When a guy is set to marry , he looks for
traits such as , care, love, respect , good
looking , educated , romantic , intelligent, God
fearing , industrious ,compa$$ionate ,fun to be
with etc.
I must tell you, there are some hidden signs
you need to look out for, so that you won’t be
catch unaware.
like the saying goes, when you are married,
divorce is not an option. so, be wise. don’t be
afraid to break a heart because your life
depends on your future than to toil with it.
NOTE:
This may actually be applicable to ladies too
but I will want to speak from an angle of a
guy .
1) Negative Minded Ladies.
These set of ladies are always pessimistic about
anything and everything. You hardly hear them
say positive things about any issue except their
own exploit. They are in the habit of giving and
pointing to negative examples every time.
They won’t stop asking you silly questions like “
if armed robber should come to our house and
r*pe me what will you do ?” or a$$uming we
are married and no child for ten years what
will be your reaction? “
Note:
Am not saying one should not have some fears
about life (evils are everywhere) but when one’s
life is dominated in that direction then, there
should be a rethink.
Implication:
If you eventually end up with such woman, she
will never see anything positive in what you do,
no matter how much you try.
This can be frustrating as a man especially the
hard working ones.
They are the type that will always compete
with their husband and feel they can do better
than their husband if they have same
opportunity of equal resources.
2)Haters/ Non Appreciative
This type of lady will always hate anything that
doesn’t have anything to do with her. She will
condemn even the best obvious good things.
No news is good news to her in as much she
is not part of the beneficiaries. She is not
fascinated by good things around.
These are the type of ladies that see a car of
your relative or friend that worth millions of
naira and say its shouldn’t be more than 500k.
She looks down on anybody that does extra
ordinary things, believing it’s noting special while
she can’t even do one per cent of such.
Implication:
These type of ladies tend to hate every of your
family members, friends, and neighbours when
she eventually gets what she want (marriage).
You your self don’t be surprise you will always
be a victim day in day out.
Don’t mind the cordial relationship she is having
with people around you now , it’s a matter of
time when she eventually gets in ,her full blown
colour will show like rainbow in the sky.
3) The Gentle and peace lover
She is always quiet and smiling. She will
always take your opinion as the best. In most
cases, she hardly antagonises your decisions
even when it’s obvious it’s not convenient for
her.
She will not let out her opinion so that you
won’t be angry.
Not that she doesn’t have one but she doesn’t
want to make you angry.
Even if you are angry she will make peace
immediately before you get out of her sight .
she will always beg .
Note:
Some ladies are naturally loving and gentle,
they take life easy, not that they are dull but
that is just their life style. Most at times its
good to fight separate and come back .
it makes partners stronger. The separation may
be short or long . what is most important is
that you tend to reflect on the relationship if it
actually worth it or not.
A situation where one of the parties is always
making sure this doesn’t happen, my brother am
afraid .
Implication:
Most ladies that falls into this category are the
ones that are very eager to marry. She must
have witnessed nearly all her mates or younger
ones wedding.
So, they need to form zombie to get what they
want. Some might have been warned by their
relatives and blamed their hot temper for their
delay in marriage.
So, they had to subside the temperament till
when they would have little or nothing to lose.
When you eventually marry this type of lady,
don’t be surprise when you receive the first
“adult slap” from your gentle wife.
Watch out. Not only that, you will be surprise
when she complains abouabout everything and
all things.
Those are the ladies that gives directly or
indirect rules on family and friends that visit
the house while her family members enjoy a
free day anytime any day. She stops begging
and most times initiate fights.
4) The masculine worker.
When you visit a lady in the house and you
discover she has the strength of more than a
man .hmmm. You see her fetching water and
balancing 50 litters of kegs of water on both
hands.
You see her painting her own room by herself,
taking cutla$$ clear the surroundings, cutting
trees before the Gardner resumes. She kills
snakes anyhow. She walks where men can’t
even dare.
Note:
It’s good for ladies to be hard working and has
the ability to do various house shores but there
is work for men and there are works for
women. The lady that can do all… hmm.
Implication:
Don’t be surprises when eventually she gets to
the house and she sees nothing much to
exercise her power on hmm… You may need to
have some training in judo or karate.
More also, these kind of ladies will not allow
anybody near your house because she believes
she can do it all.
When the work load is much, you are
incorporated into the kitchen by force by fire.
5) The Wedding Planner.
The only thing she is excited to discuss is how
the wedding day will be. She doesn’t care about
home, about future together, about how to raise
the kids. Those are the desperados. She will
never talk of how the two of you will attend
marriage seminar, single programs, discussing
family situations etc.
Note:
It’s normal for ladies to think of wedding and
plan towards that great day. But it’s worrisome
if that is the 90% talk instead of the marriage
plan.
Implication:
Most ladies don’t understand that wedding is
not marriage. Most ladies misbehave when they
get to their husband house because they failed
to prepare for it.
They were cut unawares by their husband
character which they might have been told at
marriage seminars or read about.
How would they know when they didn’t
prepare? More also, they collude with family
members to demand for exorbitant and
outrageous bride price even when you struggle
to make sure she leaves her fathers’ house.
6) The Indoor Lady
The indoor ladies are only exposed to their
parent house, schools attended, NYSC and
church. Besides all these places, nothing else.
They can only talk only on these places in
their life time. Worst still, they never read
papers, listen to news, No visitation of any kind
and Enemies of social media.
They are uninformed set of ladies. They are
difficult to train. Worst still, they so much have
strong conviction about the little they know.
They are very difficult to beat in an argument.
They are ready to enter into a blind argument
with you. These people are very difficult to
train.
You hardly enjoy watching TV with them or
accompany you to places. Her sense of
judgment is next to error.
Implication:
welcom to a lonely life where electronic gadgets
becomes your best friend.
You will prefer talking to yourself like a mad
man than discussing with her.
Reason why you see some men glued to their
phones in the house.
7) Nollywood Fan
All their life style is built around Yoruba, Hausa
and Igbo movies. They believe everything they
see on their screen. They are millions miles far
away from reality .
They are always suspicious of all the people
around them as evil. They don’t want to make
friends so that what happened to Ronke
Oshodioke in “campus girls” movie would not
happen to them in reality.
Implication:
They will give your life rules of life as if you
were just born to the world. Citing relevant and
irrelevant movies.
8 ) Fighting Parent Influence :
You go to her house, you over heard her mum
screaming on her daddy for hours , you saw or
heard this with your own very ears not once,
not twice.
The fact is, no matter how nice,
accommodating, humble, loving and caring your
lady is, you will occasionally get that dose. If
you are very fortunate it won’t be a daily dose.
Implication:
she will make your life miserable!
9) The Past Perfect Secret Keeper (PPSK)
Any lady that fails to give you a hint (if not
details) of how she departed from her former
relationship(s), is dangerous.
You may soon be the victim of her regular bad
character. Like it’s said, character is like a
smoke, you can’t cover it.
That character that destroyed her former
relationship she is keeping away from you will
still repeat itself sooner or later. Watch your
back bro. ok

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End time women. May God save us from the kind. Ameen

Please don't get married at all.

Nice but am a masculine worker.


What should I do Op?

Remain single or wat?