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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by pbs4real(m): 9:55am On Jul 21, 2015
Cutehector:
sirach 11:2, thank me later..
















Btw, sirach is found in d goodnews bible.
anyways i use KJV. . . .and u would agree with me dre's nt sirach drewink
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by sinaj(f): 9:56am On Jul 21, 2015
pbs4real:
enjoymentgrin flex wella b4 u resume.

lol
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by pbs4real(m): 9:57am On Jul 21, 2015
halfrica:


grin be askin o cutehector oya cum set d captives free
he dozn't want to burst ur bubblegrin
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by jaybee3(m): 9:58am On Jul 21, 2015
freecocoa:
Your stup1dity is indeed legendary, do yourself a favour and get some education, tufiakwa!.

You are beyond disgusting, even cavemen would be ashamed to associate with you, I pity the unfortunate people who have to endure your level of 1diocy, such a twart.

Relax coco... mbanu
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 9:58am On Jul 21, 2015
pbs4real:
he dozn't want to burst ur bubblegrin
Cutehector is a wicked nigga o *tears*
I manage to love him like dat
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by ceecee0703(m): 9:59am On Jul 21, 2015
skyfullofstars:


Well, I don't think so. I don't think it's necessary. I do believe that wives should respect their husbands AS MUCH AS the husbands should respect their wives, but that's it.

I'm tired of reading in this forum "women must be like this, women must do this...". Let us be, we're human beings just as men are, and as free to be ourselves as men are. However, I will always emphazise the MUTUAL respect between both sexes, amd between people in general regardless of the gender., that is indeed important.

am sorry but everyone have their own path to play in a r.ship or marriage. Bt lets look at it this way a woman has enormous power that only she can wield. A woman can control any man if she can be submissive not to be a slave. A man can keep any woman that wants to be kept if he loves her beyond himself.

Any r.ship will wrk if everyone contribute something to it. U will see a r.ship head to the rocks if everyone live the way they like. A man shouldnt control a woman forcefully bt a woman that is submissive not enslavry will live happily.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by pbs4real(m): 10:02am On Jul 21, 2015
U self put ur pix joorundecided 4get wetin cutehector talkwink
halfrica:

Cutehector is a wicked nigga o *tears*
I manage to love him like dat
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by jerryunit48: 10:02am On Jul 21, 2015
kaeforum:



Why should I wash my hands with saliva when I live by the river bank. Naija gals overseas are gold diggers, lazy indolent and have very low iq.
Not to talk of their tendency to put on excessive weight when they marry, unlike their European counterpart who are trendy , disciplined and keep their form even after many years of marriage.

No mind wetin u see for movies , oyibo chicks are actually better than they are actually portrayed in film.
Bro you Said it well
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 10:04am On Jul 21, 2015
AIYELE:
Very interesting topic. Nigeria women are only concern about" MONEY" many of them don't even understand what love is all about. I dated a white lady for many years, I remembered if I don't have much money with me I don't felt stressed, but with a Nigeria women you start getting nervous and felt insecure. Nigerians women are simply after. Money! OWO! Dinero! Argent! Penge!.. 1 of the reason why many nigerian men who married with foreign ladies worked less hours but those who married with Nigeria women worked double shift in Europe .
THE BIGGEST MISTAKE I EVER DID WAS TO FALL IN LOVE WITH A NIGERIA WOMAN TWICE

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 10:04am On Jul 21, 2015
[quote author=pbs4real post=36114524]U self put ur pix joorundecided 4get wetin cutehector



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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by eromspete(m): 10:09am On Jul 21, 2015
I like how you made your points. Thumbs up

Its all about the individual and upbringing cool

charismatic1:
First of all anyone can marry from anywhere, it is a matter of choice. However, it is easier to marry someone that you see almost every time or that is close to you.On the other hand, there are different factors that can lead to whoever you connect with such as the environment, your family background, your personality, Church,School and even your friends too can be of influence. It is very naïve of someone to now generalize that because Nigerian girls are materialistic and all that, that is why Nigerian men are not marrying them.
May I tell you that greater percentage of Nigerian men abroad are still marrying and would still marry Nigerian women.
It is easier for Nigerian men to be carried away or overshadowed with a Western love because we Nigerians are not groomed well in that sense but basically are taught to be respectful. Our parents show us their love in different ways but definitely not in a romantic way unlike the Westerners/foreigners.
Sex is also not a big of a deal to most Westerners/foreigners. Our men like easy or free sex.
Another factor is that the economy is favorable in the Western world compared to our harsh economy, therefore, ladies do not care much about present and future security because a lot of government aides /laws are available for them, perhaps anything happens e.g Child support, Unemployment, Food Link card etc
Level of exposure cannot also be underestimated. Attraction as well as the feeling that foreigners especially ‘Whites’ are better than Black pushes some men to fall into that situation. That is why you see that most of our men do not always marry the well educated amongst the Westerners/foreigners except a very few. Divorce is common after a while.
Some are desperately in need of changing their status(stay/papers). It is easier to lure them into that than to lure a Nigerian woman(Smarter).
An inevitable factor is family. Not everyone can deal with the extended family issues, so they settle for the Western woman/foreigner who might not have a large family.
Lastly some just naturally get admiration for the White folks/foreigners, not because of Nigerian women are these or that.

Men,stop complaining about a woman being materialistic because the ball is in your court.Don't spend if you don't want to spend, rather look for one of your caliber that is hardworking,focused,busy,disciplined with present/future ambition etc except your caliber is opposite of what i'd mentioned.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 10:09am On Jul 21, 2015
sanmibukunmi:
There is no criteria you can use to try to bring foreign and Nigerian ladies 2geda. Nigerian ladies can't be compared at all with them.... The only aspect I fink Nigerian ladies will be preferred to a foreign lady is in the aspect of cooking local dishes and dts all. And to make matters worse just abt 50 percent of dm even know how to do dt.... Here is a difference dt I have observed between a Nigerian lady and a foreigner.
A white lady will break up with u for not having a good ambition.
A white lady will break up with u for not spending enough times with her privately ( note not abt monez)
But a Nigerian lady will break up with u cos
1- you are not spending enough on her
2- you are not spending an hour thrusting in and out of her Vagina.....lol
To me even the dumbest of the whites av ha better iq, composure, self esteem, respect and sincerity than a Nigerian....
modern naija ladies(AKA chewinggum girls) dont even know how to boil common egg not to talk of cooking local dishes grin grin.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by eromspete(m): 10:13am On Jul 21, 2015
Why are you shaming him?

Where does it say in any rule/law book that he's restricted to marrying Nigerian ladies?

Its all about the individual and the choices he makes. He's chosen to have mixed babies. Let him be cool

Setaje:



Shame on u and everybody that liked your comment. Shame!
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by justwise(m): 10:17am On Jul 21, 2015
YourMain:


shocked That is a really disgusting and ignorant thing to think about a group of people.

You have zero right to speak of women in such manner. If you Nigerian men didn't have such fragile little egos you would sit back and allow women to be the breadwinners. But you don't. You frown at a woman who is more successful than you in life, then have the audacity to complain.

Unintelligent with low IQs ? Do you realize how ignorant you sound. You should be absolutely disgusted with yourself.

Why would any man Nigerian or not allow that? Women have little or no respect for any man who is not commanding his home financially, allow a woman to be a bread winner she will walk all over you, she will have no respect for you.

You will always be reminded who pays the bills, its a suicide mistake for any man to make in a marriage in Nigeria or outside Nigeria, even in relationships don't allow your girlfriend to pick up bills.

If you don't have money then marriage is not for you.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 10:19am On Jul 21, 2015
freecocoa:
Your stup1dity is indeed legendary, do yourself a favour and get some education, tufiakwa!.

You are beyond disgusting, even cavemen would be ashamed to associate with you, I pity the unfortunate people who have to endure your level of 1diocy, such a twart.

And she keeps ranting with pathetic level of reasoning and understanding. A path that will take her to destruction. Show me who has ever towed this your path and came back to testify the wonders she did. Any? Absolutely none! All the ladies who choose to play the path of extreme feminism only later show back to bite their fingers in regret. Freecocoa, for the very last time, go for deliverance. A devil is obviously behind you.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by beyoncausme: 10:19am On Jul 21, 2015
think its choice ...

Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 10:27am On Jul 21, 2015
justwise:


Why would any man Nigerian or not allow that? Women have little or no respect for any man who is not commanding his home financially, allow a woman to be a bread winner she will walk all over you, she will have no respect for you.

You will always be reminded who pays the bills, its a suicide mistake for any man to make in a marriage in Nigeria or outside Nigeria, even in relationships don't allow your girlfriend to pick up bills.

If you don't have money then marriage is not for you.

Lol. Where the fragile ego kicks in. If the only way you can demand respect is financially then you're already at a loss. Why would you want to be with a woman that has no respect for you or that you have no respect for.

Imo, it's about mutual respect and understand. What is yours is mine and what is mine is yours. If you can't pay the phone bill ill pay it or if I can't pay the mortgage you pay it. Who cares who's bring the money in. You're in competition with your spouse, you're meant to love him her.

I don't believe it needs to be a situation of, I've money and you don't so you respect me. That's not really respect then. That money can go anytime and then what will yous have ?

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by stillreal(m): 10:27am On Jul 21, 2015
Its a shame when you see Naija guys stereotyping their own women . I bet most of you guys talking about how naija girls are different from foreign girls probably haven't dated a foreigner before . Every race , culture etc will always have the good and bad. Maybe its time you guys look at what kind of women you attract and realize there are lots of good mannered, ambitious, fun, strong naija ladies out there. I have dated Africans, Caucasians, Caribbeans ,Asians etc and Naija girls will always be number1 for me, find the right one and you will be happy grin

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 10:38am On Jul 21, 2015
sinaj:


I knw dere are gurls dat are after guyz money...

my problem iz jux d way u guyz generalise it.

m sure dere are some white girls like dat too. buh u guyz are making it to look as if iz only Nigerian gurls dat are guilty of it.
wch one be 'you' guys? Abeg I don't make 'girl' topic my discussion. My own be say I get my own annd she's not like that, in fact she does more than I do. Meanwhile, there are still so many unserious hungry girls out there. I think Buhari should tackle the issue.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Fele1: 10:40am On Jul 21, 2015
HOTWATER:
Men,Boys are tired of In-law wahala for naija.
that fit turn the marriage to investment right? tongue ?

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 10:42am On Jul 21, 2015
RedBenson:


And she keeps ranting with pathetic level of reasoning and understanding. A path that will take her to destruction. Show me who has ever towed this your path and came back to testify the wonders she did. Any? Absolutely none! All the ladies who choose to play the path of extreme feminism only later show back to bite their fingers in regret. Freecocoa, for the very last time, go for deliverance. A devil is obviously behind you.
i dont think she is an extreme feminist, she is just a feminist.
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by betandwin8484: 10:51am On Jul 21, 2015
I have been meaning to open a thread like this but op beat me to it,, well done op good work...

My opinion : Not all black girls are after the GREEN, but 98.9% of NIGERIAN GIRLS are for sure have the GREEN as their PRIORITY IN LIFE. It's not a story it's a FACT. Then add when you marry a Naija girl you marry her whole family especially when you are rich,, In-law Wahala

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by danbrowndmf(m): 10:51am On Jul 21, 2015
sinaj:

I lost my fone
sorry abt that,

so which one are u using now?
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by stillreal(m): 10:54am On Jul 21, 2015
betandwin8484:
I have been meaning to open a thread like this but op beat me to it,, well done op good work...

My opinion : Not all black girls are after the GREEN, but 98.9% of NIGERIAN GIRLS are for sure have the GREEN as their PRIORITY IN LIFE. It's not a story it's a FACT. Then add when you marry a Naija girl you marry her whole family especially when you are rich,, In-law Wahala

Cracks me up when i see statistics like yours , 98.9%? might as well say all Nigerian girls are . Its not a fact, its your opinion

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 10:55am On Jul 21, 2015
sinaj:


to ur first question Sir... I will not nd cannot be penniless in diz Life. My being in skul is not goin to b for granted. hence, m not jumping to any proposal of a man coz of money.


to ya second quest., My dream in life ix NOT to marry a wealthy man, but rather to make a name for my self!

nd m pretty sure m not d only gurl with diz kinda goal Sir.

u guyz should modify dat mindset of gurls being after your money plzzzz!

THANKS!
hahahahagah...no be only school.
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Horlufemi(m): 10:56am On Jul 21, 2015
Nigerian Girls are not loyal. only about 0.1% are.

I am a hardworking guy trying to make ends meet but every girl I've met are either checking your financial status first or trying to get money from you.

To be honest I gave up on the search for a relationship cos these Nigerian girls ain't worth it. The really good ones are very very extremely hard to find.

There's no love in most if not all Nigerian ladies.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by betandwin8484: 10:56am On Jul 21, 2015
stillreal:


Cracks me up when i see statistics like yours , 98.9%? might as well say all Nigerian girls are . Its not a fact, its your opinion


grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin Dam right
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by betandwin8484: 10:58am On Jul 21, 2015
Horlufemi:
Nigerian Girls are not loyal. only about 0.1% are.

I am a hardworking guy trying to make ends meet but every girl I've met are either checking your financial status first or trying to get money from you.

To be honest I gave up on the search for a relationship cos these Nigerian girls ain't worth it. The really good ones are very very extremely hard to find.

There's no love in most if not all Nigerian ladies.


stillreal here's another statistic.. 0.1% are loyal, we all have stories to tell cool cool cool cool cool cool
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by stillreal(m): 10:59am On Jul 21, 2015
Just my opinion, maybe you guys need to get out more. Meet girls with a job, a life,ambitions etc, stop meeting pigeons and leaches

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 10:59am On Jul 21, 2015
YourMain:


Lol. Where the fragile ego kicks in. If the only way you can demand respect is financially then you're already at a loss. Why would you want to be with a woman that has no respect for you or that you have no respect for.

Imo, it's about mutual respect and understand. What is yours is mine and what is mine is yours. If you can't pay the phone bill ill pay it or if I can't pay the mortgage you pay it. Who cares who's bring the money in. You're in competition with your spouse, you're meant to love him her.

I don't believe it needs to be a situation of, I've money and you don't so you respect me. That's not really respect then. That money can go anytime and then what will yous have ?
hahahaha...in reality ladies' love is powered by men's financial statuses.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by stillreal(m): 11:01am On Jul 21, 2015
So 98% of Nigerian girls are after money, lets say there are 30 million girls in naija, means 29.4 million naija girls are after money, seriously ? think about it

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 11:05am On Jul 21, 2015
stillreal:
So 98% of Nigerian girls are after money, lets say there ar
e 30 million girls in naija, means 29.4 million naija girls are after money, seriously ? think about it
It is true...they want ready-made men!

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