it please tell her to stop telling you.

But you don't have to get really jealous though. She's a girl and so guys must hit on her. But I feel it's childish when she keeps telling you about every single guy that approaches her.

She should be able to handle some herself.

Just like the way you do yours.

This is simply to curb insecurity in the relationship.[/quote Nice talk...one bottle of chilled malt for you

I wish you could Man up ... Let Her taste the Poo she has been Offering you For Once ..*iwish *iwish

IamLEGEND1:
since u said u were "chyking" another girl, den kindly put up or shut up.

u want to form sharp guy and yet you're acting insecure.




#SayNoToDoubleStandards

Where's that "thumbs up" emoji...

Freemanan:

what's with the face man, you hungry?

naijaboiy:
All these childish relationships

Sometimes girls feel when they let you know about the guys hitting on them it means they are not hiding anything from you and it makes you feel they are honest and trust worthy.

On the other hand they do it to get you unnecessarily jealous. Mehn if you don't like it please tell her to stop telling you.

But you don't have to get really jealous though. She's a girl and so guys must hit on her. But I feel it's childish when she keeps telling you about every single guy that approaches her.

She should be able to handle some herself.

Just like the way you do yours.

This is simply to curb insecurity in the relationship

Talk of charcoal calling pot black...

Shezhawt:


Where's that "thumbs up" emoji...

Don't wori about it sister....
e dey disturbing how some "MATURED" guys dey fumble.

Chibuhealth:
Since 100lv u started doing bad thing, go and ask God for forgiveness first before i say what i want to say

So, dating someone now means they've been having sex? You better get your thinking straight and right, dear.

Jetjacky:
are you a v??

no. Am a gin..

Chibuhealth:
no. Am a gin..

which one is gin...?

the fact that a lady agrees to date you doesn't automatically mean she doesn't fancy other guys, doesn't mean she is not gonna have "toasters" anymore, or that she won't find other guys attractive.




Ur lucky she tells u all these, she knows u trust her.





I'm in a good mood today,else I would have said something like "arrrrggh,this is what you get when kids fall in love!"

Thanks for your comments, I so much appreciate... I'll definitely pick the good ones and ignore the misleading ones

Jetjacky:
what's with the face man, you hungry?

No Mate

Freemanan:
No Mate

lol. okay

caslord:
Hello matured minds in the house, please I need a candid and sincere opinion about this issue that has been bothering me for a while now. I have this girl in my life that we've been dating since my 100level in school (presently a finalist though), I truly love her and I believe she loves me too but one thing that has really been bothering my mind is that she have so many guys around her and she doesn't sees it as a crime telling them to me. What really bothers me is that she'll even tell me the ones she 'like' and the ones she 'dislike' but she'll let me know that she can't date any of them. My fear is that is she playing on my emotions or she's acting that way so that I'll not suspect anything is going on between them? Now am considering telling her to stop talking about them to me because its kind of draining me up and to worsen the situation I don't have the gut to even tell her about any girl am 'chyking' not because am afraid of losing her (far from it) but I just don't want to hurt her. Experienced persons in the house should please tell me what to do as am really confused right now.

I personally quoting you bro cus your ignorant..
Just one point for you



TRY NOT TO CARE...
DON'T DO.. AS IF YOU DON'T CARE
I said TRY NOT TO CARE


SEEMS SHE ALREADY KNOWS YOUR WEAK SPOT.. how wished you behaved like you Dont care.. Bro she be the one to be jealous..
Having suspicious about you...
Like you seeing another babe.. that's why you give no damn about what she does

Bro you suppose to know say this now minor things girls do on daily basis

MAKING YOU FEEL JEALOUS
WHY DON'T YOU TURN it AGAINST HER


IF YOU CONFRONT HER ABOUT IT THEN I SAY IT TO YOUR FACE

YOUR A FOOL

on your own




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