I fell in love with a in lagos and i was serious about the relationship thinking somtin gud wil come out of it. I usually see a guy wit her whom she claim was her cousin but within a short while she bcame pregnant 4dis same guy. Afta a few month she gave birth of which she lost d baby & now she bak begging. I really luv ha dat i didnt have any1 afta & i cudnt tek her of my mind & i dont 1nt 2 accept her bak because she 2me afta laying my full confident & trust on her. Pls wat do i do? Thanks. 4rm Ameh Sunday

I dont give 2nd chances, i dont expect a 2nd chance either. . . Sorry.

Man, forget about her cos she is not worth the stress and better look for another girl that will be of good conduct to you. Never go back to your vomit as the dog does, thats the first lesson in relationship.

Sunday, I know how you feel, but you have to let go. A girl that cheats and lies isn't qualified to be tagged wife material. So move on with your life because that's exactly what I would do if I were in your shoes.

crazykid:

Sunday, I know how you feel, but you have to let go. A girl that cheats and lies isn't qualified to be tagged wife material. So move on with your life because that's exactly what I would do if I were in your shoes.

crazykid get sense person wey dem born for sunday dey do go slow.

The probability of her breaking ur heart again is very high.do u think if the baby had survived she will be running back to you.I doubt it.a word is enough for the wise.All the best.

There are millions of ladies out there, why kill urself over sum1 who is'nt worth it. Na only God fit 4giv dis kind one o.

let her go.

Sunday ameh - u be PH guy abi? just three questions

1) na yoruba girl?
2) na unilag girl?
3) where u meet am?

@ op

Giv her a 3rd chance. . .

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whitelexi:

I dont give 2nd chances, i dont expect a 2nd chance either. . .  Sorry.

Really?

Guy, i wish i culd give u somtin you want to hear,but personally,i don't believe in 2nd chances, i don't give and i don't expect 2nd chances so,in my candid opinion, move on with your life already!!

Is There A Second Chance 4som1 Who Had Done A Great Damage 2u (emotionally)

Yes there is   . . . . .  third and a fourth and Fifth

Who gives them?

Capital M U M U's

@Sunday

Are you an M U M U?

From what it seems  . . . . the emotional damage was not GREAT enough. Unless you're a masochist you won't be taking her back. 

You are not a substitute sperm bank!!!! Tell her that!!!

No.

As for me,i wont go back to a girl i dated n she cheated on me to the extent of gettin pregnant for the guy.She carried the baby for nine months because she wanted to be the mother of the guys children.But it was so unfortunate she lost the baby,n now she's beggin.What if she had delivered successfully,she would have abandoned u.Guy,let her go,cos na kill she go kill u d second time.Start a new relationship again,n i believe u can make it.A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.Peace Y'All

@poster,
no give am even 1 and half chance,when she jilted you,did she consider your emotions,capital NO.
YOU DON EAT UR CAKE BF AND YOU GET AM BACK?she can't eat her cake and have it,let her live with her shits.

ThoniaSlim:

Really?

yes

Bleep-You:

Why should you feel bad that you have emotionally damaged a woman?

Pssf! abi you should be nominated for a senatorial seat for doing what is just, upright and righteous.

Women need to be destabilized emotional with everything a man can offer. Seeing them in pain and distress is the highlight of every relationship. Kudos to you man. Forget that bastard and look for another person to ruin her life. No need to cry over spilt milk. LET HER JUMP INTO THE LAGOON FOR ALL YOU CARE BECAUSE SHE WAS DAMAGED. she is lucky you didnt even do anything that would make her sucidal. If it was me, she would have commited suicide tay tay!

He is the one who was emotionally damaged gay. Thought I told you to stop thinking with your penis.

Dude, think about what would have happened if the other dude was Dangotes son and the baby had survived, What would have been your fate THE CHICK WOULDDA NEVER THOUGHT OF BEGGING YOU THAT SHE WANNA COME BACK!!

THINK BOY!!! THINK!!!!!!!!!!!

@Poster Na only MUMU go allow fire dey burn am and he no go run commot . A word dey enough 4 d wise think with ur head 4get dat tin under ur boxer , .

Women and Emotions sha! We leave everything in jesus hands

@ poster i no fit laff dis 1,but com o 4 u 2 dey even tink 2 giv am 2nd chance u sure say u no drink fake drugs,

wow,
errone has said it tho
if the kid survived what r the odds she'lld have come back begging?
pls move on

13) u've all spoken well & wat i did was as follow. Wen she came alredi i in4md dem @home not 2 allow ha crox d  gate& wen we met outside dgate, she came runnin afta me tryin 2 xprex ha regret den b4 she cud open ha mout i shund ha & warnd ha neva 2 crox my way. But com o seh una tink say i go fit trust any lady lik dat again? Now ladies blif dat guys ar playas & a dciva but dey fail 2 luk at tins 4rm dere angu & dis will lid me askin dis questn. Lets assum i haf goten anoda lady(doh i'm stil searchin), how do i prevent dis kind of tin 4rm hapunin? I wud haf luv 2play along but on d oda hand wat will it profit me?

U are still searching huh?

let em keep serching

If you feel she deserves a second chance give it to her.