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Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Nobody: 11:50am On Dec 10, 2016 |
Two things I don't like : An over dependent Lady and a Lady that doesn't know how to cook For a Lady not knowing how to cook, one or more factors must have come into play. It's either : - She has been cuddled and fed all through ..... Something which I personally dislike -She was never taught how to cook and therefore just figured that teaching Herself something so necessary and worthwhile was just not ... well ... worthwhile. -She was and is still too lazy to learn how to cook Just one question before I proceed : How can someone in this modern day and age navigate life without ever learning one of the most fundamental, useful, and creative skills known to man? Well, I won't mind if a Lady can't cook, but is willing to put in the required effort to learn. What I do mind is a Lady not knowing how to cook, but refuses to learning and suggests hiring a maid or living off take-out food Sure I can cook a bit, will learn new recipes and will cook when She's inconvenienced, but why turn it into a full-time job or hire a maid when I have a wife? If She doesn't cook for Me, what then does She have to offer? Think about this for a second. If you have reached the age of 25 and you don't know how to whip up a decent meal for yourself, what do you think that says about you as a person, much less a potential relationship partner? Does it indicate that you've just been so busy with your education and your worklife that you haven't had the time to learn to create a basic dish for yourself to eat? You might hate it. But if you do hate it, then it's my opinion that you lack a certain type of romance , plain and simple. Cooking requires heart. It demands that you give a damn about someone else, the person or person(s) you are cooking for You might as well say : " Well, I don't have much heart or interest in fundamental things that show people I care about them!" If you want a guy to bend over backwards for you, be willing to do the same for him. Learn how to cook for Him ] 46 Likes 9 Shares
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Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by herzern(m): 11:52am On Dec 10, 2016 |
Can't Cook?? That qot me thinkinq,do we still have ladies who can't cook? I thouqht the Society frowns at that. Buh I'm very sure all ladies at the aqe 25 should be able to prepare Rice and Stew. 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by winetapper: 11:54am On Dec 10, 2016 |
Just say you like Food . When you get engulfed with Love, you won't see her inability to cook as an excuse 18 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by dingbang(m): 11:54am On Dec 10, 2016 |
Same way she'll dump ur ass if u duno Hw to fvck!!! 67 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Frei(m): 11:57am On Dec 10, 2016 |
If you like marry a lady that can't boil egg' #priorities oh lawd 1 Like |
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by herzern(m): 11:57am On Dec 10, 2016 |
dingbang: Hector. Has anyone dump yhu because you dont know how to fuçk?? Honest answers. 15 Likes |
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by dingbang(m): 12:00pm On Dec 10, 2016 |
herzern:where are the nairaland females, please come and answer this question.. 5 Likes |
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Mutuwa(m): 12:03pm On Dec 10, 2016 |
KissChrix: This is why I rarely allow my wife travel. FOOD factor. Talk more of marry one that can't cook. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Nobody: 12:04pm On Dec 10, 2016 |
Okay. |
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Tallesty1(m): 12:24pm On Dec 10, 2016 |
A lady who doesn't know how to cook will have a hard time explaining what she spent her childhood days doing. She's either an over pampered spoilt baby elephant or a very disobedient lazy child. There are so many youtube videos out there for her to learn from. There's just no reason. 28 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Nobody: 12:26pm On Dec 10, 2016 |
front page lol ....oya like my post for no reason 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Nobody: 12:27pm On Dec 10, 2016 |
herzern: Na them plenty pass 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Nobody: 12:28pm On Dec 10, 2016 |
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by McBrooklyn(m): 12:30pm On Dec 10, 2016 |
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Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Nobody: 12:30pm On Dec 10, 2016 |
KissChrix:I can do more than that... |
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by DeLioncourt: 12:34pm On Dec 10, 2016 |
Goan learn how to cook na. Is it only women that will cook? So if they all decide to stop cooking, you'll die of hunger ba? 23 Likes |
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Nobody: 12:34pm On Dec 10, 2016 |
KissChrix: 7 Likes
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Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Nobody: 12:37pm On Dec 10, 2016 |
DeLioncourt: Did you read the post at all? 4 Likes |
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by makydebbie(f): 12:37pm On Dec 10, 2016 |
My excuse is even weird |
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Nobody: 12:39pm On Dec 10, 2016 |
makydebbie:So, you can't cook? Let's hear it 2 Likes |
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by DeLioncourt: 12:40pm On Dec 10, 2016 |
KissChrix: Nope. Too long. The title is sufficient for me to leave a comment. Edit the title if that wasn't the message you intended to pass across. 4 Likes |
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by naijaboiy: 12:41pm On Dec 10, 2016 |
Well everyone should be able to take care of themselves personally and that includes their feeding which leads to learning how to cook cos you can't keep going to an eatery every damn time. But as far as relationships and marriage is involved a woman should know how to cook. Yes! If you expect your man to be all romantic, doing all the things you want like buying you gifts, taking you out once in a while, fücking you nicely and becoming responsible, I see no reason why you should frown at the little thing he expects from you. Men are not complaining because they don't know how to cook but because it's one of the things they naturally expect a woman to know how to do, the same way women have their own expectations of men. I really don't understand why it has become a very big issue today. 36 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by makydebbie(f): 12:46pm On Dec 10, 2016 |
KissChrix:I can't cook most of my country's delicacies. I'm learning tho. But I cook Nigeria food 3 Likes |
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Nobody: 12:52pm On Dec 10, 2016 |
naijaboiy: You've said it all But, I'm not understanding that last statement Are you referring to Ladies not wanting to cook or Men complaining about ladies not being able to cook? 6 Likes |
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Nobody: 12:54pm On Dec 10, 2016 |
makydebbie: And you call that weird? It's actually understandable considering the fact that you spent more time in 9ja |
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by naijaboiy: 12:56pm On Dec 10, 2016 |
iChar:Ladies not wanting to cook and in turn making men complain about their inability to cook. |
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by makydebbie(f): 12:58pm On Dec 10, 2016 |
KissChrix:Thanks |
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Silentscreamer(f): 1:01pm On Dec 10, 2016 |
If she cant cook, u cook for her. Den teach her while at it. Its very romantic for guy to cook for his wife. 3 Likes |
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Nobody: 1:12pm On Dec 10, 2016 |
Mutuwa:Can't you cook for yourself for the time being till she's back?. 9 Likes |
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Nobody: 1:24pm On Dec 10, 2016 |
Benita27: Lol.... His is already getting to the extreme That's why I said I'll gladly cook when She's inconvenienced 2 Likes |
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Mutuwa(m): 1:29pm On Dec 10, 2016 |
Benita27: To be honest,I have tried learning how to cook for long.but rather I wasted food stuffs which someone somewhere was in dire need of.so I just quite. Back in school I had to hire a cook in my second year,before my friends who could cook moved in with me. It has never been easy with me and hunger. |
Re: Why I Won't Marry A Lady that Can't Cook by Nobody: 1:31pm On Dec 10, 2016 |
naijaboiy: Now I get you |
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