First and foremost, this might not be the right thread for this so am sorry about that.
well, its about a friend who is a girl.(am a guy). she was a new employee at my place of work and before long we became friends.@ first i had the intent not to hav a galfriend. but along the line she began to call me those lov names( darleen, sweethart... wateva jare.) and i kept taking it that way.i didnt knw it wuld lead to onething - insult. She used to add mr to my name bt now she just calls my name straight(now i dnt care she calling my name straight but the problem is dt she is doin it deliberately to show disrespect. Its visible in her tone).Sum times i feel like hiting her and then i think again, i have got sisters. I have told her about it (and it makes me feel i messed up for it was lik i was begging to be respectd).She tries to jonse me wen i say wassup to her.She tries nt to greet me again.Infact how do i gain dt respect bt nt make it luk lik am keepin malice or something in mind. I see her as a child.

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