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(ladies)some Signs That Shows That You Re In An Emotionally Abusive Relatioship by HelpeeDeck(m): 9:24pm On Jul 14, 2015
The guy who makes you think he has many options.

He nonsensically reminds you of the hordes of women who are attracted to him to make you believe it is your job to please him and make him happy at all times, lest he finds someone new. He doesn’t want you; not only does he want a mirror, but he also wants a woman who is sure to chase her tail in circles trying to please him at all costs, no matter how high. Stay away.

The guy who wants to control your emotions.

If he says he’s going to call you at 7 pm on a Tuesday, but he does not do so until 10 pm the following day (or later), he is likely doing it on purpose. He wants you to be thinking about all of the possible reasons why he’s not contacting you when he said he would. He wants you kept on a short leash, and in his mind, this is one way to do it.

The guy who inconsistently keeps his word.

Though he doesn’t always come through, he goes far beyond the guy who is “just not that in to you.” But, he does so for the wrong reasons.
He’s into you because he needs to feel in control, and you are precisely the person who will fulfill that need if you do not run.
Or maybe he is, quite simply, someone who does not feel as though keeping his word is something he needs to do.

The guy who “seems” interested in the future.

The guy who appears really interested in marriage and children within the first month of knowing you and later his not interested in marriage and children again.

The guy who needs to control your physical space.

He’s the guy who barricades a door so you cannot leave a room during an argument until you have allowed him to talk circles around an issue he created. This is a guy who is used to being given opportunities to talk his way out of situations.

The guy who does not respect you, your boundaries or your physical space.

He’s the guy who does not leave your dorm/apartment/home when you’ve asked him to. The same goes for the guy who shows up to your home when you have explicitly asked him not to.

The guy who has something to hide.

He’s the guy who is not honest about who his friends are. There is no other interpretation for this.

The guy with clear control issues.

He’s the guy who goes out of his way to say and do things that annoy you. He needs to know that he can manipulate you successfully, and this is one small way to test it.

The guy who is a master manipulator.

Have you ever apologized for your “role” in his behavior? This is master manipulation at its finest.
Not only has he behaved poorly, but he has found a way to manipulate you into believing that his behavior is, was, and will continue to be your fault.
Re: (ladies)some Signs That Shows That You Re In An Emotionally Abusive Relatioship by apogeez(m): 9:26pm On Jul 14, 2015
ok
Re: (ladies)some Signs That Shows That You Re In An Emotionally Abusive Relatioship by CUM4WHAT(m): 9:27pm On Jul 14, 2015
NONSENSE jargon
Re: (ladies)some Signs That Shows That You Re In An Emotionally Abusive Relatioship by HelpeeDeck(m): 9:29pm On Jul 14, 2015
Your response shows the level of your maturity..and your iq ratings...Cum4what

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Re: (ladies)some Signs That Shows That You Re In An Emotionally Abusive Relatioship by xpac01(m): 9:30pm On Jul 14, 2015
The guy who make you feel you ain't good enough.
Re: (ladies)some Signs That Shows That You Re In An Emotionally Abusive Relatioship by hos4x(m): 9:36pm On Jul 14, 2015
time wasting...
Re: (ladies)some Signs That Shows That You Re In An Emotionally Abusive Relatioship by Nobody: 9:38pm On Jul 14, 2015
CUM4WHAT:
NONSENSE jargon





CUM4K, how was your day
Re: (ladies)some Signs That Shows That You Re In An Emotionally Abusive Relatioship by HelpeeDeck(m): 9:41pm On Jul 14, 2015
i Dont Expect all to like the post,truth is always bitter in this country..what maters is that the post is helpful toward people who are been affected..
Re: (ladies)some Signs That Shows That You Re In An Emotionally Abusive Relatioship by CUM4WHAT(m): 9:45pm On Jul 14, 2015
HelpeeDeck:
Your response shows the level of your maturity..and your iq ratings...Cum4what
simply because your I.Q is less than d number of letters in my moniker
Re: (ladies)some Signs That Shows That You Re In An Emotionally Abusive Relatioship by CUM4WHAT(m): 9:47pm On Jul 14, 2015
Oyind17:







CUM4K, how was your day
itwas gud jare dnt mind all dose stunted d! Cks dah lyk quoting me

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