Rape is forcing someone to have sex against their will.

..Now this is the gist.


She is 24 years old,she claims she as never had any sexual intercouse
with any one,according to her she is into a serious relationship with a
guy and she has told him,no sex before marriage.



Recently she was fingered by him,and in the process her cherry pop.
the both did everything together ,apart from him using his joystick.
Right now she is angry and confused, I ask why she said because her
hymen is broken.she is no longer in interested in the relationship etc.
she is threatening the young man,and insisting on pressing charges against him.

now my question goes thus:

•Is this young lady still a virgin?

•was she really rape?

•what will be your honest advice if she was a sister/friend to you?




N.B. I gave her my thought on this,
but I guess she is not satisfied.

Op,if you don't mind my correcting you,it should be your topic should be titled "Was she really raped?"

which kind mentality she get...DAT no be r*pe at all...but wetin una really do that pop d tin?

Precious91:
Op,if you don't mind my correcting you,it should be your topic should be titled ""

oyea thanks
was that all u came to say?

Yea.......


She raped the guy

Tallesty1:
Yea.......

She raped the guy

How? I don't geh

peeparty:

oyea thanks was that all u came to say?

that was the first thing I noticed.Not picking your mistake though

Tallesty1:
Yea.......

She raped the guy

How? I don't geh

Precious91:

that was the first thing I noticed.Not picking your mistake though

ya I get.
now read slowly and see if der is a word.

Manipulated?That's somehow.She is also dating him which is so obvious,so pressing charges is out of it.I also want to believe since there was no penetration,she is still a virgin.

Precious91:
Manipulated?That's somehow.She is also dating him which is so obvious,so pressing charges is out of it.I also want to believe since there was no penetration,she is still a virgin.

yea that was my first tot.... I was like shebi u say ur dating him?
and am like wat is she really thinking sef

peeparty:
she said because her
hymen is broken.

now my question goes thus:
•Is this young lady still a virgin?
•was she really rape?
•what will be your honest advice if she was a sister/friend to you?
N.B. I gave her my thought on this,
but I guess she is not satisfied.

The first question shouldn't even be asked
As for the second.., No she wasn't raped. It was an unconscious (on her part) mutual act
Thirdly, my advice for her; she should just move on with her life.. Pressing charges won't change what has happened.. She should just deal with it and free the guy of any accusation jare

What do you mean "she was manipulated by him"? manipulated how?

no shes not a virgin

she my have been raped. if she said "no" at any time during the encounter and he ignored her, than its rape

I would advise her to take some time out to calm down

then talk to the guy about what happened, maybe they will be able to work it out

Gurgle:
What do you mean "she was manipulated by him"? manipulated how?

no shes not a virgin

she my have been raped. if she said "no" at any time during the encounter and he ignored her, than its rape

I would advise her to take some time out to calm down

then talk to the guy about what happened, maybe they will be able to work it out

She dosnt want. this dude again.

peeparty:



She dosnt want. this dude again.

Ok so what does she want? what advice does she want

[quote author=Gurgle post=35684076]
Ok so what does she want? what advice does she want[/quote

I did my best but you Knw some of ur kind na.

peeparty:

I didn't understand you

she shouldnt report the guy, she should just leave him and move on with her life

Gurgle:


I didn't understand you

she shouldnt report the guy, she should just leave him and move on with her life

right now she doesn't want to listen to that, her mind is made up on
revenge..

I told her no one will listen to her sef.
meanwhile she was enjoying It oo lol


nobi like say I dey laff am oo

peeparty:


right now she doesn't want to listen to that, her mind is made up on
revenge..

I told her no one will listen to her sef.
meanwhile she was enjoying It oo lol


nobi like say I dey laff am oo

yeah that's it- who is going to take it seriously when she willingly entered bedroom with the fellow

the best revenge would be to quietly move on and find somebody who will respect her more. then he will realize what he has lost

because if she does this she will only embarrass herself

if its like that please encourage her to seek counselling

but what do you mean he "manipulated" her?

you mean he sweet-talked her?

Gurgle:


yeah that's it- who is going to take it seriously when she willingly entered bedroom with the fellow

the best revenge would be to quietly move on and find somebody who will respect her more. then he will realize what he has lost

because if she does this she will only embarrass herself

if its like that please encourage her to seek counselling

but what do you mean he "manipulated" her?

you mean he sweet-talked her?

I believe her healing will be a gradual thing .

on the bolded yea.

wait oo who should really be blame on this?

peeparty:


I believe her healing will be a gradual thing .

on the bolded yea.

wait oo who should really be blame on this?

"bros" you no dey bold anytin

its complicated sha

he is ultimately to blame because he took advantage of her, they had already discussed it beforehand so he cant say he didn't know what she wanted, even though he made her forget it for a minute he should have controlled himself.

she shouldn't have put herself in such a position because she knew he wanted to do it.

both of them didn't really respect themselves or each other, which is what led to this

she was teasing him and he didn't honour her wish

to be honest if this happened to me I would be angry but I would eventually forgive the guy if all other things were in place since its partly my fault and I do like him. and she did enjoy it. im sure things like this have happened to a lot of girls but they just leave it and act smarter next time. they don't just throw away the whole relationship

on the other hand something mildly similar has happened to me before but not on this scale and I still hate the guy although it was partly my fault soooo yeah as I said its complicated

what do you think, as a guy?

What rubbish

Manipulated? Raped?......this is funny and annoying at d same time

She wasn't manipulated or raped.....Come on.....she's not a baby....24yrs old

Why would she press a charge cos of that?.....even if it's not her boyfriend....she went to the guy's room willingly.... they kissed, romanced and she was enjoying it.....then something led to d other and she wanna press charges.......it didn't even result into sex....and she called it rape

First of all.....she's still a virgin, except if the guy's fingers are as big as cucumber......

Secondly.....it will be very annoying if she breaks up with the guy....because shits like that happens sometimes, or is that the first time she would go to the guy's house? Yeah....she's a virgin....blah blah....why did she indulge in the kissing and romancing in the first place?....she should have just abstain from it.....the guy won't lose anything.... being a virgin doesn't mean that she's the most precious lady in the world.....so I believe very well that the guy will definitely get a better lady. Let her move on and see how easy it is to find a guy that would be ready to wait till their wedding night

Lastly.....Pressing charges on the guy shows how wicked and heartless the lady is......because it's her word against his own.....she might just lie that the guy raped her and that's all, the guy can only escape if he has a good lawyer.


Oooops......Did I just type all this....

Peeparty i hope she gets to read this post

Funny. After she led him on. Allowed his john Thomas to rise finish, she's now asking silly questions.

Lol raped ko rapped ni. Nobi she carry her own leg wakabele go ein room ? and they were touching and kissing expecting nothing to happen ?

I laugh in Greek

Tallesty1:
Yea.......


She raped the guy

I agree.

peeparty:
Rape is forcing someone to have sex against their will.

..Now this is the gist.


She is 24 years old,she claims she as never had any sexual intercouse
with any one,according to her she is into a serious relationship with a
guy and she has told him,no sex before marriage.



Recently she was fingered by him,and in the process her cherry pop.
the both did everything together ,apart from him using his joystick.
Right now she is angry and confused, I ask why she said because her
hymen is broken.she is no longer in interested in the relationship etc.
she is threatening the young man,and insisting on pressing charges against him.

now my question goes thus:

•Is this young lady still a virgin?

•was she really rape?

•what will be your honest advice if she was a sister/friend to you?




N.B. I gave her my thought on this,
but I guess she is not satisfied.

Bro or sis, is your anger because of the broken hymen or the sex act you forced on him?

If the alledged hymen had remained "intact" somewhat ( maybe more stretchy), would you have been ok with that?


Lord have mercy.

Gurgle:


"bros" you no dey bold anytin

its complicated sha

he is ultimately to blame because he took advantage of her, they had already discussed it beforehand so he cant say he didn't know what she wanted, even though he made her forget it for a minute he should have controlled himself.

she shouldn't have put herself in such a position because she knew he wanted to do it.

both of them didn't really respect themselves or each other, which is what led to this

she was teasing him and he didn't honour her wish

to be honest if this happened to me I would be angry but I would eventually forgive the guy if all other things were in place since its partly my fault and I do like him. and she did enjoy it. im sure things like this have happened to a lot of girls but they just leave it and act smarter next time. they don't just throw away the whole relationship

on the other hand something mildly similar has happened to me before but not on this scale and I still hate the guy although it was partly my fault soooo yeah as I said its complicated

what do you think, as a guy?

Goodnornning sorry I slept off.

well me I will blame the both of them,
yes they did not honour the gentle man agreement.

but the girl has more to blame on this issue, she's got ample time to reject and not succumbed to his advances.
or even be with the guy all alone.
No matter how much trust and love she as for the guy.
joystick doesn't understand english ni oo.


cases like this do not even hold weight sef.

adeh39:
What rubbish

Manipulated? Raped?......this is funny and annoying at d same time

She wasn't manipulated or raped.....Come on.....she's not a baby....24yrs old

Why would she press a charge cos of that?.....even if it's not her boyfriend....she went to the guy's room willingly.... they kissed, romanced and she was enjoying it.....then something led to d other and she wanna press charges.......it didn't even result into sex....and she called it rape

First of all.....she's still a virgin, except if the guy's fingers are as big as cucumber......

Secondly.....it will be very annoying if she breaks up with the guy....because shits like that happens sometimes, or is that the first time she would go to the guy's house? Yeah....she's a virgin....blah blah....why did she indulge in the kissing and romancing in the first place?....she should have just abstain from it.....the guy won't lose anything.... being a virgin doesn't mean that she's the most precious lady in the world.....so I believe very well that the guy will definitely get a better lady. Let her move on and see how easy it is to find a guy that would be ready to wait till their wedding night

Lastly.....Pressing charges on the guy shows how wicked and heartless the lady is......because it's her word against his own.....she might just lie that the guy raped her and that's all, the guy can only escape if he has a good lawyer.


Oooops......Did I just type all this....

Peeparty i hope she gets to read this post

ya she will.
if it was you,
and he got your precious cherry pop
with his fin..gers,guess you won't be pained?

tpiander:



Bro or sis, is your anger because of the broken hymen or the sex act you forced on him?

If the alledged hymen had remained "intact" somewhat ( maybe more stretchy), would you have been ok with that?


Lord have mercy.

her anger is on her broken hymen.sir

MsBliss:
Lol raped ko rapped ni. Nobi she carry her own leg wakabele go ein room ? and they were touching and kissing expecting nothing to happen ?

I laugh in Greek

lol I couldn't laff at her like you just did.

if it happen to you ,and he was your first boyfriend.
what will you do.

peeparty:



Goodnornning sorry I slept off.

well me I will blame the both of them,
yes they did not honour the gentle man agreement.

but the girl has more to blame on this issue, she's got ample time to reject and not succumbed to his advances.
or even be with the guy all alone.
No matter how much trust and love she as for the guy.
joystick doesn't understand english ni oo.


cases like this do not even hold weight sef.

Good morning

Yes please advise her well because her cases is going to collapse, good luck

Gurgle:

Good morning
Yes please advise her well because her cases is going to collapse, good luck

wadup gurg