HizMissy:


Excuse me bros, please which generation should he now choose from?

Babe I don't understand "Clause" if u wanna talk to me please do so in "Phrase", wetin choose got to do with wetin I write I no understand you I swear

Cutehector:
Just gv her d fone and dnt call her anymore...

here:
Permit me sound this way.
I am offended by you taking a decision based on what some faceless persons gave you and just because more of yhem seem to agree. What happened tot he saying that no real man tells his fellow to send away his woman,it tells you the age or mindset of the persons here and considering most people have an history like you who posted you are fond of doing with easy women and eanted real relationship,she atleast deserve to hear you tell her what you saw though was wrong to invade her privacy.
I think you need to sit her down and show her what you saw and let her explain atleast if you still dont feel ok you politely do as you wish.It shoes you have maturity even on the face of betrayal.

Cutehector:
Just gv her d fone and dnt call her anymore...

Uniquekriss:
U were not supposed 2go tru her messenger 4any rzn without her permit, if u ask me, I'd say that wat u saw in her phone should b considered as her past life prior to ur affair. If actually u av feelings 4her, n decided 2go ahead with d relationship by introducing her 2ur brother n she is playing along, plz give it time cos av seen cases where girls have a number of suitors n acquaintances Buh dey still hold u dear 2dia hearts dats y she hides wateva she does maybe 2protect d affair.

bettercreature:
Its not about jazz my life is live and let's live

bettercreature:
Give her the phone then forget about her,tell her everything you saw on her phone,i left my girl friend as well and still paying her hostel rent even though she has another man

Otunba6:


To cancel an appointment with someone i dont want to see is not a problem. I will just give her a simple excuse very early tomorrow.

Otunba6:
We met few months ago, initially i did not want to date her because she's too flashy/fake for my liking. Gradually, she started proving me wrong by being a good and serious one. infact she stopped some of her fake attitude when i started complaining about it. To be sincere i really love her to the extent that i introduced her to my brother(something i dont normally do if i wanna do chop and clean mouth). Just few days ago she lost her phone and wanted me to help her buy a new one.

I bought the one she wants and gave it to her. she called me later in the evening that the one i bought comes with 16g and not 32gig as expected. I collected it back with the hope of returning it today. On checking the phone, i discovered she had forgot to sign out her facebook messager, badoo etc.

I was extremely shocked when i view some of her chats (both old and new ones) with random men. To cut the story short, she is a free giver and a LovePeddler in my own view.

Now i've exchanged the phone and she is coming to collect it tomorrow. i dont feel like giving her again, infact i hate her from that moment.

Guys, i need an unsuspicious method to make her leave me.

fuckshit:
that's the fυςking “game" that's how certain bitçhes who are in a relationship play these days; you've got to fυςking play smart too; now this is a fυςking good one BUT a fυςking suggestion here; before telling her about the fυςking messages & needing a fυςking break; dude! make sure you fυςk her real good;

be fυςking smart; that's one of the rules of the fυςking “game"; & you should fυςking know this, even if you don't give her the fυςking phone, another fυςking mugu will always be there that will fυςking buy the phone for her

Otunba6:
perhaps the fool has suspected i read her messages. I just ended a call with her now, promised we would have a nice time together tomorrow. That she would go to the market and cook my favourite food for me. First time my girl will tell me that in more than 8 months we met.

Update:

i smell pride....
we all knew yhu bought her a fone b4 u created this thread buh dunt ask us how we knew!!!
(a matured mind will pay her off wit dah fone if m to say buh tenk God m nut gona advice yhu...
yo life...yo choice...yo mistakes....yo lesson!!!

bettercreature:
Its not about jazz my life is live and let's live

Otunba6:
perhaps the fool has suspected i read her messages. I just ended a call with her now, promised we would have a nice time together tomorrow. That she would go to the market and cook my favourite food for me. First time my girl will tell me that in more than 8 months we met.

chipatra:
abeg no give am back, tell her make she go find another maga!
make am know say u don ready her msgs

but come o! OP na wetin be d make of d phone

Gurgle:


Ok but why did you reassure her on the phone just now? what was the point

maybe there's something I am not getting here

why not just call her and tell her you don't want to see her and why. then drop the phone

and move on with your life

Update:

i smell pride....
we all knew yhu bought her a fone b4 u created this thread buh dunt ask us how we knew!!!
(a matured mind will pay her off wit dah fone if m to say buh tenk God m nut gona advice yhu...
yo life...yo choice...yo mistakes....yo lesson!!!

Otunba6:


Pride as in? i dont even understand you, do you read my post at all?

Otunba6:
perhaps the fool has suspected i read her messages. I just ended a call with her now, promised we would have a nice time together tomorrow. That she would go to the market and cook my favourite food for me. First time my girl will tell me that in more than 8 months we met.

ollah1:


And the new man is fvcking her seriously and roughly in that same right. YOU NEED DELIVERANCE

CUM4WHAT:
NONSENSE

Otunba6:


You dont get it, this is person i once share a wonderful moment with, shared so many things with. I cant just suddenly tell her i dont want her anymore(just like that). Meanwhile, i called her this morning that i received an urgent call from mum that i wont be available. This is what i will be doing till she got the message.

@beautifullll and others that requested for it, i cant post her chats here, it's quite illogical for me to reveal her identity. But if you dont know, she shared her private home address,office and mobile number. She has met few of them from what i read and they had a great fun together. Honestly i dont know what else she want from other men.

thank you all for your brotherly advise!

Kingsteve:


Ewu Maga!
You really ought to be ashamed of yourself.
Like seriously, who does that?

Gurgle:


Ok but why did you reassure her on the phone just now? what was the point

maybe there's something I am not getting here

why not just call her and tell her you don't want to see her and why. then drop the phone

and move on with your life