ghostofsparta:

I feel your pain bro, same here believe me. And please don't say "...girls" as if it's a worldwide thing, it's only exclusive to Nigeria and it's not a phenomenon it's a psychosocial issue. . . so let's say "Nigerian girls". I heard Ghana babes don't behave as such. BTW this thread ought to be on frontpage, don't you think ?

Richardonald:
Itz not easy to be a handsum guy..people wil jst hate u seeing u at first sight

tombravo:

Especially jealous guys. I Taya for them.
And when ladies decide to fight one him.... Na die. And they still won't date him in the end.
I dan sweat for two cousins hand.... ✋ pheew

Richardonald:
to be goodluking is a disadvantages

Richardonald:
to be goodluking is a disadvantages

Richardonald:
to be goodluking is a disadvantages

tombravo:

More or less.... And I no fit turn gay. Hate it.
Na to make serious money remain.
Maybe I go be Catholic fada last last

Richardonald:
they think u have been taking not knowimg that u single pass fowl

tombravo:

Single pass fowl. Even if you tell em you're single..... They will almost curse you "liar.... You think you can play me." I weep for the future of naija fine boys

tombravo:

It should jare. Ion just know why our ladies are like this.
Tanks to the fine boys of those times that played girls.... We are the ones reaping what they sowed

karkinase:
True to say d least.....them girls think u got load of girlfrnds when u an handsome dude even wen u got none. A girl once told me she had to stop seeing me becos she knows every girl likes me....so she wouldn't like to compete...I think its a subsconcious misnomer by naija girls to see all handsome dudes as players...Maybe dats the blessing for being good-looking sha...

ghostofsparta:
LOL!!! You're kidding right ?

You've been making sense until you said the bolded. How does the being good looking tantanmounts to being a player, not only that how also should it be regarded as a blessing ? It's false presumption and stereotypical. It's like saying every tall guys are into basketball.


I think instead of us musing about this, why don't we suggest a solution to this phenomenon here like 'Frozenovenreagan' suggested clubbing to which I think still won't cut it since that's only for if you looking for quick flings, I believe we are talking steady and stable relationship here with a babe oooo. I have some some not-too-perfect solution that's very unorthodox but I will like to share it if only this topic can be moved to front page as I would really like to here a multitude of opinions from other readers first, to see if they agree or not, or it's something else we're mistaken for this.

debonairprinx:
I can't agree with you less OP.....Same situation am in.....My high confidence level even puts me at a disadvantage. Its everywhere bro.

karkinase:
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Hmmm....I wuld luv to hear dis method of urs....

montezz:

abeg make i laf small before i comment....kikikikikikikikikii oluwa ogo o! lmao. hmmm back to d mata,first off,is dat u on ur dp? if yes,d post isn't for u! d op was referring to handsome dudes. you fine too o bt nt so fine. @op m guilty of dat maybe because most fine boys i know r chronic womanizers with girls flocking around dem like ants pouncing on sweets.

IamLEGEND1:
uuummhhhmm?