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"Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by abat4real37(f): 8:35am On Jul 14, 2015
In an article titled ‘Things that tell your Nigerian man is a big con’ a Kenya writer who goes by the name City Girl, dragged Nigerian men by their balls. Choi. Below is what she wrote, first published on Nairobinews
What is it with Kenyan women and Nigerian men? What is it with those short, stocky bearded West African mohines that make Kenyan women move planets for them?
We have heard enough stories about how Kenyan women borrowed loans for their Nigerian boyfriends to pay for ‘containers with goods worth millions’ stuck at the port only for the Nigerian man to disappear.
I know Kenyan women whose careers and lives have come to a standstill after a Nigerian man swept them clean, and I mean clean; car, house, land, money… everything.
So today, ladies, I chose to address this topic, once and for all. After this, I don’t expect any of you to be conned by a so-called ‘romantic’ Nigerian man. I will only say this once.
Stay away from Nigerian men! All Nigerian men are conmen. Repeat after me; “All Nigerian men are conmen”. There are no exceptions here. When you see a Nigerian man, run the other way. Don’t stop to invoke the name of Jesus or pray. Just take cover.
While you are at it, here are a few pointers you need to look out for in a Nigerian man. If he exhibits any of these traits, then you are dealing with a riffraff.
1. He is too romantic:You have never met a man like him. He treats you like a glass statue and worships the ground you walk on. He is not like the unromantic Kenyan men who don’t text you back or return your calls. He calls you ‘baby’ all the time except when he calls you ‘my queen’.
You have never been immersed in so much love and affection. You are literally intoxicated in his love. He will even paint your toenails and shampoo your hair. Red flag.
He is fattening you up for slaughter. He is warming your heart. Softening you up by leading you to believe that you have found the one. It is not humanly possible for a man to be 100 per cent romantic, 24 hours a day, seven days a week. That romantic Nigerian man is up to something.
2. He throws money at you:No man in his right mind will throw money at a woman.Kwani wewe ni nani?But this Nigerian is the most generous man you have ever met in your life. He even gives you money before you ask for it because ‘you are special and you deserve it’.
He debunks every myth you have ever heard about Nigerian men swindling women off their money. You relax and put your guard down. You think that the Lord has finally smiled upon you and given you a wonderful man who is not only loving, but also rich. All those prayers you prayed for a husband have finally been answered. Shock on you.
He is making an investment and he knows what he is doing. He will shower you with gifts and money amounting to Sh1 million, knowing very well that he will con you Sh3 million and make a profit Sh2 million. Tax free.
One day, when you least expect, he will strike. He will be in dire need of some Sh2 million for a deal and because he has created an illusion of wealth, you will readily give in. You will run to the sacco and borrow some Sh2 million. That will be the beginning of your downfall.
3. He moves in with you:So he gives you a cock and bull story about how he is putting up with a friend in Kileleshwa but has been unsuccessfully looking for a house. You pity him and allow him to put up with you in your house for a short while before he finds a bigger house for the two of you.
Every week, he has a new excuse. “Oh, I found one but it is too big.” “Oh, I found another one in Lavington but I don’t like it.”
A week turns into a month and before you know it, you are co-habiting with a Nigerian man who can barely speak English. But because he treats you so nice (and sometimes even washes the dishes), you are blind to his antics. Be very worried.
4. He drives your car:My friends told me this, and I couldn’t believe it. How does a woman give her man her car to go drinking out with the ‘boys’ as she takes a matatu to work?
Only a woman with a Nigerian boyfriend can do that. So he uses cabs all the time and you think it is just unfair for him to spend so much money on cabs, yet you have a car. You lend him yours and before you know it, he is dropping you to work in your car, goes out drinking with his friends in your car and suddenly that car is no longer yours. Be warned.
A real man does not drive woman’s car and a smart woman does not allow a man to use her car to run his errands. If he doesn’t have a car, let him use a cab or buy one.
5. He has mysterious ‘trips’:He purports to be a businessman but you are not exactly sure what he does for a living. He travels often to Dubai, China, Thailand and Singapore for ‘business trips’.
You don’t care what he does for a living mainly because of all the goodies he brings you. Lingerie. Expensive shoes. Perfumes. Dresses. Bags.
He says he does business but has never really taken you to his office, nor have you met any of his business partners. Be especially wary of those Nigerians who purport to sell gold or cars.
He hasn’t given you a business card, but you are still okay with it because he seems flashy and talks big. Silly girl.
One day you are going about your business and the next day you are a suspect for a car-theft syndicate and police will insist that you are harbouring a criminal on Interpol’s watch list. And you thought he loved you for your great personality!
6. You run errands for him:He takes you on a ‘holiday’ to China and throws money at your feet. He allows you to buy whatever you like because ‘you are special and you deserve it’.
On your way back, he tells you to carry a package for him to deliver to his friend because he has no space in his bag. You readily agree. I mean, after all the bags he has bought you, you must have some space. Foolish girl.
That man is using you as a conduit for drugs and you only realise it when you are frantically calling your aging relatives from the airport cells. The Nigerian man is long gone.
You have been warned. Stay away from Nigerian men.
Source: LindaIkeji
Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by Nobody: 8:36am On Jul 14, 2015
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Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by 1bunne4lif(m): 8:36am On Jul 14, 2015
Ok
Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by Nobody: 8:37am On Jul 14, 2015
Depends on who she met.
Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by Cutehector(m): 8:42am On Jul 14, 2015
Nigerian men r gods amongst men... See how they tremble

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Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by Nobody: 8:42am On Jul 14, 2015
lol
Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by Nobody: 8:43am On Jul 14, 2015
cheesy cheesy cheesy
Guys, we are all conmen abeg.
No arguments.
Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by cilifa: 8:43am On Jul 14, 2015
Fraud and deceit in the name of making money by deceiving young ladies.
Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by Escalze(m): 8:44am On Jul 14, 2015
undecided
Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by gaetano: 8:45am On Jul 14, 2015
So market dey Kenya like this since and I no know....
Chai! Bia emeka, pls clean my bags and help me pack my clothes, I'm going to Kenya to see if a girl will pay for my container grin

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Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by Blizzyblinkzy(f): 8:46am On Jul 14, 2015
She's talking frm experience
Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by Joeace3000(m): 8:46am On Jul 14, 2015
Nairaland: the dumping ground for Linda Ikeji blog posts.

On the issue. She can complain all she likes but there is no one unit of measurement for all men. That a series of Nigerian men she knows live wayward lives should not deter others from finding true Nigerians men out there. Her olosho ways attracted her to idiots. so she can cry me a river.

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Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 8:53am On Jul 14, 2015
A Nigerian guy drilled her kitty cat, took her money and vanished and now she is crying. Cry me a river girl, cry me a river!

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Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by Nobody: 9:00am On Jul 14, 2015
Frustration increase brain blood circulation.
An average nigeria man sleep with d brain calculating how tomrrw will be.
U.S wnt be infront by d time d government get it right.
D huge support naija man gave GAY marriage is not for ordinary purpose. U will see Yahoo boys dey roll into Yankee like never befre base on marriage.
Naija men i fear us die!!!
Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by Nobody: 9:16am On Jul 14, 2015
I commented on a similar thread.
Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by gamaliel121(m): 9:25am On Jul 14, 2015
They be hating, while we be grinding.. God bless nigeria..
Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by MrCork: 9:27am On Jul 14, 2015
abat4real37:
In an article titled ‘Things that tell your Nigerian man is a big con’ a Kenya writer who goes by the name City Girl, dragged Nigerian men by their balls. Choi. Below is what she wrote, first published on Nairobinews
What is it with Kenyan women and Nigerian men? What is it with those short, stocky bearded West African mohines that make Kenyan women move planets for them?
We have heard enough stories about how Kenyan women borrowed loans for their Nigerian boyfriends to pay for ‘containers with goods worth millions’ stuck at the port only for the Nigerian man to disappear.
I know Kenyan women whose careers and lives have come to a standstill after a Nigerian man swept them clean, and I mean clean; car, house, land, money… everything.
So today, ladies, I chose to address this topic, once and for all. After this, I don’t expect any of you to be conned by a so-called ‘romantic’ Nigerian man. I will only say this once.
Stay away from Nigerian men! All Nigerian men are conmen. Repeat after me; “All Nigerian men are conmen”. There are no exceptions here. When you see a Nigerian man, run the other way. Don’t stop to invoke the name of Jesus or pray. Just take cover.
While you are at it, here are a few pointers you need to look out for in a Nigerian man. If he exhibits any of these traits, then you are dealing with a riffraff.
1. He is too romantic:You have never met a man like him. He treats you like a glass statue and worships the ground you walk on. He is not like the unromantic Kenyan men who don’t text you back or return your calls. He calls you ‘baby’ all the time except when he calls you ‘my queen’.
You have never been immersed in so much love and affection. You are literally intoxicated in his love. He will even paint your toenails and shampoo your hair. Red flag.
He is fattening you up for slaughter. He is warming your heart. Softening you up by leading you to believe that you have found the one. It is not humanly possible for a man to be 100 per cent romantic, 24 hours a day, seven days a week. That romantic Nigerian man is up to something.
2. He throws money at you:No man in his right mind will throw money at a woman.Kwani wewe ni nani?But this Nigerian is the most generous man you have ever met in your life. He even gives you money before you ask for it because ‘you are special and you deserve it’.
He debunks every myth you have ever heard about Nigerian men swindling women off their money. You relax and put your guard down. You think that the Lord has finally smiled upon you and given you a wonderful man who is not only loving, but also rich. All those prayers you prayed for a husband have finally been answered. Shock on you.
He is making an investment and he knows what he is doing. He will shower you with gifts and money amounting to Sh1 million, knowing very well that he will con you Sh3 million and make a profit Sh2 million. Tax free.
One day, when you least expect, he will strike. He will be in dire need of some Sh2 million for a deal and because he has created an illusion of wealth, you will readily give in. You will run to the sacco and borrow some Sh2 million. That will be the beginning of your downfall.
3. He moves in with you:So he gives you a cock and bull story about how he is putting up with a friend in Kileleshwa but has been unsuccessfully looking for a house. You pity him and allow him to put up with you in your house for a short while before he finds a bigger house for the two of you.
Every week, he has a new excuse. “Oh, I found one but it is too big.” “Oh, I found another one in Lavington but I don’t like it.”
A week turns into a month and before you know it, you are co-habiting with a Nigerian man who can barely speak English. But because he treats you so nice (and sometimes even washes the dishes), you are blind to his antics. Be very worried.
4. He drives your car:My friends told me this, and I couldn’t believe it. How does a woman give her man her car to go drinking out with the ‘boys’ as she takes a matatu to work?
Only a woman with a Nigerian boyfriend can do that. So he uses cabs all the time and you think it is just unfair for him to spend so much money on cabs, yet you have a car. You lend him yours and before you know it, he is dropping you to work in your car, goes out drinking with his friends in your car and suddenly that car is no longer yours. Be warned.
A real man does not drive woman’s car and a smart woman does not allow a man to use her car to run his errands. If he doesn’t have a car, let him use a cab or buy one.
5. He has mysterious ‘trips’:He purports to be a businessman but you are not exactly sure what he does for a living. He travels often to Dubai, China, Thailand and Singapore for ‘business trips’.
You don’t care what he does for a living mainly because of all the goodies he brings you. Lingerie. Expensive shoes. Perfumes. Dresses. Bags.
He says he does business but has never really taken you to his office, nor have you met any of his business partners. Be especially wary of those Nigerians who purport to sell gold or cars.
He hasn’t given you a business card, but you are still okay with it because he seems flashy and talks big. Silly girl.
One day you are going about your business and the next day you are a suspect for a car-theft syndicate and police will insist that you are harbouring a criminal on Interpol’s watch list. And you thought he loved you for your great personality!
6. You run errands for him:He takes you on a ‘holiday’ to China and throws money at your feet. He allows you to buy whatever you like because ‘you are special and you deserve it’.
On your way back, he tells you to carry a package for him to deliver to his friend because he has no space in his bag. You readily agree. I mean, after all the bags he has bought you, you must have some space. Foolish girl.
That man is using you as a conduit for drugs and you only realise it when you are frantically calling your aging relatives from the airport cells. The Nigerian man is long gone.
You have been warned. Stay away from Nigerian men.
Source: LindaIkeji


....it will tame me 6days to read this krap!!! (no ofeense) angry

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Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by naijaboiy: 9:47am On Jul 14, 2015
Wetin concern me?

Abi shey them force you to date Naija guy? cheesy

Abeg park one side jare! grin

No be today yansh dey back,,women will still keep liking Nigerian men. grin
Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by wordbank(m): 9:55am On Jul 14, 2015
If she think say she don wise
If I jam am, I go Bleep dada comot for her yansh, if she get d bread I collect am match
Mumu dey worry am
Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by misspicy(f): 10:14am On Jul 14, 2015
Lol....zis iz hilarious ...
Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by Pavore9: 10:51am On Jul 14, 2015
Being a Nigerian male is a red flag in Kenya but some of their women no dey hear word! A lot of Nigerian yahoo buys living in Kenya and are big spenders, immigration gets them and have them deported, they will still sneak back in.
Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by cantell(m): 10:58am On Jul 14, 2015
Cry me an ocean!
Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by Nobody: 11:23am On Jul 14, 2015
Nigerian guys,una see una lives? Act responsibly you will not listen. Annoying lots.
Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by Ayomide002: 11:26am On Jul 14, 2015
That's a fallacy i call,ad dicto simpliciter-fallacy of generalization.........
Thou every Nigerian is our part pro toto anywhere in the world,but that they are bad does not mean all Nigerians are bad.........
Pray not to meet fraudlers and conmen
Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by vislabraye(m): 11:37am On Jul 14, 2015
Let her tell us what Naija guys have done to her...
Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by vislabraye(m): 11:38am On Jul 14, 2015
Tabh:
Nigerian guys,una see una lives?
Act responsibly you will not listen.
Annoying lots.

My friend, be quiet. You no fit love your people angry
Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by Nobody: 11:43am On Jul 14, 2015
vislabraye:


My friend, be quiet. You no fit love your people angry
sharap already,when naija boys bring down and bash naija girls,everyone takes it as a normal thing.
double standards.
Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by godoluwa(m): 12:37pm On Jul 14, 2015
useless point.
Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by Nobody: 12:39pm On Jul 14, 2015
grin cheesy grin 'PAINMENT'
Ntoooooooor tongue tongue tongue
Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by Sleekysweet(f): 1:45pm On Jul 14, 2015
Yes, Nigerian men re bad tongue cool
Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by Godskidmidas(m): 2:07pm On Jul 14, 2015
Me know say I no be con man sha
Re: "Stay Away From Nigerian Men! All Nigerian Men Are Conmen’ – Kenyan Girl Writes by Gurgle(f): 2:26pm On Jul 14, 2015
I still love them

they are only troublesome because they are worth it

next time she sees one she should outsmart him and show that she is equal to the task

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