By Ayeotan Shola

Most men and women are still trying to crack what works and what doesn’t, for the opposite sex. Despite the grand assortment of tips and advice being offered by the Internet, magazines and best friends, we follow our hearts and make our own mistakes. Dating is not for the faint hearted, but when you find ‘the one’, it’s all well worth the madness.

In the meantime, it helps to know what the opposite sex is thinking…sitting across the table, on a date.

So here are the top 5 things that a lady wants in her date.

1. If you’re calling it a date, dress for it!

It’s the first opportunity to get to know each other and since both of you have been courageous enough to call it a date, it’s definitely a special occasion. A guy who knows what looks good on him and carries it off with modesty and charm, is a huge turn on for any girl.

What a man wears should enhance his personality, not distract from it. It’s great if you have biceps worth showing off, but a date is hardly the occasion to flaunt them from under a body hugging t-shirt.

Best to get some advice from a close friend on what to wear, just to be safe. If you don’t feel charming, you won’t be it!
Needless to say, body odor of the slightest kind is a total deal breaker.

2. Some chivalry would be nice

Getting her a drink, holding that door open and dropping her home, have absolutely nothing to do with a girl’s independence. Don’t let anyone tell you differently. Of course she can do all that herself! But the charm of being on a date, or even in a relationship for that matter, is to feel cared for. The expectation for chivalry is hard wired into every girl’s psyche and it’s a great turn on if done moderately and effortlessly. Every door doesn’t need to be held open and every chair doesn’t need to be pulled out for her. But on a date…absolutely!

3. Say what you mean and mean what you say

A guy with an intellect and humility is a sure shot, guaranteed turn on for any girl. And usually, it takes a girl less than 10 minutes to figure out if the guy across the table has these qualities working in his favour or otherwise. Men who brag........

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