iamadiva:
I was a guest reader on nairaland, but decided to join today cus of this my situation. I know there will be people here to help me justify my actions.
We are actually flatmates, and very good friends until recently.
I met this guy thru her, the guy actually wanted to go out with her, but she didn't give him a chance cus he was jobless. The guy and I got close cus the weekends she would ask him to come to our house, she would also invite this her woman-beater boyfriend and they would be making fun of the guy. This happened on 3 occasions. The 3rd time, the guy and I sat in the sitting room and had the ice-cream and other things he bought for her. He told me how he liked my friend, I told him it was obvious my friend didn't like him.
He went on to tell me he had a test in PH, but he couldn't go cus of money issues. I offered to help him, I lent him 10k, which he promised to pay back. I told my friend about it, and she told me I was foolish, and that I just gave my money to one of the most useless men in the world. I only laughed and left her room.
Two days later, the guy came back and came to see me this time around. When I asked how the test went, he said it went well. He asked me to go and have a drink with him, but I refused not knowing how my friend would feel. I letter told her that d guy asked me out, she said that was my business, that she never had any business with the broke guy.
To cut the long story short, the guy was invited for the oral interview a week after the test, just like the first time, he didn't have money. I lent him another 10k. About three months after the interview, he never got back to me, I tried calling, but his phone was switched off. There was nothing my friend never told me, she called me all sorts of name for giving the guy my 20k. I felt it was too bad of him to have stopped calling and changed his no cus of 20k.
After 3months he called me, I was angry, but I controlled myself. He told me how he had to go thru series of interviews and finally training, and how he lost his phone and couldn't buy another one cus he had no money. He told me he got the job,and it's with an oil firm called slumberger, I hope that's the spelling(na only shell and nnpc me know wella). Anyways, he came to our house in a very beautiful toyota suv, I was surprised and amazed at same time. Now he has officially asked me to be his wife, and my friend is crying a river telling all her friends who do not even know the story that I seduced her boy friend. She is making that flat a leaving hell for me. I don't really understand her anger, she told me she didn't like the guy. I have told the guy and all he did was laugh and roll on the floor. That's really not funny to me.
Please, judge this case, was the guy ever her boy friend?

IamLEGEND1:
Anytime she brings up another quarrel related to the said boyfriend

Just give the bıtch the side-eye and hiss ur way out of the room.

Her gullibility and gold-digging capabilties are off the charts and are not deserving of your time.

#FireOnSista

IamLEGEND1:
Anytime she brings up another quarrel related to the said boyfriend

Just give the bıtch the side-eye and hiss ur way out of the room.

Her gullibility and gold-digging capabilties are off the charts and are not deserving of your time.

#FireOnSista

Kenndall:
Your friend's attitude is utterly wrong and uncalled for. She has no right to act the way she is doing.
She was never his boyfriend because she always blatantly rejected his offer and even insulted him in the process.

I will advice you leave the flat for her, since she is hell bent on making your stay together a bad one.

UdohOby:
Ladyd is this really u? I told you not to worry yourself over this girls matter. God don butter your bread, enjoy the show.

This is not a movie o, I know the op. I do stay with them whenever I travel to abj. And I know the guy I question, have met him at their place, and couldn't believe what her so called flat mate did to the young man. I told her the guy was a good guy.

Please remember my aso-ebi and my children's own o. No mind the winchi winchi girl jare. So happy for you ore' mi. God bless your union in advance. But please try and move from that place abeg, but God pass her sha

oseod:
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Op slap that your friend for me, a very hot one
When she asks "you slapped me?" Give her another two, one for the right cheek and another for the left..
Tell her its oseod, one guy from nairaland that said you should do it...
She'll understand

If not that the guy had proposed to you, I would have proposed to you first..
You are a virtuous woman, the one the bible told us about..

You lent a jobless guys 10k.....he didn't pay back
He solicited for help again ...you lent him again..he didn't pay back for 3months (you demonstrated patience and trust)

You friend would make jest of him in your presence, while most girls would gossip about him and destroy his image...a jobless guy..you would still go behind and talk with him (you demonstared maturity)

But wait what did you see in this guy sef, that everyone was casting aside, was it that he was very handsome, or you're just very good in predicting a mans future................just curious

You are just too wonderful you're almost not real op...even nollywood can't potray you...

.....the only part I dislike about your story is the oil part..
You have once again glorified the oil company...and comtributed to its hype
Let oil finish in nigeria sef and alternative energy be the story of the day..then we can rest

UdohOby:
Ladyd is this really u? I told you not to worry yourself over this girls matter. God don butter your bread, enjoy the show.

This is not a movie o, I know the op. I do stay with them whenever I travel to abj. And I know the guy I question, have met him at their place, and couldn't believe what her so called flat mate did to the young man. I told her the guy was a good guy.

Please remember my aso-ebi and my children's own o. No mind the winchi winchi girl jare. So happy for you ore' mi. God bless your union in advance. But please try and move from that place abeg, but God pass her sha

oseod:


Ah!!!! So you know them abi....
Oya gimme the full gist before my popcorn grows cold

I want to know every thing from the op friends primary school, the university ops husband attended..the exact model of toyota suv ops husband is driving,....every single detail

petkoffDrake:
I think av seen something like this in a movie b4. pls remind me d name of d movie again op.

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hope this made FP. cos I wanna dedicate it to my crush in NL

iamadiva:


You got me laughing real hard. Thanks though. He is a very handsome guy, respectful, and homely. I just liked being his friend then.

For the oil company thing, he studied petrochemical eng. He never even told me the name of the company until he got the job.

iamadiva:


Seriously, the whole thing sure looks like a movie to me too. But it's not. But I thank God for everything