you know what yorubas call "ge ka je" which can happen after you've konjified yourself to a high degree of excitement only to come back to reality tv.

You are left biting your finger in regret at the lack of konji gratification while the target waltzes around in blissful unkonjiness.

so, what happened?

Did you persist and get cockblocked over and over again, did you continue chasing the target until you got a chance to spread your std ( I mean love), or did you simply stop wasting your time and move on to easier chances with ladies who understood your konji state.