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Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by Slimzjoe(m): 2:32pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
RapLawd: If na me Ma babe do that thing, I'll Just Lock the Door, Write out the List of things that was used in Preparing that soup and She must Provide it! |
Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by RapLawd(m): 2:34pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
TheSonOfMark: Emotional blackmail? |
Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by RapLawd(m): 2:36pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Slimzjoe: Ladies @times are so annoying Honestly! Pour water into soup prepared by someone else with your book's cash, pathetic! |
Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by Nobody: 2:38pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
TheSonOfMark: Lol. Oh if a man's fragile little ego can't stand the idea of another taking me out to dinner. Then he shouldn't do the same. It's only fair. There's no emotional blackmail. |
Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by TheSonOfMark(m): 2:40pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
RapLawd:Yes. She consciously tries to make you rescind your decision by exploiting your affection for her, twisting the situation, playing the victim and making you take the blame. Sisters, daughters, girlfriends, wives, casual friends, colleagues, cousins...they operate the same way. |
Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by RapLawd(m): 2:43pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
TheSonOfMark: The female folks are kinda confusing sometimes... |
Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by TheSonOfMark(m): 2:45pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
YourMain:That's the point, isn't it? You raised the point as a subtle threat, a preconceived plan to get back at him to score a point. Even though he's apologized you still won't let go. You've subtly set the rules to keep him under your leash. Whatelse qualifies as emotional blackmail if not that? |
Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by RapLawd(m): 2:46pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
YourMain: You, it's like your man seeing a guy fetching water or helping you do some other domestic works of such, will ya take it when he starts having dinners with girls just cus of that? Without even questioning you about the dude... |
Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by TheSonOfMark(m): 2:48pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
RapLawd:Even to themselves. I pity guys who keep multiple girlfriends- one is enough drama. |
Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by Nobody: 2:50pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
RapLawd: I mentioned dinner cause I can't see a guy bringing food to me lol. But if I went to dinner with a guy I expect my boyfriend to be completely okay with it. He should trust me enough to know it's just dinner and if a girl brings him food I trust him enough to know it's just food. And it's not going to be a situation where he can get food off other girls but when I do the same it's going to turn to a huge deal. |
Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by Nobody: 2:52pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
TheSonOfMark: I didn't raise the point as a threat. Or any kind of score raising rubbish. Lol there no need for him to apologize jeez it's just food. I really don't mind at all. Because I know it's just food. I don't think that's emotional blackmail. At all. |
Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by Slimzjoe(m): 3:28pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
RapLawd: Calm Down G She was only joking |
Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by sinaj(f): 4:56pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
TheSonOfMark: lol at shooting you, I wil rather shoot d gurl |
Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by RapLawd(m): 4:59pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by TheSonOfMark(m): 6:32pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
sinaj:Oh really? So all the drama about ruining the soup was because you felt our relationship was threatened by her? How about you believe I value what we share enough not to ruin it? How about you believe every time I kiss you it's a reassurance of what you mean to me? |
Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by sinaj(f): 9:22pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
TheSonOfMark: How about u knowing dat each time you kiss me, I imagine you doing xme to some other girl. nd seeing d food prepared by anoda girl is enof to clarify my doubt |
Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by TheSonOfMark(m): 9:32pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
sinaj: How about the fact that when I see holding hands in pictures or hugging your male coursemates I am not agitated because I know I am the one who's caught your heart? How about the fact that every time you stir into my eyes while we kiss I reassure you of the fact that I am sticking with you even though you are stubborn and sometimes get on my nerves? How about that? |
Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by sinaj(f): 6:55am On Jul 07, 2015 |
TheSonOfMark: lol gud morning nwa Mark |
Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by TheSonOfMark(m): 7:05am On Jul 07, 2015 |
sinaj:Top of the morning to you. It's Kingsley actually and yours is...? |
Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by sinaj(f): 7:14am On Jul 07, 2015 |
TheSonOfMark:Sarah |
Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by Nobody: 7:38am On Jul 07, 2015 |
TheSonOfMark:hmmm |
Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by TheSonOfMark(m): 7:39am On Jul 07, 2015 |
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Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by Alezy(m): 7:39am On Jul 07, 2015 |
YourMain:just wat I tot |
Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by Nobody: 12:50pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
Alezy: Mhm what did you think ? |
Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by Alezy(m): 1:51pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
YourMain:I mean after ur first comment abt now been bothered, tot to my self den she must be up to something like a pay back or nasty stuff and den ur second comment proved me ryt when u said as long as he zz comfortable with u hanging out with fellas....really darling, is dat a relationship? ? |
Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by Nobody: 1:59pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
Alezy: Lol I'm genuinely not interested in pay back. I just want equality in a relationship. I really am okay with it. But he should be too. It's only fair. |
Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by Alezy(m): 2:09pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
YourMain:well u really don't sound ok, ur only saying ur ok with it now because u kw he won't be comfortable with ur outings. I grab, equality in relationships is the best. |
Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by Nobody: 2:10pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
Alezy: Hmm. I think he'd be okay with it. He should be okay with it theoretically. |
Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by Alezy(m): 2:15pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
YourMain:but really will u be very ok with it from ur hrt? ?? that he zz playing around to ur knowledge and ur doing same to his knowledge? ?? A sincere answer pls. |
Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by Nobody: 2:20pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
Alezy: To be honest I don't consider it playing around. I personally can't be in a relationship with someone I don't trust. If he says it's just food. Then it's just food. And I might get jealous but I know it's just petty and I'm not going to let it some thing that means a lot more than food to me. |
Re: Ladies How Many Of You Can Do This? by Alezy(m): 2:26pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
YourMain:thumbs up. that's so cool to hear, understanding really matters alot wen it comes to relationship matters. I really Dnt kw how to cook and I can ask anybody depends on how close to cook for me. Now if am in a relationship, ofcos she will be the one to do the cooking but what if she zz unavailable at that moment?? That's where the trust comes in. |
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