Tips for Approach a Lady


1) Never approach a lady when she is with her friends .
Why, she would not give you a genuine response .. She would laugh at most of your comments and not take you seriously because her friends are there . Also some friends who are not in a relationship might give bad advice . Its like wooing her n her friends too if you know what i mean ..

2) Try and walk up to the lady
Calling a lady like dogs , whistling and howling at them can put them off i mean we are not animals for God-sake .. Yes i have seen guys shouting "excuse me" n "hissing" like really !
Be a man walk up to her spark a conversation .

3) Know where and when
If you are staring at a lady n she doesn't look at u .. Trust me she knows ur looking if she doesn't make eye contact don't waste your time .. She aint interested. When she's in the bank arguing about money lol not the time to approach only if u can provide solution , place of work, night time and dark places ( side roads) pls don't she would be frightened or think u might harm her. Etc

4) Be confident
Confidence sells , some guys would get a ladies attention .. But face to face he breaks down, doesn't know what to say e.g excuse miss. Please whats the time? she replies .. And then you walk off ( if she replies get into a convo with her talk about anything ,, traffic, weather etc and then ask for her name or whatever if shes not single her body language or response would let you know.

5) Persistent
Yes persistency can really work if done properly .. Lol I'm not saying harass the chic oh
But we ladies tend to operate on a hard to get basis .. (Its in our nature to do shakara) yes even when she says no some times it mean try harder .. So if u approach a lady once and she seemed responsive try again ..

6) Be yourself
Sometimes its hard , some ppl switch to another persona when approaching ladies , they change their voice, accent, the way they walk to u self get as E be lol .. Yh just be real . Women would appreciate a genuine guy

7)intoxicated
I know some guys need a bit of dutch courage (Alcohol) for confidence . but getting drunk and approaching a lady is not a good look .. You might not even remember what u said or did and it might give off the wrong impressions. Try and do it sober


You can add your.. Pls note it doesn't apply to all
Source: ladyboss
Cc lalasticlala ishilove

Keep chasing gals while we keep making cash......

Nice tips .

And make sure you're looking presentable

elantraceey:
Nice tips .


And make sure you're looking presentable

Nice add

ladyboss1 is a pro. Lol

Naija boyz no gt tym for al dix tinx o

Interesting. Nice thread. With respect to No 1, when I want to approach a girl who is in the company of her friends and then there are also guys with me. What I and my friends do is to create a diversion. My friends will back me up by acting to be interested in her friends no matter how ugly they are just to enable me to woo the pretty one. There's been a time too when she was in the company of her friends and I just didn't want to let go. I took the risk and approached her in the company of her friends. Funny enough it worked. They were all busy saying I'm cute and all that. It took the grace of God to successfully effectuate my mission after those compliments. If you're very good looking/cute/rich don't be afraid to try tip 1.

Hmm #tipsindee ......

Nice tips from a lady with d big hips dats making some nairaland guys standing on d list to get at least a glimpse of d big hips ...

Number 1 is ludicrous

This long list just because I want to approach a lady?

Is it going to get me a medal or something?

Oh, it's not up to 10

#JustKidding

Abeg I need tips on how to approach a guy.
Am tired of hearing women stuff.

djeezy:
Interesting. Nice thread. With respect to No 1, when I want to approach a girl who is in the company of her friends and then there are also guys with me. What I and my friends do is to create a diversion. My friends will back me up by acting to be interested in her friends no matter how ugly they are just to enable me to woo the pretty one. There's been a time too when she was in the company of her friends and I just didn't want to let go. I took the risk and approached her in the company of her friends. Funny enough it worked. They were all busy saying I'm cute and all that. It took the grace of God to successfully effectuate my mission after those compliments. If you're very good looking/cute/rich don't be afraid to try tip 1.

Lol dj its cuz ur cute ohh
Imagine if u no cute nko thise friends wont be so friendly ..
But yh good point about bringing ur friends too as diversion good tactic ...

This is d main reason why guys bullshittt ladies who walk up to dem...

Wear a genuine smile and be prepared for any response

Jennydoris:
Abeg I need tips on how to approach a guy.
Am tired of hearing women stuff.

Hehehe
Hmmm do nigeria men want to be apprached by women
Game changer .. Not sure it can work

Cutehector:
This is d main reason why guys bullshittt ladies who walk up to dem...

Dont get u

Jennydoris:
Abeg I need tips on how to approach a guy.
Am tired of hearing women stuff.

we guys are different.. We aint u guys dat put up a criteria on hw to approach us...

darkenedrebel:
Number 1 is ludicrous

Ur blessed with good looks so u might not have that problem
But some guys who dont look as good
Might be ridicuked by her friends i have seen it happen alot ...

kingstylo01:
Keep chasing gals while we keep making cash......

^^^ neither cash or chic ..

LadyBoss1:


Dont get u

leme simplify it for u lala.. U feel like ur some sort of a goddess... It gets into ur head wen lots of guys approach u daily buh wen u spot a guy who u really get head ova heels for, he tends to bullshittt u ... Dats karma

lagmostkuit:
Like he wanna go approach God..

Even Baba God no fix rules like this...
Me kukuma get hin Number

Cutehector:
leme simplify it for u lala.. U feel like ur some sort of a goddess... It gets into ur head wen lots of guys approach u daily buh wen u spot a guy who u really get head ova heels for, he tends to bullshittt u ... Dats karma

Lol u get imagination oh
Hehehe but no ur wrong not even close

kingstylo01:
Keep chasing gals while we keep making cash......

Why re all these thread spoilers always FTC...like they be been waiting for the thread..

chibwike:
Why re all these thread spoilers always FTC...like they be been waiting for the thread..

Leave him ban dey await the guy

LadyBoss1:

Hehehe
Hmmm do nigeria men want to be apprached by women
Game changer .. Not sure it can work

I bet you it will work...

LadyBoss1:


Lol u get imagination oh
Hehehe but no ur wrong not even close

am not talkn abt u jor... Am generalizin

Jennydoris:




I bet you it will work...

dorris, pls dnt listen to ladyboss1...

Jennydoris:




I bet you it will work...

If women start toasting guys ? Lol really
Nigerian men oya respond oh

djeezy:
Interesting. Nice thread. With respect to No 1, when I want to approach a girl who is in the company of her friends and then there are also guys with me. What I and my friends do is to create a diversion. My friends will back me up by acting to be interested in her friends no matter how ugly they are just to enable me to woo the pretty one. There's been a time too when she was in the company of her friends and I just didn't want to let go. I took the risk and approached her in the company of her friends. Funny enough it worked. They were all busy saying I'm cute and all that. It took the grace of God to successfully effectuate my mission after those compliments. If you're very good looking/cute/rich don't be afraid to try tip 1.

chain even handsome guys re finding it difficult

then the ugly ones don't have hope na

tho money conquereth all