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Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by Nobody: 7:51am On Jul 02, 2015 |
Hi guys, there's this girl I met at spa in Port Harcourt, ver beautiful, intelligent and works as an OAP in one of P-town's biggest radio station. We exchanged contacts and started talking, went out on a couple of dates. We had chemistry, no doubts. Whenever we visit a restaurant together, she noticed that I don't order for food, I rather take snack, she asked me why and I told her that I don't eat out, that's how we were raised in my family, she then asked how I cope since I'm a bachelor living alone, I told her that I cook my food myself. She then volunteered to host me during the weekend, she wanted to cook for me. I went to her place on saturday, met her in apron and all she was cooking, for my mind I be like "omo today go bloody , after cooking she set the table and asked me to join her, she prepared Egusi soup with bitterleaf, those long ones, that's my favorite I told her, with fufu. As I tasted the soup, I almost choked, too much pepper and too much salt, I looked at her and noticed she was staring at my face looking for reactions, I quickly smiled and commended her effort and complimenting her "cooking skills". The soup was tasteless, the bitterleaf was extremely bitter to worsen the whole scenario, the meat was not properly cooked! After eating I thanked her for the effort she put into the cooking but didn't mention if I enjoyed the food or not. I really like this girl guys, but I don't play with my stomach, I can't stand a woman that can't cook ordinary egusi soup! Tell me guys, what's your take on this? Cc Lalasticlala. |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by naijaboiy: 7:53am On Jul 02, 2015 |
Failed mission. |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by piicity(m): 7:55am On Jul 02, 2015 |
Nibo,she wan make mrbiggs maggi and salt kill me |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by Nobody: 7:58am On Jul 02, 2015 |
naijaboiy:Paddy,how? |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by IamLEGEND1: 7:59am On Jul 02, 2015 |
i'm opinion-less |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by naijaboiy: 8:02am On Jul 02, 2015 |
gregzone:I mean the girl. But were you really thinking of marrying her? |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by Vyolet(f): 8:05am On Jul 02, 2015 |
You can tutor her if she's ready to learn. You like her,then mould her to your taste. |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by funlord(m): 8:07am On Jul 02, 2015 |
Its a sure sign of a "lack of proper home training"! And even the lord can cook, so sorry biatch find another sucker whose kids you plan on starving! |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by Nobody: 8:12am On Jul 02, 2015 |
Tell her she doesn't know how to cook in a polite manner,then teach her |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by Nobody: 8:15am On Jul 02, 2015 |
naijaboiy: Not at the moment, I just met her. But good cooking is very high on my checklist of a future wife. funlord: . Dude you are mean! Lol 1 Like |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by wordbank(m): 8:15am On Jul 02, 2015 |
Same issh with me o. I've met lotta girls who devour my meals yet I can't ask them to prepare indomie for the second time, indomie o lol. Well, dating them ain't no p, but marriage is lost battle. And na d same spar I met two of such poor cooking skilled lads |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by Nobody: 8:16am On Jul 02, 2015 |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by wordbank(m): 8:17am On Jul 02, 2015 |
funlord:Oboi u bloody 1 Like |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by Nobody: 8:28am On Jul 02, 2015 |
Marrying a lady that can't cook go be wahala when una marry oo ....abi na stone you and your pikin go dey chop?? Unless you'd take over the 'cooking' duties...but would you?? She could always learn tho.....even our mothers learnt |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by Nobody: 8:29am On Jul 02, 2015 |
gregzone:For example,when she asked about,you should have told her the problem with the food instead of lieing to her..she would have known she doesnt know how to cook,maybe she is expecting u to tell her..but it depends on the type of person u're dealing with.sum ppl hate correction |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by Adaeze003(f): 8:52am On Jul 02, 2015 |
We all know the answer... no! But I can bet those "SPA" chicks will still get married w/o "cooking skills"... it's all in the mind... If cooking is in your checklist then let her go, no need dating someone you won't get married to. 1 Like |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by Nobody: 8:57am On Jul 02, 2015 |
SarahBabyxx:I wouldn't dare, dear. That's an african woman's primary duty, though that doesn't mean I won't cook sometimes, but to take over on a permanent basis I wouldn't. I remember you, how you dey? |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by Nobody: 9:00am On Jul 02, 2015 |
gregzone: Yeah! From our 'akamu' discussion.....I'm very well thank you.... you?? |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by Nobody: 9:03am On Jul 02, 2015 |
Slimbeth:I really appreciated what she did for me that day, she cancelled several appointments which I'm aware of just to sit at home and cook for me that day. So my coming out straight to tell her that I didn't enjoy the food will definitely not go down well with her hence I lied. |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by Nobody: 9:12am On Jul 02, 2015 |
Adaeze003:True, some men don't mind if a woman can cook or not, different strokes for different folks but in my own case I do. You sabi Spa? Well,about not dating someone you won't get married to that's an argument for another day. The person you are dating now are you sure you will marry him? |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by Captainswag225(m): 9:14am On Jul 02, 2015 |
yeah why not? Its never too late to learn so if she is willing to learn then the wedding will be on. |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by Nobody: 9:16am On Jul 02, 2015 |
SarahBabyxx:Lol "Hot akamu" you mean I'm good, still on my mission tho |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by Nobody: 9:22am On Jul 02, 2015 |
gregzone:Lool Still haven't found one yet? |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by Adaeze003(f): 9:31am On Jul 02, 2015 |
gregzone: It's not certain, that's for sure. Like who knows tomorrow? But if I don't see the possibility of getting married to him, why on earth will I waste his time and even more importantly my time? So if cooking is a must for you, y waste her time and yours sef? What ll be the point? Don't tell me you still do things for "doing sake" |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by Dygeasy(m): 9:34am On Jul 02, 2015 |
If I can cook plus wonderfully well, she has no excuse. |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by Dygeasy(m): 9:36am On Jul 02, 2015 |
wordbank:Are there some girls marked for dating and some marked for marriage? |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by Lilyomi(f): 10:06am On Jul 02, 2015 |
It may av bn a mistake. Dnt knw but I cook better without pressure or when I won't pls anyone. Let her try anoda dish or two to b sure. To da question, if she is willn to learn, yes! It wl kip her shut sef. Afterall u trained her in cookin |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by Onemansquad(m): 10:24am On Jul 02, 2015 |
Lilyomi:she cant cook thats it dnt defend her 1 Like |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by wordbank(m): 11:31am On Jul 02, 2015 |
Dygeasy:Ur list is even truncated, some are marked for chop clean mouth, come n marry, wild n out, biatch please, runs, smallie, mommas, groupies, bendan select etc |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by kay29000(m): 11:33am On Jul 02, 2015 |
Hmm! I have a strong feeling you are a mummy's boy that have been raised to believe no woman's cooking can be as good as your mom's, so you have raised a very high standards. Abeg, give the girl credit, at least she tried. And I am sure the food wasn't even that bad sef. Chill out...You can teach her how to cook the way you like it. |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by Nobody: 12:20pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
Re: Guys Can You Date/marry A Girl That Can't Cook. by Nobody: 12:56pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
gregzone:Lol yeah! Sometimes |
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