Dear Readers,
I’m a 27-year-old lady and my husband is 31 years. We got married four months ago, we attend the same church, we even met in the church and we are both active. He is in the ushering department while am in the choir and we are both born again. Am telling you all this for you to know we are not babies in the spirit. Our courtship was sex free, as you know now, no touching, kissing nor romancing. We seldom visit each other at home due to our church strict restriction on that. And when I do I never went beyond his sitting room maybe if I had done otherwise, I would have known about this before now. Our wedding ceremony was great and we settled down to marital life.
Two months after, my husband has a cause to travel out of town, it was on a Saturday and I decided to clean the room as I was re-arranging the clothes in the wardrobe, a parcel fell on my leg, at first I ignored it but on a second thought I picked it up to check what was inside, I received the greatest shock of my life, my husband has been watching pornography! The parcel actually contained different porn movies. I felt sad and dejected. I tried to check his laptop if he has such things there but it has been pass-worded.

I didn’t confront when he returned and I pretended as if nothing happened. That night I took his phone when he was fast asleep and searched through it, behold he has porn movies on his phone too! But I still kept my cool. I had to let the cat out of the bag when one month later he asked if I like MouthAction and he want us to it give a trial. He said watched porn movies so that he will be able to satisfy me in bed. To say that I was shocked is an understatement. I told him I can’t indulge in MouthAction.

He has been pestering me for this. How can I engage the same mouth I use to pray, to speak in tongues in MouthAction? Since then he has been behaving funny. He keeps to himself; he is not even interested in making love with me and I’m yet to get pregnant.

babe he is the owner of your body. having mouth action with your husband is not a sin.

this is where ur pastor shld come in

I think there has to be some sort of compromise somewhere. And contrary to what some are suggesting, neither your pastor or any other person should know about this. It should be discussed btw you two without any form of shame.

This all boils down to the question "is MouthAction a sin?"
Consider these questions when answering the question "Is oral
sex a sin?"
-Is MouthAction voluntary and have both the husband and wife
agreed to it?
-Why do you want MouthAction? Is it for pure sexual pleasure or
is it to fulfill a sexual fantasy derived from porn?
-Have you or your spouse been convicted by the Holy Spirit
that MouthAction is wrong?
-Does MouthAction edify and fulfill both you and your spouse?
While answering these questions, pray for guidance from God.
He will reveal the answer to you - for your relationship.
#copied
http://www.allaboutgod.com/is-oral-sex-a-sin.htm ...this article will help out..I advice u to read it up

mouth action is notin if u truly want to satisfy ur husband's sexual need.

most bishop n wife indulge n it just dat dey don't go blowing trumpet.

Hersexynez:
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I see u oo

Since you're too holy to give him blow.job, don't worry, someone that's less holy will give him, ok?

You need to help him forget about watching porn,without that he will continue to ask and he will never be satisfied without it

I don't think mouth action is a sin expecially between legally married couples

Trinxie:
This all boils down to the question "is MouthAction a sin?"
Consider these questions when answering the question "Is oral
sex a sin?"
-Is MouthAction voluntary and have both the husband and wife
agreed to it?
-Why do you want MouthAction? Is it for pure sexual pleasure or
is it to fulfill a sexual fantasy derived from porn?
-Have you or your spouse been convicted by the Holy Spirit
that MouthAction is wrong?
-Does MouthAction edify and fulfill both you and your spouse?
While answering these questions, pray for guidance from God.
He will reveal the answer to you - for your relationship.
#copied
http://www.allaboutgod.com/is-oral-sex-a-sin.htm ...this article will help out..I advice u to read it up

great stuff.... Men gives advices but only GOD'S stand.

Wow...what a sensitive discussion.

It appears you two (out of your "spirit born again" prudish mindset) forgot to discuss sexuality during your courtship.

G--d made sex and to be enjoyed in holy matrimony, which it appears you two are in it.

Sit down and communicate. Be open minded. You may like it ( I hope reciprocates and not only you performing to him)

You and your husband need to give yourselves time to get comfortable with it; it should not be coerced, forced or rushed.

Good luck tho, not easy water to thread. Lots of prayers, grace, understanding and patience between you two.

But, one thing I will conclude with is this: IT IS NOT A SIN, if that is what is holding you back.

Since when is BLOW JOOB a big deal.

your continually being uptight will just make him take his sexual fantasies somewhere else.

believe it or not, variety is needed in sex, or else it becomes stale and repetitious.

Xiadnat:
Wow...what a sensitive discussion.

It appears you two (out of your "spirit born again" prudish mindset) forgot to discuss sexuality during your courtship.

G--d made sex and to be enjoyed in holy matrimony, which it appears you two are in it.

Sit down and communicate. Be open minded. You may like it ( I hope reciprocates and not only you performing to him)

You and your husband need to give yourselves time to get comfortable with it; it should not be coerced, forced or rushed.

Good luck tho, not easy water to thread. Lots of prayers, grace, understanding and patience between you two.

But, one thing I will conclude with is this: IT IS NOT A SIN, if that is what is holding you back.

Exactly,God made sex to b enjoyd within d confines of marriage..